Amathiphu abasebenzi be-Daycare nabazali kwabantwana abashaya
Uthole lo mlayezo owesabekayo kusukela ekunakekeleni kwesikhashana kwezingane zakudala ukuthi ubelokhu emanga ezinye izingane? Noma, ingabe ungumhlinzeki wezinsuku futhi uzibuze ukuthi benzeni uma lokhu kuziphatha kuvela?
Ngenkathi ukushaya kungukuziphatha okujwayelekile okuncane , ngokungenelela okufanele, iningi lezingane liye luma emva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa noma amasonto. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungenzi noma yini efana nokujezisa ingane encane ngokumshaya noma ukumshaya.
Bona ukuthi wenzeni nokuthi yini okufanele uyigweme.
Abasebenzi Bokungenelela Ukuyeka Ukubamba Nge-Daycare
Izingane ezincane cishe cishe zincane kakhulu ukukhuluma noma ngisho nokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ezinye ukungenelela kungenzeka empeleni ziqinise ukuziphatha kokulimaza .
Kunalokho, abasebenzi be-daycare bangagcina belula futhi basebenzise la maqhinga:
- Zama ukungenelela noma ukumphazamisa futhi uthi "Ungalimi" ngokuqinile, kodwa ngokuthula, uma uzomuma. Lokhu kusho ukuthi umuntu kufanele agcine iso eliseduze kuye noma emthunzini wakhe izinsuku ezimbalwa, ngokucophelela ukwenza ngale ndlela ukuze angazi ukuthi uyakuthola ukunakwa okwengeziwe.
- Yisho "Cha" noma "Ungalimi" ngokuqinile, kodwa ngokuzithoba, uma eduma.
- Ngemva kokumangaza, kungaba umqondo omuhle ukumsusa kude nomunye ingane futhi ungamnaki imizuzu embalwa, nakuba lokhu akuyona isikhathi sokuhlala esimisiwe njengokuba ungayisebenzisa kumntwana osekhulile
- Mkhumbuze ukuthi angalume ngezikhathi ezithile, kufaka phakathi mhlawumbe isikhumbuzo esifushane sokuthi "Ukubheja kubuhlungu."
- Nikeza udumo nokunakekelwa okuhle lapho engaboni futhi edlala kahle.
- Hlala esimweni esihle sonke usuku, kufaka phakathi ukudla, i- naps , nesikhathi sokudlala.
- Gwema ukucela umzali ukuba athathe umntwana futhi amthume ekhaya ngemuva kokumanga, ngoba lokho kungasenza ukuqinisa ukukhala.
Ukungenelela kwabazali Ukubamba Nge-Daycare
Kungasiza futhi ukwazi ukuthi kungani ingane encane futhi nini.
Ingabe uphelelwe amandla? Ingabe uhlezi ? Ingabe enye ingane yazama ukuthatha ingubo yakhe noma ithoyizi? Ingabe kukhona okwenzeka ekhaya okuphuma kumkhuba wakhe ongakulungisa?
Ekhaya, qiniseka ukuthi unamathela esimweni esihle futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ulala ubusuku obuhle. Izingane ezisuke zithele ngokweqile noma zicindezelekile zingase zilume ekunakekelweni kwelanga. Njengoba engasekho ekhaya, akukho okuningi ongakwenza ekhaya nokho.
Ukuchitha izinsuku ezimbalwa naye, ukuze ungenele futhi umenze ahlase ngaphansi kokulawula kungase kusize, nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi uqale ukumanga futhi uma ungekho. Noma umvolontiya ukusiza kwenye ingxenye yezinsizakalo zezinsuku ukuze omunye wabasebenzi abone umntanakho futhi aqinisekise ukuthi akalume muntu ngezinsuku ezimbalwa.
Ungase ucabange ukuthi ukumanga kwakhe okuphikelela kungasho ukuthi lolu suku lwezinsuku alufanelekile. Mhlawumbe lihlelekile kakhulu noma alihlelekile ngokwanele. Ingabe kukhona izingane eziningi kakhulu ekamelweni?
Khumbula ukuthi ngenxa yokuthi ukunakekelwa kwesikhashana akuyona into efanelekile akusho ukuthi akusilo ukunakekelwa kahle kwansuku. Kungenzeka ukuthi benza konke okulungile futhi akusebenzi nje ingane yakho ngesizathu esithile.
Ukunyusa ngokweqile ukuze uthole ukungena
Enye yezinto ezimbi kakhulu ngokuba ne-biter yindlela abazali bezingane abaye bazenza ngayo bakwenza uzizwe.
Ngaphandle kokuba izingane zabo zilume, ngokuvamile aziqondi ukuthi ukukhala kuyindlela evamile yokuthuthukiswa, akuyona neze engozini kumntanakho, futhi cishe cishe noma yimuphi umntanakho angashintsha.
Zama ungazizwa unamahloni noma uqaphele ukubukeka okungcolile ongayithola kusuka kubazali bezingane eziba nzima futhi nje zigxile ekusizeni ingane yakho ukuyeka ukukhala.
Okudingayo Ukuze Ukwazi Nge-Biting
Ukubheka ukuziphatha okuvamile noma isigaba sezingane eziningi ezincane, okuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu abazali abaningi abayidingayo.
Ezinye izinto ezibalulekile okufanele wazi ngokubamba zihlanganisa:
- Izingane ezincane zivame ukuluma lapho zivutha, zigcwele, zihawukela, zikhungathekile, noma zithukuthele. Futhi bangaluma bevele babone ukuthi kwenzekani uma beluma, okuyiqiniso ngokukhethekile ezinganeni nasezincane ezisencane, okungenzeka ukuthi zivele zihlola futhi zihlole umhlaba wazo.
- Kufanele uqaphele ukuthi ungazwakali uma ingane yakho ibetha, okungase kugcizelele ukukhala ngenxa yokuthi ingane yakho ijabule ngokuphendula kwayo.
- Ungenzi lutho olufana nokulimaza ingane yakho, ukujezisa ingane yakho ngokomzimba, noma ukubeka noma yini emlonyeni wakhe lapho ehlaba.
> Imithombo:
> Imibuzo yokubheka. I-American Psychological Association.
> Solomons, Hope C. UMDLALO. Ukubamba izikhungo zokunakekelwa kwesikhashana: Ukukhubazeka, ukuvimbela, nokungenelela. I-Journal Yokunakekelwa Kwezempilo Kwezingane. Umqulu 5, Issue 4, July-Agasti 1991, amakhasi 191-196
> Ukuqonda nokuphendula Izingane Ezishaya. Inhlangano Kazwelonke Yezemfundo Yezingane Ezincane.