Ukucabanga Okuhle Uma Ulindele Amawele, Izintathu, noma i-Quads
Uma ukhulelwe ngamawele noma ngokuphindaphindiwe , sihalalisela! Ungase uzizwe ujabule futhi ujabule, ikakhulu uma usuhambe uhambo olude ukuze ufike kuleli phuzu.
Kungokwemvelo ukuzwa ukwesaba, ukwesaba noma ngisho nokudabuka. Kunezingozi zokukhulelwa okuningi.
Ungase ukhathazeke ngokulahlekelwa izinsana noma uzibuze ukuthi uzokwazi yini ukuzinakekela uma zifika.
Ungase uzizwe uthukuthele - ukukhulelwa kwakunzima kuwe, futhi manje ubhekana nokukhulelwa okungenzeka kunzima nokubeletha.
Kuyiqiniso kunezingozi zokuphindaphinda . Udinga ukwaziswa ngezingozi ukuze ukwazi izibonakaliso ezinzima futhi ukhethe izinqumo.
Kodwa-ke, kunezici eziningi ezinhle zokuphatha nokukhuphula izingane ezingaphezu kweyodwa ngesikhathi.
Ukulahla akulungile, kodwa ukugxila kuphela kumbi akuyona enkulu.
Nanka eminye imibono emihle kumawele nama-multiples.
Izinhliziyo ezimbili (noma ezintathu noma ezine)
Khumbula uma uthemba ukubona noma yikuphi ukushaya kwenhliziyo esibukweni se-ultrasound?
Isikhathi sokuqala i-ultrasound tech ayikutholi kuphela eyodwa kodwa ngaphezulu kwenhliziyo eyodwa, ungase ujabule futhi wesabe.
Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, njengoba uhamba kancane kancane ukwamukela ukukhulelwa okuphindaphindiwe, ukubona okungaphezulu kweyodwa kwesikrini kuzothuthukisa inhliziyo yakho.
Ngaphambilini (nokuningi!) Ukubonwa kokuhamba kwe-Fetal
Abomama bezimpande bangathatha ukunyakaza kwamaviki amasonto ngaphambi koomama bama-singletons.
Lapho ukuhamba kokuqala kuqala, kungase kudingeke ukuthi uthule futhi usale. Izinzwa zingase zibe lula, njengezimvemvane.
Njengoba ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka, ukunyakaza kuzobonakala nakakhulu.
Ngasekupheleni, abantu abahlezi eduze kwakho bangakwazi ukubona ama-bumps kanye nama-squamp!
Yenza kabili umntwana ojabulisayo
Njengomama we-multiples, uzothola ukujabulela kabili (noma kathathu noma kathathu!) Umntwana uyajabula.
Amama omunye angase umntwana abheke ingane yakhe elele futhi amomotheka ngenjabulo.
Kodwa uzothola ukubuka ubuso obunye, bese kuthi omunye ubuso obumnandi, futhi mhlawumbe omunye!
Uzophinde uhambe ngokudabuka kokumomotheka kokuqala, i-giggle yokuqala, igama lokuqala, isinyathelo sokuqala, njalonjalo, okungaphezu kwesisodwa.
Injabulo ayiyona encane kumntwana olandelayo. Isikhathi ngasinye esikhulu siyigugu.
Ukujabula kokubuka izingane eziningi zikhula ndawonye
Ungase uqale ukuzizwa sengathi ushumayela ucwaningo olusha ekhaya lakho, njengoba ubheka izingane zakho zikhula ngamazinga ahlukene nangezindlela ezahlukene.
Sonke siyazi ukuthi umuntu ngamunye uyedwa. Lokho kuthiwa, asivame ukufika ukubona izingane noma izingane ngesikhathi esifanayo, zikhuliswe endaweni efanayo, zikhule ndawonye.
Isibonelo, abantwana bakho bangase baqale ukuhamba ngezikhathi ezehlukene kodwa futhi bafinyelele leso senzakalo esibaluleke kakhulu ngezindlela ezahlukene. Omunye angase ahlaziye bese ehamba bese ehamba. Enye ingase iguze azungezile ekamelweni futhi ingalokothi iqhume.
Uma unamawele afanayo, ungase uzibuze izinto abazenzayo ezifanayo uma kuqhathaniswa nezinto abazenzayo ezihlukile kakhulu.
Uma unomfana nentombazane, ungathola kuyathakazelisa ukuthi badlala kanjani noma bathuthuke ngezindlela ezahlukene (noma ezifanayo!).
Abadlali abadlala ngokuzenzekelayo
Amawele angase ahlale engcono kakhulu kubalingani bedlalwa nabo, njengabaphi abantakwethu ababili. Kodwa eminyakeni encane ikakhulukazi, bayoba ngabalingani babo bokudlala kuqala. Umqondo wokuphila ngaphandle kwamawele abo ngeke neze uvele kubo.
Njengoba bekhula, amanye amawele ahlala eseduze nabo abadlala nabo. Bangase babe nobuhlobo obuseduze kakhulu nabantwana abadala njengabantu abadala.
Umndeni Ozenzakalelayo
Uma unamawele, futhi ayenawo owokuqala, usuvele unenani lobukhulu bomndeni waseMelika wezingane ezimbili.
