'Akukho Ukubhuka Okudingekayo' Isu Lokujabulisa Abazali
Lapho umama wezingane ezintathu ebizwa ngokuthi amahora amabili ngaphambi kokusebenza okudingekayo emsebenzini ukukhansela ukubukela izingane, ukusabela okumangalisa kwakuyi "oh kahle." Kungakapheli imizuzu engama-20, le ntsha yayithokozela ngenjabulo emotweni futhi yathathwa ekunakekelweni kwezingane ezingenayo , lapho yayithandwa khona, isondliwe futhi igcinwa ngokuvamile ijabule. Bayajabula kakhulu, eqinisweni, ukuthi abafuni ukuya ekhaya lapho behlwithwe ngalobo busuku.
Njengokuba imindeni noma abazali abangabodwa bethanda isikhathi eside noma bebhekene nokungabi khona kwekhwalithi etholakalayo kanye / noma abathengi abanokwethenjelwa, ukhetho olusha lubonakala luyinto ethandwa ezweni lonke. Siyakwamukela ekunakekelweni kwezingane kokungena!
Izikhungo zokunakekelwa ezingenayo zihlinzeka kalula futhi zijabulise, kangangokuthi izingane eziningi zibheka njengokuthi "ubusuku bezingane" futhi zikhwaza ukuhamba. Ababambe iqhaza bafika emcimbini emahogweni amaningi, ama-safaris, ama-rockfests, imibukiso yamalenta, i-luaus, ngisho namaqembu e-diva ngenkathi abazali babo basebenzisa isikhathi sabantu abadala. Ukunakekelwa okungena ngaphakathi kubandakanya abantu abadala "izinsuku zobusika," imilayezo, ukufika emishadweni noma imisebenzi emidala kuphela, noma imicimbi yebhizinisi. Abazali abangabodwa baye bathola ukuthi le nkonzo ikhangayo.
Yikuphi Okushiwo Ngokucophelela Ekunakekeleni?
Izikhungo zokunakekela izingane ezingenayo zivame ukugijimelana kakhulu nokunakekelwa kwendabuko , ngezinye izinto ezimbalwa. Ezindaweni eziningi, abasebenzi bathola uhlobo olufanayo lokuqeqeshwa njengabasebenzi bezinsuku ... empeleni, abasebenzi abaningi ezikhungweni zokunakekelwa kwesikhungo basebenza isikhathi esithile ezindaweni zokungena ekukhokheni imali eyengeziwe.
Hlola iziqinisekiso: izikhungo kufanele zinikezwe ilayisensi futhi zisebenze ngaphansi kwemithetho efanayo esebenza ezindaweni zokunakekelwa kwesikhashana esifundazweni sakho. Abasebenzi kufanele babe usizo lokuqala kanye neCPR eqeqeshwe, babe nokuqeqeshwa kwasebuntwaneni, futhi babe nolwazi lokusebenza nezingane. Izindawo eziningi zibuye zihlole ukuhlolwa kwesizinda sobugebengu kubasebenzi kodwa zicele ukuqinisekisa.
Ngokuvamile, izindawo zokunakekelwa ezigodini zivulekile ngo-9 noma ngo-10 ntambama ngeviki nakwe-11 ntambama noma phakathi kwamabili ngezimpelasonto. Ezinye zivuliwe ngeSonto; ezinye azikho. Amahora adlule atholakalayo ngezikhathi ezikhethekile, njengo-Eva Wonyaka Omusha. Nakuba "ukungena" kusho lokho kuphela, abazali "okufanele" babe nokunakekelwa kwezingane kufanele babize futhi benze ukubhuka kwengane yabo. Ngenxa yokuthi ama-ratios abasebenzi abancane kufanele agcinwe, isikhungo singaba sigcwele futhi angekho izingane ezingavunyelwa. Izindawo eziningi zokungena kuzo zidinga ukubhuka kwezinsana ezincane ngezinhloso zokuqashwa, ngakho-ke iseluleko esingcono kakhulu ukuhlola nesakhiwo kuqala ukuthola inqubo yabo.
