Nakuba isikhathi esisheshayo singase siphumelele uma uneminyaka engu-5, ngesikhathi ingane yakho iphendukela ku-10, uzodinga amasu amasha wokuqeqesha. Ukuze amasu wokuqeqesha asebenze kahle, adinga ukufanisa izidingo zentuthuko yengane yakho.
Izindlela zobuchwepheshe ezifanele zokuguga azigcini nje ukuvimbela ukuziphatha okubi, kodwa futhi ziqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ifunda amakhono adingekayo ukuba abe umuntu omdala onomthwalo wemfanelo.
Kubalulekile ukuthola amasu afanelekayo wokuqeqesha okuzohlangabezana nezidingo zomntanakho kanye nokusiza ukuthuthukiswa kwakhe.
Funda Ngentuthuko Yengane Yakho
Ukungabi nolwazi lokuthuthukiswa kwengane kungaba yinkinga enkulu kubo bobabili abazali kanye nengane. Abazali abalindele ukuthi abaneminyaka emibili ubudala bahlale ngokuthula endaweni yokudlela ekhulile bazokhungatheka uma ingane yabo ingakwazi ukwenza kanjalo.
Ngenxa yalokho, bangase bazame ukujezisa ingane yabo uma ebopha etafuleni noma ezama ukuphuma esihlalweni sakhe. Kodwa, ukuziphatha kwengane kungahle kuthuthuke futhi ukujeziswa kungenza izinto zibe zimbi nakakhulu.
Ngakho kubalulekile ukuzifundisa ngalokho ongakulindela ekuthuthukiseni kwengane yakho ngayinye. Lokhu kungakusiza ukuba uhlakulele ukulindela okunengqondo.
Uma ufunda ukuthi yini ongayilindela kusuka kumntanakho, ungafaka imingcele yeminyaka efanelekayo ezobeka ingane yakho impumelelo. Isibonelo, isikhathi sokulala ngesikhathi esifanele kanye nemisebenzi edingekayo yobudala kuyoqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ifunda futhi ikhula ngendlela eyosisiza ukuba abe ngcono kakhulu.
Njengoba ekhula futhi ekhula, kufanele ulungise ukulindela kwakho ngokufanele.
Kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni, noma kunjalo, ukuthi izingane zikhula ngamanani ahlukene. Akuwona wonke umuntu oneminyaka engu-3 ubudala ongeyena indlu yangasese oqeqeshwe hhayi bonke abaneminyaka engu-16 abanomthwalo okwanele wokushayela.
Ngakho ngaphezu kwesikhathi seminyaka yengane yakho, gcina nengqondo yakhe yokuvuthwa engqondweni.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwakhe ngokomzwelo nentuthuko yezenhlalakahle kungase kungahambisani nesikhathi sakhe sokulandelana kwesikhathi futhi kufanele ulungise ukulindela kwakho ngokufanele.
Imithetho Ehlukene Yezingane Ezihlukile
Kunempilo yokuba nemithetho ehlukene yabantwana abahlukene. Isibonelo, ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-14 ayidingi ukulala ngehora lesishiyagalolunye ebusuku ngoba nje uneminyaka engu-6 ubudala.
Ngakho-ke ngenkathi uzofuna ukuba neminye imithetho yasekhaya wonke umuntu olandelayo, kufanele futhi ube nemithetho efanelekayo yengane ngayinye.
Ukulindela imibhikisho evela ezinganeni ezincane ezicabanga ukuthi imithetho ayikho kahle. Kuvamile ukuba ingane encane ifune ukufana nabantwana bakithi abadala. Kubalulekile ukubakhumbuza ukuthi uma sebekhulile, bayothola amalungelo amaningi.
Lungisa Imithetho Yakho Nezinqubo Zokulahlwa Njengoba Ingane Yakho Ikhula
Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula futhi ikhula, izidingo zomyalelo zizoshintsha. Nakuba ukuphuma kwesikhathi kungasebenza kahle uma esemncane, ukuthumela ingane yakho ekamelweni lakhe njengoba intombazane ingase ibonakale ifana nomvuzo, kunesijeziso.
Thatha izinkulumo ezivela kumntanakho mayelana nezindlela zokuziphatha. Uma uthatha ithoyizi yakhe oyithandayo lapho eshaya umfowabo, kodwa uyaqhubeka eshaya umfowabo noma kunjalo, imiphumela yakho ayisebenzi. Kungase kudingeke uthole omunye umphumela omubi ozosebenza kakhulu.
Phinda uhlole imithetho onayo yengane yakho ngezikhathi ezithile. Isibonelo, uma ehlobo eledlule uyamgibela ibhayisikili lakhe, kulo nyaka angase alungele ukugibela endleleni.
Vele uqinisekise ukuthi uchaza ngokucacile noma yikuphi ukuguqulwa kwemithetho futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ingane yakho iyaqonda kahle imithetho ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuyiqalisa.
Amasu Angasebenza Nganoma Yimuphi Umnyaka
Kunezinqubo ezithile zokuziphatha ezingasebenza ezinganeni nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Kodwa kungase kudingeke ukuthi kulungiswe ukuhlangabezana nezidingo ezithile zomntanakho:
- Ukuqiniswa okunamandla - Buyisa ukuziphatha okuhle kwengane yakho, njengokusebenza kanzima emsebenzini wakhe wesikole noma ukuthola imisebenzi yakhe eyenziwa ngesikhathi. Izingane ezisencane ziphendula kahle emashadi wezitika ngenkathi intsha ingenza kahle ngehlelo lomnotho we- token . Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho ingakanani ubudala, kubalulekile ukunikeza abantwana amandla okukhuthaza lapho benza kahle.
- Ukudumisa - abantwana abancomayo abancomayo bangabakhuthaza ukuba baqhubeke nomsebenzi omuhle. Futhi udumo lwezingane ezindala lubakhumbuza ukuthi basendleleni efanele.
- Ukunakeka okuhle - Sebenzisa ikhwalithi eyodwa ngesikhathi esisodwa nezingane zakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ziningi kangakanani. Ukwakha ubudlelwane obuhle kwandisa isifiso sabo sokulalela imiyalo yakho futhi kunciphisa imizamo yabo yokwenza ukuheha.
- Imiphumela emihle - Qhathanisa nemiphumela yokuziphatha kabi komntanakho. Uma egibela ibhayisikili ngaphandle kwemingcele, thatha ibhayisikili lakhe. Uma umbamba usebenzisa ifoni yakhe phakathi nobusuku, thatha ucingo lwakhe.
> Imithombo
> I-American Psychological Association: Isiyalo Esihle Ngesikhathi.
> HealthyChildren.org: Ukuyala ingane yakho.