Futhi Okufanele Ukwenze Nabo
Sonke sizwile ngabantu abadala abafana nabantwana, abadala abanenhliziyo nomoya wezingane. Izingane ezinezinwele zihlukile; Bangabantwana abadala, abavame ukucabanga futhi benze njengabantu abadala. Okubaluleke nakakhulu, ngezinye izikhathi bazizwa befana nabantu abadala. Lo mzwa ungaholela ekukhungathekeni kokubili ingane enekhono kanye nabantu abadala abakuzungezile.
Ukukhungatheka kwezingane ezinezintandane
Ngenxa yokuthi bazibona njengabantu abadala, abanesiphiwo izingane bangase balindele ukuphathwa njengabantu abadala.
Bangazizwa behlambalazwa uma bengacelwa imibono yabo noma uma bengavunyelwe ukwenza izinqumo zabo. Kodwa-ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lezi zingane zihlakaniphile kangakanani, zisengabantwana futhi zingenalo uhlobo lokuphila okuhlangenwe nakho nokuqonda ukwenza izinhlobo zezinqumo abavame ukuzenza. Ngokwesibonelo, oneminyaka emithathu ubudala, akunakulindelwa ukwenza izinqumo ezingathinta ikusasa labo, futhi akufanele kulindeleke ukuthi zenze izinqumo ezihilela ukusebenza komndeni.
Ngeshwa, lezi zingane azikho uhlobo lokuvuthwa okudingekayo ukuze wazi ukuthi abanalo lonke ulwazi nokuqonda ukuthi ukwenza izinqumo ezithile kudinga. Abantwana abaningi abanesipiliyoni banomqondo oqinile wokulungile nokungalungile futhi bakholelwa ukuthi ukuphathwa njengokungaphansi komuntu omdala kuyingozi kakhulu.
Ukukhungatheka kwabo kungaholela ezinkingeni eziningi zokuziphatha. Bangakwazi ukuthukuthela noma ukuthukuthela, futhi baze babe abaqashi futhi befuna.
Ukukhathazeka kwabantu abadala
Abazali abanezingane ezinamakhono abazizwa sengathi kufanele baphathwe njengabantu abadala nabo bazizwa bekhungathekile. Bazizwa sengathi impilo iyodwa impi eqhubekayo, njengoba bezithola beqhubeka bephikisana nezingane zabo phezu kwemithetho nezinqumo. Bahlale becelwa ukuba balungise izizathu zabo kumntanakho ohlale ebuza ukuthi kungani kufanele enze okuthile angafuni ukukwenza noma akakwazi ukwenza okuthile afuna ukukwenza.
Abazali baphelelwe amandla ngokufutheka nokunye ukucasuka ngokomzwelo. Bangase baqale ukubona umntanakho njengengane engokomzimba, umbono ovame ukusekelwa yiziphakamiso zothisha.
Indlela Yokusingatha
- Zama Ukubheka Izinto Ezivela Enkathini Yengane Yakho
Laba bantwana bazibona njengabantu abadala futhi bangase bangaqondi ukuthi kungani bephathwa njengezingane. Akusho ukuthi udinga ukuwaphatha njengabantu abadala, kodwa kusho ukuthi kufanele baphathwe ngenhlonipho. Akukho okuzocasula lezingane ngaphezu kwesimo sengqondo sokuzidela noma sokulondoloza. - Nika Izizathu, Kodwa Ungavumelani
Uma ingane yakho idinga izizathu zemithetho, izicelo, nokuphika, ngakho-ke, zonke izindlela, zinike izizathu. Ngezinye izikhathi yilokho kuphela abafuna ukwazi. Noma kunjalo, ungangeni esicupheni sokuphikisana nendodana noma indodakazi yakho. Izingane ezinezinwele zingaba yizihlukumezi ezinhle, ngisho nabancane kakhulu, futhi abazali bavame ukuzibamba into efana nengxabano yenkantolo. (Bheka isihloko esithi Ungathini (Angeke) Ukuphikisana Nengane Enesibhakabhaka ) Namanje kubalulekile ukuba izingane zikwazi ukuthi abazali banokwedlula konke okwenzekayo ekhaya. - Nika Ingane Yakho Ezinye Izinketho
Cabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi lezi zinsana ezinesineke zidinga ukuzizwa sengathi zinokulawula ukuphila kwazo. Izingane zilokhu zitshelwa ukuthi zingakwazi futhi zingenakukwazi ukuzenza. Zama ukubanika ukulawula okuthile. Bavumele benze izinqumo ezithile, kodwa banciphise izinqumo abazenzayo ukuze uqhubeke nokulawula umndeni. Isibonelo, ungase ubuze indodakazi yakho uma ifuna sandwich yakhe ye-peanut butter noma i-jelly. Ungase ubuze indodana yakho uma ifuna ukuhlanza ikamelo lakhe ngaphambi noma ngemuva kokudla.
- Phatha Ingane Yakho Ngenhlonipho
Ngisho noma ingane yakho ingakwazi ukwenza izinqumo ezinkulu, ngokuqinisekile ingavunyelwa ukuveza umbono nokuthi umbono kufanele ulalele ngenhlonipho. Ukulalela umbono akudingi ukuba uvumelane nayo futhi kubalulekile ukuthi ingane yakho iqonde lokho kusukela ekuqaleni.
Ukuphila nezingane ezihlakaniphile akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa kungenziwa kube lula uma abazali beqonda izingane zabo ezinezintandokazi nokuthi yini ebangela ukuziphatha kwezingane zabo.