Ingabe wenza noma iyiphi yalezi zinto ezikhuthaza ukuziphatha okubi ezinganeni?
Yini oyishoyo? Awusoze wakhuthaza ukuziphatha okubi kumntanakho? Uma wenza noma yikuphi kwalokhu okulandelayo, kungenzeka ukuthi wenze njalo. Izingane zifunda ukuziphatha kabi, njengoba nje zifunda ukuba zihle futhi zinomusa futhi zihlelekile. Nazi ezinye izindlela ezivamile abazali abangaziqondi ngokukhuthaza ukuziphatha okubi ezinganeni.
1. Ukungaguquki
Uthi cha cha kulowo candy owengeziwe.
Ingane yakho iphonsa ukulingana. Unika ingane yakho ukuthi i-candy. Manje usungulwe emqondweni wengane yakho umlayezo ocacile wokuthi ukuphonsa ukulingana kuzomnika lokho akufunayo, futhi lokho okushiwo ngomzuzwana owodwa akukhathaleki ngoba ungashintsha ingqondo yakho.
2. Ungalandeli
Wake wake wabona umzali enza izinsongo ezingenalutho? Njengokuthi, "Uma wenza njalo isikhathi esisodwa, ngizohamba [ngisuse isikhathi se-TV; ngingakuthathi emdlalweni webhola; angakunikeli i-ayisikhilimu, njll]," bese ungalandeli ngemiphumela , nakuba ingane engenzi lokho umzali akucele. Uma unomkhuba wokwenza lokhu, ingane yakho cishe ingumkhuba wokungalaleli uma umcela ukuba enze okuthile noma angenzi okuthile. Kungani kufanele? Ayikho imiphumela.
3. Ukuxolisa
Usekhathele. Usengumfana. Ulambile. Yiqiniso, izingane zingenakulindelwa ukuba zibe ngamaphesenti angu-100 enkathi yesikhathi-akulungile futhi akunakwenzeka.
Izingane zilamba futhi zikhathele futhi zikhwabanisa, ikakhulu uma zisencane futhi zingakabi namakhono okuveza imizwelo yazo. Ngisho nezindala ezindala esikoleni zingaba nezikhathi zabo. Kodwa uma wenza izizathu zengane yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi, khona-ke i-Houston, sinenkinga.
4. Ukukhala
Ungase ucabange ukuthi ukumemeza kuzokwenza kube lula ukuthi ingane yakho ikuzwe futhi ilalele, kodwa njengokwesiphahla, yisixazululo sesikhathi esifushane esingahle silahlekelwe kuphela ukusebenza kwesikhathi eside, kodwa singalimaza ubuhlobo bakho.
Ukukhuluma nengane yakho ngendlela enhle kodwa eqinile kuzokuthola imiphumela engcono, futhi kuzoqinisa isibopho sakho somzali nengane .
5. Ukusongela
Kukhona umehluko phakathi kokuxwayisa ingane ukuthi kuyoba nomphumela uma ephutha (ulahlekelwe isikhathi sokudlala ividiyo uma eshaya umfowabo, isibonelo) futhi esongela isijeziso. Esinye isifundo esithakazelisayo sibonisa ukuthi lapho izingane zisengozini yokujeziswa ngokuqamba amanga, kungenzeka ukuthi zingamanga . Futhi usongela ngaphandle kwemiphumela yangempela [Bheka # 2: Ungalandeli], bese unikeza ingane yakho isizathu esincane sokwenza lokho okuceliwe.
6. Ukushaya
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ukujeziswa komuntu kuholela emiphumeleni engathandekayo ezinganeni ezinjengobudlova okwenyuka, ukunciphisa ukuzwelana , ukuziphatha okungahambi kahle komphakathi, nokunciphisa ukuzethemba, phakathi kwabanye. Ukwengeza lokhu ukungabi nesikhathi sokusebenza kahle (izingane ziye zaboniswa ukuthi zihlukumezeka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi isifundo abafunda ukugwema ubuhlungu, hhayi indlela yokulawula ukuziphatha kwabo futhi bafunde ukufuna ukwenza okulungile ukukhetha) kwenza isijeziso somuntu sibe yisisombululo esingapheli isikhathi eside kunoma iyiphi inkinga yokuziphatha yabantwana.
7. Ukuhleka noma ukumomotheka ekuziphatheni kwabo
Yebo, kungase kube mnandi lapho ingane yakho ihlehla phezulu futhi ihle esihlalweni esitolo sokudlela ngenkathi ihlabelela ingoma yakhe oyithandayo noma idla i-pasta eminwe yakhe.
Kodwa imikhuba emibi kanye nokuziphatha okubi akuyona into ejabulisayo kulabo abakuzungezile, futhi uma uhluleka ukuyeka ukuziphatha okubi uma ucabanga ukuthi iyamangalisa, ingane yakho izoqhubeka ukwenza lokho akuzwayo ukukwenza futhi ingase izame ukuphakama, futhi kungenzeka ukuphazamiseka nakakhulu ukuze uthole ukuhleka okungaphezulu.