Thola izinkomba ezicashile zokuhlukunyezwa
Ukwazi ukuthi ungabheka kanjani ukuxhaphaza akulula njengoba kuzwakala. Eqinisweni, alukho uhlobo oluthile lokuxhaphaza esikoleni. Izihlukumezi zifika kuzo zonke izinhlobo, ubukhulu nezinhlobo zobuntu. Abanye abahlukunyezwayo bayathandwa futhi bayathandeka kanti abanye banesizungu nabangane abambalwa kuphela. Ngezinye izikhathi, izingane zisebenzisa ukuxhaphaza njengendlela yokugwema ukuba yizifiso ngokwabo. Lezi zihlukumezi zivame ukubhekwa njengezisulu ngoba zihlukunyezwe esikhathini esidlule.
Ngenxa yalokho, bafuna ukuphindisela noma basebenzisa izingxenye zokuxhashazwa njengethuluzi lokulondoloza.
Noma kunjalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlobo luni lomuntu okwenza ukuxhashazwa, kunezinye izimpawu ezingakusiza ukuthi unqume ukuthi ingane ingumhlukumezi noma cha. Ukukwazi lolu lwazi kuyasiza othisha abafuna ukubona izihlukumezi emakilasini abo. Nazi izindlela eziyisishiyagalolunye eziphezulu zokubona izingane ezixhaphaza abanye.
Yazi izinhlobo ezivamile zezihlukumezi.
Ukuhlukumezeka akuyona into efanayo-ifanelana-konke. Eqinisweni, kunezinhlobo eziyisithupha ezihlukene zezihlukumezi ezihlanganisa abahlukumezayo abahlukunyezwayo, abahlukunyezwayo abahlukumezayo, abahlukumezekile, abahlukumezekile, abahlukumezi beqembu kanye nabahlukumezi abanobudlova. Uma uthola ezinye zezinganekwane mayelana nokuxhashazwa , okufaka ukuthi bonke abahlukunyezwayo banesizungu nabangane kanye nokuzethemba okuphansi, uzolahlekelwa ezinye izinhlobo eziningi zezihlukumezi. Uzolahlekelwa ngokukhethekile izihlukumezi ezihlukumezayo, okuvame ukuba yizinhlobo ezinzima kunazo zonke zezihlukumezi ukuthi zibone ngoba ukuziphatha kwabo kuvamise kakhulu futhi kufihlekile emehlweni okubuka abantu abadala.
Qonda ukuthi abafana namantombazane bahlukumeza kanjani ngokuhlukile.
Akekho ozophikisa ukuthi ukuxhaphazwa ngokomzimba kulula ukubona kunoma yiluphi olunye uhlobo lokuxhashazwa. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, abazali nabafundisi bavame ukuphuthelwa iqiniso lokuthi amantombazane ahlukunyezwa nawo. Bangeke basebenzise ukuhlukumeza ngokomzimba ukukwenza. Esikhundleni salokho, basebenzisa ukuhlukumezana , ukuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi nokubiza amagama .
Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukwandisa umbono wakho futhi uqiniseke ukuthi uyazijwayeza ngezinhlobo eziyisithupha zokuxhaphaza .
Funa izimpawu zokufaneleka.
Izikhathi eziningi, abaxhashazi bakholelwa ukuthi imithetho ayisebenzi kubo. Noma, bangase babe nomuzwa wokuthi ngenxa yokuthi bahle esikoleni, bahle emidlalweni noma bavela emndenini ovelele ukuthi bangakwenza noma yini abayifunayo. Bakholelwa nokuthi abanye bangaphansi kwabo. Uzothola umuzwa oqinile wokudelela kuloluhlobo lwabantu abaxhashazayo, ikakhulu lapho bexhumana nabanye abazizwa bengaphansi kwabo. Buka ukuthi lezi zingane ziphatha kanjani izisebenzi zasendlini yasemini, izakhamuzi, izisebenzi zokulinda, abalobi besitolo nabanye abantu ezikhundleni ezisekelwe enkonzweni.
Qaphela ukuthukuthela kwentukuthelo noma ukuhlukunyezwa.
Ngezinye izikhathi izihlukumezi zinzima ukulawula imizwelo, ikakhulukazi intukuthelo . Ngakho-ke zilawula futhi zinobudlova ukuze zithole lokho ezikufunayo. Bacindezela abanye abantwana ukuba benze lokho abafuna ukuba bakwenze. Kukhona ukubambisana okuncane kakhulu futhi ngokuvamile kusetshenziswe okuningi. Uma ubona lezi zinhlobo zokuziphatha ngesisekelo esifanayo, ukuxhashazwa kungase kube yithuluzi lezingane ezisetshenziselwa ukuzithola uma ungaboni.