Umndeni ozenzakalelayo!
Thola ama-Diapers nama-Nightless Sleep Out of the Way
Yiqiniso, uma uhlela ukuba nokuningi, lokhu kungase kungabi inzuzo enkulu.
Kodwa-ke, uma ucabanga ukuthi lezi zizoba izingane zakho zokugcina, uzokwazi ukuhamba ngezinsuku zokuhamba ngezinsuku nokulala ubusuku ngaso sonke isikhathi, esikhundleni sezinyanga ezine kuya kwemihlanu.
I-diaper yakho iyashintsha futhi ukuntuleka kokulala kuyoba namandla kakhulu kunabo abanakekela ingane eyodwa. Akuwona wonke umuntu oyovuma le ndlela elula.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma uzogxila ezintweni ezinhle, kungenzeka futhi ugubhe umzila wenkampu ye-boot ephindaphindiwe - ophazamisayo kodwa ngokushesha kakhulu!
Gxilisa Abangane Nabezizwe Ezingxenyeni
Uma ngabe ubhekene nokuhlukumeza okwesikhashana, cishe ulalele isabelo sakho sabazali sikhalaza ngezingane zabo.
Kungenzeka ukuthi wezwa ngisho nokuthukuthela okuphawulayo , "Zicabange wena unenhlanhla yokuthi awunazo izingane! Zithatha impilo yakho!"
Kulungile, manje, ungakwazi ukukhipha labo bantu.
Uma beqala ukukhononda ngomntwana wabo noma umntwana oyedwa, ungasho ukuthi, "Nginamawele." (Noma triplets, noma quads, noma yini onayo.)
Ukuze uthole umphumela omuhle, yisho ngokungenasisekelo. With ingilazi yewayini esandleni.
Bangase baphendule, "O, angikwazi ukuphatha amawele!"
Yilapho wena, futhi, ngezwi eliphansi elihlelekile, "Ngisho noma kunjalo, ngiya ezulwini."
Futhi uma bekumemezela ukuthi ungumama obaba noma ubaba, wamukele lelo gama ngokuziqhenya.
(Ngizizwa isidingo sokuthi uma ungazizwa uphatha amawele noma kathathu kahle, lokho kuyinto evamile, futhi.cela usizo kulabo abangakunikeza ukusekela okuhle. Kodwa emcimbini, qhubekani nibambe kancane mayelana nokuthi unamandla kangakanani!)
Gxila Kuhlangothini Oluhle Lwezibalo
Yebo, ukubeletha kwamawele amabili nokuningi kuza nezingozi. Kodwa lezo zingozi nazo zihlangene kahle.
Isibonelo, uma ama-10% wamamawele amabili ahlangene nesifo sikashukela , ama-90% wamama amawele angabi.
Uma omunye kumama omane amawele ahlangana nokukhulelwa komfutho wokukhulelwa, abathathu abane abanezinkinga ezinegazi eliphezulu.
Uma ama-10% wamawele afanayo afana nesipiliyoni esisodwa se-placenta syndrome ye-twin-twin yokumpontshelwa (TTTS) , 90% akwenzi.
Amaphesenti angamashumi ayisithupha amawele azalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi . Kodwa ama-40% azalwa ngesikhathi. Kulawa mawele azalwe emva kwamasonto angama-35, cishe uhhafu azalwa ngamanzi.
Qaphela ukuthi ungasebenzisi uhlangothi oluhle lwezibalo ukunganaki izimpawu noma ukushaya ama-oda odokotela.
Ukulinganisela kokulindela kwakho ngokucophelela, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ube nokukhulelwa okubili okunempilo futhi okujabulisayo.
Okuningi kumawele:
- Izingozi Zokukhulelwa Zesibili
- Yini Okukhulisa Amathuba Angami Ukuba Namawele
- Izimpawu Nezibonakaliso Zokukhulelwa Zesibili
- Ama-Clomid Twins: Ziyini Izinkinga Ozozibona Ngamawele?
- Imibuzo: Ingabe Izinkinga Zakho Zokuthola Amawele Amakhulu Kunokuningi?
Okuningi mayelana nokukhulelwa:
- Yiziphi Izinga ze-hCG Ezijwayelekile?
- Ukwenza isimemezelo sokukhulelwa emva kokungahambi kahle
- Ngikhulelwe! Manje?
- Imibuzo evamile kanye nokukhathazeka Emva kokuthola imiphumela emihle yokuhlolwa kokukhulelwa
- Indlela Yokuthola Ukukhulelwa Okumpilo Ngemva kokungabi nalutho
- Isikhathi Sokuthatha Isivivinyo Sokukhulelwa
- Izimpawu Nezibonakaliso Zokuqala Zokukhulelwa
Imithombo:
Schmitz T, Carnavalet Cde C, Azria E, Lopez E, Cabrol D, Goffinet F. "Imiphumela ye-Neonatal yokukhulelwa ngamawele ngokusho kwendlela yokuhlela ehleliwe." I-Obstetrics ne-Gynecology. 2008 Mar; 111 (3): 695-703.
Ukuzama Ukukhulelwa. March we-Dimes. Ifinyelele ngomhla ka-3 Febhuwari 2012. http://www.marchofdimes.com/pregnancy/trying_multiples.html