Abaqeqeshi bomzali bavela njengendlela entsha yokuba abazali bathole ukusekelwa ngezinkinga ezihlukahlukene zokubeletha. Ngokungafani ne-psychotherapists abaphatha izimo zempilo yengqondo, abaqeqeshi baziphathe njengababonisi. Banikeza amathuluzi, imibono, nokusekela ngaphandle kokuphatha izimpikiswano ezingezansi, njenge-ADHD noma ukucindezeleka.
Ngingazi kanjani ukuthi ngidinga umqeqeshi?
Abaqeqeshi bomzali bangasiza ngezinkinga ezihlukahlukene.
Nazi izinsizakalo ezimbalwa umqeqeshi womzali angakwazi ukukunikeza:
- Izinkinga zokuziphatha - kukusiza ukuthi uthole izindlela eziphumelelayo zokubhekana nezinkinga ezifana nokuhlukunyezwa , ukuxabana kwabantwana , nokuphikisana .
- Izinkinga zokubeletha eziphathelene nokucindezeleka-thola izindlela zokuzinakekela wena nokuphatha ukucindezeleka kwakho.
- Imikhuba emihle kakhulu yokubeletha- ikuvumela ukuba ulandele imikhuba emihle yokucwaninga ngokuphathelene nezindaba ezifana nomsebenzi wesikole, i-electronics, nokuzivocavoca.
- Imisebenzi yentuthuko-imibono esekela ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba, ngokomzwelo, nentuthuko yengane yakho.
- Ukubeletha ngesikhathi sokuguquka noma inkinga -ngabe ungumzali ongcono kakhulu ongayenza phakathi nobunzima noma ubunzima, njengokuhlukanisa noma ukulahlekelwa othandekayo.
- Imibuzo yokubeletha - ibuza imibuzo ehlukahlukene mayelana nemikhuba emihle yokubeletha.
- Izinkinga eziwusizo -kusiza udale uhlelo lokubhekana nezinkinga zokunakekela izingane noma izinkinga zemfundo.
Izinkonzo Zinikezwa Kanjani?
Abanye abaqeqeshi bokubeletha baya ezindlini zabazali futhi banikeze impendulo ngenkathi unakekela ingane yakho.
Abanye abaqeqeshi bahlangana nabazali noma kuphi, kuhlanganise nomphakathi, noma ehhovisi lakho. Abanye abaqeqeshi bomzali ngaphezu kwezinsizakalo ngefoni, i-imeyili noma ngekomidi levidiyo.
Kungcono kuwe ukuthi unqume ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwezinsizakalo oluzozuzisa kakhulu kuwe. Nakuba abanye abazali bejabulela ukuba nomqeqeshi bangashayela ucingo ngesikhathi samahora kusihlwa, abanye abantu bakhetha ukuhlangana ubuso nobuso kuphela.
Izindleko Kangakanani Abaqeqeshi Abazali?
Abaqeqeshi basungula amanani abo. Ngokuvamile, ungalindela ukukhokha endaweni ethile ejikeleze u-$ 100 ngehora, kodwa izimali ziyahlukahluka kuye ngokuthi umqeqeshi nendawo ohlala kuyo.
Izinkampani zomshuwalense azihlanganisi izindleko zabaqeqeshi abazali. Uma wena noma ingane yakho unempilo yengqondo ehlongozwayo noma isifo sokuthuthukiswa, ungase uvumelekile ukuthola izinsiza ezihlanganiswa nomshuwalense wakho wezempilo. Khuluma nodokotela wakho, udokotela wezingane wengane yakho, noma inkampani yakho yomshuwalense ngqo uma ucabanga ukuthi ungakwazi ukuthola lolu hlobo lwenkonzo.
Yini Okufanele Ngiyifunde Ngomqeqeshi Womzali?
Ngenkathi kunezinhlelo ezithile zokuqinisekisa izitifiketi zabazali, abaqeqeshi abaningi abaqinisekisiwe. Abanye babo banezigriji zasekolishi kanye nesipiliyoni sokusebenza njengabaqaphi noma othisha, kodwa abanye baneziqu ezimbalwa. Buza ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lolwazi, ukuqeqeshwa, noma isitifiketi umqeqeshi ngaphambi kokwenza noma yiziphi izinqumo.
Kubalulekile ukuthola umqeqeshi ozizwa ukhululekile ukukhuluma ngezinkinga ezihlukahlukene zokubeletha. Ubuhlobo obuvulekile nobuqotho yisinyathelo sokuqala esibalulekile ekutholeni umuntu ongakusiza ukuba ufinyelele imigomo yakho.
Buza imibuzo mayelana nemigomo yomqeqeshi mayelana nemfihlo kanye nemaphepha.
Qiniseka ukuthi umuntu osebenza naye uzogcina izingxoxo zakho ziyimfihlo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthemba ukukhetha ukuhlangana nomqeqeshi ubuso nobuso, noma ufuna umuntu ozokhuluma naye ngefoni, ukusesha okusheshayo ku-inthanethi kungakusiza ukuthi uthole izinsizakalo ezingcono kakhulu kuwe. Abaningi babo banikeza ukubonisana kokuqala mahhala futhi ingxoxo esheshayo ingakusiza ukunquma ukuthi lowo mqeqeshi ufanelana kahle nezidingo zakho.