Ingabe Ukunakekelwa Kwangaphakathi Kunenzuzo?
Okumangalisa ukuthi izinketho eziningi zokunakekelwa okukhokhwayo mayelana nokulingana kwabazali abadala abadala zikhokhwa ngokubuka izingane ezingaphezu kweyodwa ngesikhathi samahora noma kusihlwa. Nakuba izinga lingase libe liphakeme kakhulu uma abazali benomntwana munye, imindeni enezingane eziningi ithi ngokuvamile ishibhile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uma ukudla kwasekhaya kanye nokudla okulula kungena kuzo. Izindleko ngokuvamile zivela kusuka ku-$ 7 kuya ku-10 ngehora, kuye ngokuthi iminyaka yengane, yize izingxenye ezihlukene zezwe zingase zikhokhise okungenani noma ngaphansi kuye ngokunikezwa nokufunwa kanye nezindleko ezijwayelekile lapho. Ngokuvamile, kunomholo wesikhathi esisodwa noma wokubhalisa wonyaka, ongahluka kusuka ku-$ 10 kuya ku-$ 50.
Izindleko zehora ngoMsombuluko-ngoLwesihlanu ngesikhathi sokusebenza okujwayelekile ngokuvamile ziba ngaphezu kwamanani esonto onke amacala okunakekela izingane; Nokho, lokho akuyona iklayenti lezi zikhungo zifuna. Esikhundleni salokho, bathengisa abazali abadinga ukunakekelwa kwezingane ngezikhathi ezithile, isikhathi esithile, noma sezinsuku zokugcina ukunakekelwa kwezingane ngokuhambisana nezinkambiso zendabuko yesikhathi esigcwele ezinikezwa ngabanikezeli bekhaya noma izikhungo zokunakekela izingane. Ezinye izakhiwo ngisho noma ngokwazo njengendlela "yokunakekelwa kwezinsuku okuhlukile."
Izinzuzo kanye Nokunakekelwa kokunakekelwa kokungena ngaphakathi
Abazali abaningi bakhululekile kakhulu ngokusebenzisa ukunakekelwa kokungena ngaphakathi kunokuba baqashe izingane zokubeletha noma umuntu ongeyilungu lomndeni. Abanye abathanda izingane zokuxhumana bazothola nezinye izingane ezineminyaka efanayo, imisebenzi ehlelekile, kanye nokuthola ukudla okulula.
Kodwa-ke, abanye abazali bakhetha umqondo wokuba izingane zabo zisekhaya futhi zilele ngesikhathi sokulala, ngakho-ke isakhiwo somkhuba asiphazamiseki. (Okungukuthi, uma umgcini angakwazi ukugcina leyo ndlela njalo lapho umama nobaba behamba!) Kubazali okungenzeka ukuthi bafanele baqhube umshayeli ekhaya ngemuva kokubuyela ekhaya, bayeke ukuqoqa izingane kusukela ekunakekelweni kwe-drop-in emva kokuhlwa ngaphandle akuvezi ukuphazamiseka. Kulabo abasebenzisa abahleli bebhola lokushayela, noma kunjalo, lokho kungabhekwa. Imindeni eminingi yenza sengathi uyazi ukuthi izingane ngeke zihambe endlini, zidla izindiza embhedeni, futhi zibukele i-TV ubusuku bonke futhi ukuthi kunalokho zizodlala ngaphandle noma zenze umsebenzi wobuciko. Ukuphepha kokukwazi ukuthi isikhungo sitholakale siletha abazali ukuthula okukhulu kwengqondo.
Uma indawo yakho inesikhungo sokunakekelwa kwe-drop-in esiyicabangayo, ochwepheshe bezokunakekelwa kwezingane batusa ukuthi abazali bazise ingane kulesi sikhungo ngokuvakashelwa kokuqala. Ungalindeli isidingo sokugcina ngomzuzu bese uzama ukubhalisa, ugcwalise wonke amafomu, uphinde ushaye izingane zakho endaweni entsha. Kungenzeka ukuthi, emva kokuqala, intsha nabazali ngokufanayo bayobe befuna ukuvakashelwa.