Izingane zenza zonke izinhlobo zezinto eziyingqayizivele. Ngokwesibonelo, omunye umama wakhala ngokuthi indodana yakhe inamathele umunwe ngaphakathi kwe-rectum ngesikhathi sokugeza. Nakuba kungase kuzwakale njengokuziphatha okubi noma okuphazamisayo, kubuye kuzwakala njengento evamile futhi evamile ukuthi ingane encane ingayenza.
Ingabe Lokho Okuvamile?
Yiqiniso, uyaqonda ukuthi kuyinto engafanele futhi engafanelekile, kodwa ingane encane ayikwazi ukwenza lokho kuxhumana.
Esikhathini esinikeziwe, ingane encane ayinalo ulwazi oludlule ngalolu phiko futhi ayikwazi ukubikezela imiphumela yokwenza into enjengale. Ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi uvele nje ehlola ingxenye entsha yomzimba wakhe ukuthi waqaphela nje, njengokungathi uma efaka umunwe wakhe emlonyeni wakhe, ekhaleni noma endlebeni.
Ukuziphatha okufanayo okufana 'okuncane' kufaka izingane ezisetshenziswa nge-poop noma zibeka izimbungulu emlonyeni wazo.
Njengezinye izinto, ngoba kungokwejwayelekile noma okulindelekile akusho ukuthi akufanele usize ingane yakho ifunde ukungayenzi. Futhi njengoba kuyingozi engokwempilo, lokho kwenza kubaluleke nakakhulu ukuba ayeke ukwenza lokho.
Ukumisa izinyathelo ezihamba phambili ezincane
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuyiqonda uma uzama ukuthola ingane ukuba ayeke ukwenza into enjengaleyo ukuthi uma uphazamisa, ungase uqinise ukuziphatha futhi angakwenza ngokuningi.
Uma bekuyisikhathi sokuqala ukuthi wakwenza, ungamane uyishaya indiva futhi angeke akwenze futhi.
Vele uhlale uphile futhi ubheke ngokucophelela noma yiziphi izimpawu ukuthi uzokwenza futhi. Uma enza, zama ukumphazamisa ekuziphatheni, njengokumnika ithoyizi lokubhukuda ukubamba noma ukudlala umdlalo.
Uma eqhubeka ekwenza, uphinde uhlale uphelile, ugeze izandla, bese umtshela ukuthi 'cha, ungenzi lokho futhi' noma 'kungcono ukufaka umunwe wakho lapho.'
Lokhu futhi isebenzela ingane encane eyabeka izandla zayo ku-diaper yayo engcolile futhi yabeka yonke indawo.
Kulesi simo, ngaphezu kokuhlala uzolile futhi uhlanza udaba lweqiniso, ngaphandle kokuthola okuningi, ungazama ukunciphisa ukufinyelela komntanakho kumuntu onobuhle. Ukuba naye agqoke izingubo angakwazi ukuphuma kalula noma ukuguqula ingubo eyodwa uvame ukwenza umkhawulo wokufinyelela ku-diaper engcolile.
Ukuvuselela izintandokazi ezincane
Kunezinye eziningi zokuziphatha ezincane ezinjengalezi esizibeka engozini yokuqinisa uma singaqapheli.
Kusukela ezincane ezisuke zizibamba ezintsheni ezisalumayo , uma ucasukile futhi ujabule ngokweqile, ukusabela kwakho kungenzeka empeleni kukhuthaze ingane yakho ukuba iqhubeke ukuyenza.
Ungayiqinisa kanjani?
Isibonelo, uma usana lwakho noma ingane encane eyaziqhayisa kuze kube sezingeni lokuzihlanza, unga:
- Thola ukucasuka kakhulu, ujabule kakhulu, noma uphathe kabi
- Yiba nolaka ngokumtshela ukuba ayeke ukwenza lokho
- Gcina ukudonsa iminwe yakhe emlonyeni wakhe
Ukwenza noma yikuphi lokhu noma konke lokhu kungahle kwenzeke ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi kube yisigaba esivamile sokuthuthukiswa esingasheshe sibe yinkinga yesikhathi eside.
Esikhundleni sokwenza into enkulu ekuhlanzeni kwakhe, kungaba ngcono ukuhlala uzolile futhi uhlanzeke indaba-yeqiniso futhi wenze sengathi akukho okwenzekile.
Kungasiza futhi ukumphazamisa futhi ugcine izandla zakhe zimatasa uma kubonakala sengathi ulungele ukuzihlambalaza, futhi umgcine esimweni sokudla, naps, nangesikhathi sokulala, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ukucindezeleka akubambi lokhu kuziphatha.
Bheka udokotela wezingane uma eqhubeka enza lokho, uma engadli kahle, unenkathazo yokuqala ukudla okuqinile, akazukuthola isisindo kahle, noma uma ehlala ehlushwa, njll.
Iningi lezingane ezincane noma ezicasulayo zokuziphatha nezindlela ezincane ziyahamba uma ubavumela.