Bheka eduze uma ingane ibonakala inhle kakhulu ukuthi ingaba yiqiniso.
Lo mkhuba wokuhlukunyezwa uvame ukufaniswa no-Eddie Haskell.
U-Eddie Haskell wayengumlingiswa oyingqayizivele oKushiya ku-Beaver owayengabingelela abazali bakhe abangani bakhe ngokuziphatha okuhle nokuncoma. Kodwa, lapho abazali bengekho, u-Eddie wayengeyena ingane enhle. Wayevame ukukhukhumeza nokucindezela abangane bakhe. Noma, wayehlukumeza umfowabo omncane uWally u-Wally. Ngokuvamile, abazali nabafundisi bayashaqeka lapho bezwa ukuthi lolu hlobo lwezingane lungumhlukumezi ngoba uhlale enhle futhi enesizotha.
Bamba ngokujulile uma ingane ingenelela ngegunya.
Ngenkathi ezinye izihlukumezi zihlukumezeka ngokuhlukunyezwa kwazo, ezinye izihlukumezi ziba nezindaba ngokulandela imithetho nokulalela izibalo zeziphathimandla.
Isibonelo, abanye abaxhashazayo bayongenela izingxabano nabothisha, abaqeqeshi, abacebisi nabaqondisi nabazali. Bangase bakhulume, benze amazwi okuthukuthela futhi babe nesimo sengqondo sokungahloniphi kunoma ubani onamandla. Uma ingane izimisele ukwenza ngokufutheka komuntu omdala noma umuntu ogunyaziwe, kungenzeka futhi abe nobudlova nontanga yabo.
Unganaki abalandeli noma amalungu amacici.
Izikhathi eziningi, ukuhlukunyezwa kuwukuthola noma ukugcina isikhundla esitelekeni sezenhlalo esikoleni. Ngenxa yalokho, izingane eziningi ezingcono zizoxhaphaza abanye ngenxa yokucindezela kontanga . Futhi bangase baxhaphaze ukuze bathole ukunakwa noma bazizwe sengathi bayingxenye yeqembu noma i-clique . Kwezinye izimo, izihlukumezi zizokwenza laba abalandeli benze umsebenzi wabo ongcolile. Futhi la bantwana bavumelana ngoba besaba ukuthi babe yizinhloso ngokwabo. Noma, zihambisana ngoba zizwa ukuthi yindlela kuphela yokuhlala eqenjini.
Qaphela izingane ezingabandakanyi abanye.
Enye yezinhlobo ezinkulu zokuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwane, ukuxosha, ukufaka ngaphandle noma ukukhipha ezinye izingane . Uma ingane ingavumi ukuba umngane nabanye abantu, ayifuni ukubandakanya wonke umuntu noma ukukhetha futhi ukhethe abantu ukuba bahlangane nayo, lokhu kuyisibonelo esihle sokuthi ukuxhashazwa kungaba yinkinga. Esinye isibonakaliso sokuhlukunyezwa ingane engamukeli umehluko womunye umuntu. Izingane ezingenandaba nazo zivame ukuxhaphaza abanye abahlukile.
Nakani lapho izingane zibonakala zizungezwe idrama.
Amantombazane ashoyo , abangane abaqamba amanga kanye nezitha zezinyoka ngokuvamile badala idrama eminingi. Ngaphezu kokuxhashazwa ngokweqile kwabanye, kubonakala sengathi benza ukuhlupha nokukhathazeka phakathi kwamaqembu ebangane. Baye bajwayele ukusabalalisa amahemuhemu , ukuxhaphazwa kwe-cyberbullying kanye ne- slut ukuhlambalaza abanye. Nakuba okuningi kwalolu hlobo lokuziphatha lwenziwa ngaphandle kwamehlo abantu abadala abaqaphele, idrama ukuthi ibangele izobonakala. Ngenxa yalokho, uma ubona idrama eminingi phakathi kweqembu esikoleni, yenza ucwaningo oluthile ukuze uthole impande yenkinga. Esikhathini esiningi, uzothola umhlukumezi ekugcineni.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Njengomfundisi, kungase kuphazamise ngezikhathi ezithile ukubhekana nokuxhashazwa njalo. Kodwa uma usungula isimo sezulu sokuhlonipha ekilasini lakho ekuqaleni, uzothola ukuthi izinkinga zokuxhashazwa zenzeka kancane kakhulu. Ukwengeza, abafundi bakho bazofunda kabanzi futhi benze okungcono kakhulu ekilasini lakho uma beqiniseka ukuthi ngeke ukubekezelela ukuxhashazwa. Bangakwazi ukugxila ekufundeni esikhundleni sokukhathazeka mayelana nokubhekwa ngoba bayazi ukuthi unakho ngaphansi kokulawula.