Nakuba ezinye izihlukumezi zibonakala zisencane, ezinye azivezi kuze kube yilapho sezikhulile. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi, ngisho nezingane ezinhle ziphenduka izihlukumezi. Nazi ezinye zezici ezivame kakhulu nezingozi ezibangelwa ukuxhashazwa kwentsha.
Ukufaniswa Okuvamile Neziqhwaga Zentsha
Ngenkathi omunye ohlukumezayo osemusha angase ahlasele abantu ngokuyinhloko ku-intanethi, abanye bangase bahlukumeze ontanga esikoleni.
Naphezu kwanoma iyiphi indlela abayisebenzisayo ukuhlukumeza imigomo yabo, iningi labantu abahlukunyezwayo abasebancane bahlanganyela lezi zici kanye nezici:
- Isisusa
- Izinkinga zokuphatha ukufutheka
- Uzama ukulawula abanye abantu, kunokuba ugqugquzele abanye ukuthi balandele
- Ukhungathekile kalula futhi ucasuliwe
- Ungabi nozwela, awuzweli izidingo zomuntu noma izifiso kodwa ezakhe
- Uhlambalaza isisulu ngokuziphatha kwakhe ngokusho izinto ezinjengalezi, "Uma lelo geek lingabonakali liyiziphukuphuku, angizange ngimshaye."
- Kunzima ukulandela imithetho nokuhlonipha okuncane igunya
- Buka ubudlova ngendlela enhle, njengendlela yokuzijabulisa noma indlela enhle yokuthola izidingo
- Abafana abahlukumezayo bavame ukuba namandla kunabanye abantwana
- Amantombazane abahlukunyezwayo avame ukubhekwa njengothandwayo
Izingozi Zomndeni Zengozi Yokuhlukunyezwa
Asikho isizathu esisodwa sokuxhaphaza phakathi kwezingane. Izinto ezihlukahlukene zingafaka ingane engozini yokuxhashaza ontanga yakhe.
Kodwa-ke, kutholakale ukuthi izingane ezixhaphazayo ziningi kakhulu kunezontanga zabo ezingezona ukuhlukumezeka ezivela emakhaya enezici ezithile.
Nazi ezinye izici ezivamile zomndeni ezibangelwa ukuxhashazwa:
- Ukungabi nokufudumala nokubandakanyeka kwabazali . Lokhu kungaba ngenxa yendawo engumzali oyedwa lapho umzali engekho ekhaya noma ekhathele kakhulu noma enganaki lapho esekhaya.
- Ukubeletha ngokweqile kwemvume (kubandakanya ukungabi nemingcele yokuziphatha kwezingane) . Lapho izingane zinikezwa imithetho embalwa kanye nesiqondiso esincane, zingase zizame ukulawula ontanga yabo. Abazali abavunyelwe ukubeka imingcele abafaki imingcele futhi ngokuvamile babenza izingane zizizwe zinelungelo.
- Ukuntuleka kokuqondiswa kwabazali . Ngaphandle kokuqondisa okufanele, intsha ingazimela. Bangase bathole ukuthi ukuqonda, ukuhlukumezeka nokufuna ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zabo kuhlangana okwesikhashana. Kodwa njengoba izihlukumezi zizama ukuthola ubuhlobo obuhle, ukuziphatha kwabo kubuyela emuva esikhathini eside.
- Harsh, isiyalo somzimba . Akuyona nje abazali abavumela ukuxhaphaza. Abazali abasebenzisa isijeziso somuntu, noma labo abafaka umphumela emngceleni ekuhlaseleni, bangakhuphula izingane ukuba zihlukumeze abanye.
- I-Chaos nokuxabana . Izingane ezibona ukuhlukunyezwa ekhaya noma labo abahlukumezwa yizingane zakini zingase zixhase abanye. Ukuphikisana okuqhubekayo ekhaya, njengokuhamba njalo, kungase kube negalelo ekuhlukunyezweni.
Ukuxhashazwa nokunye okuhlukunyezwayo kanye / noma izintandokazi ze-Antisocial
Ukuxhashazwa kungase kuvele ezinkingeni ezingokwengqondo ezingaphansi. Izinkinga zempilo yengqondo , njengokukhathazeka, noma ukuphazamiseka kokuziphatha, njengokuphikisana nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo , kungabangela ukuhlukunyezwa. Abanye abasha baqala ukuxhaphaza ngemuva kokuxhashazwa noma bahlangabezana nesenzakalo esibuhlungu.
Nakuba kunokuxoxwa okuningi ngalokho okwenzeka kubantu abasha kuba izisulu zokuhlukunyezwa, kukhona ukuxoxisana okuncane mayelana nemiphumela yezihlukumezi ezitholayo. Nakuba abaningi babo behlangabezana nemiphumela eyedwa, umphakathi wonke ungakhokha inani elikhulu labantwana abahlukumezayo.
Izingane ezivame ukuxhaphaza ontanga yazo zinamathuba amaningi kunezinye:
- Ngena ezimpini njalo
- Yalimala empini
- Vandalize noma ukweba impahla
- Phuza utshwala
- Umsi
- Yiba nesisulu esikoleni
- Yehla esikoleni
- Thatha isikhali
Uma ingane yakho ingumhlukumezi, kubalulekile ukubhekana nokukhishwa kwezindaba. Nikeza ukunakekelwa okwandisiwe, ukubeka imingcele ecacile, nokuphoqelela imiphumela.
Uma ukuxhashazwa kuqhubeka, cabanga ukuthola usizo lochwepheshe. Uchwepheshe wezezempilo yengqondo angakwazi ukulawula inkinga engokwengqondo yengqondo futhi angase afundise amakhono akho amasha amasha azomsiza ukuba ahlangabezane nezidingo zakhe ngaphandle kokuxhashazwa ezinye izingane.
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