Hamba isisu esibelethiwe!
Isisu sikhona yonke indawo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uya kuphi kulezi zinsuku ubona abesifazane abakhulelwe nesisu esithwele . Empeleni lokho kuyinto engase imangaze hhayi esikhathini esidlule esikhathini esidlule. Ngisho njengoba nje muva nje eminyakeni engama-50 edlule abesifazane babecabanga ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwabenza baba buthakathaka ngokwanele ukuba bahlale ekhaya kaningi kunokungabi njalo, futhi ukubuyiswa kokubeletha kwabashiya owesifazane esibhedlela ngemuva kwamasonto emva kokuzalwa okuvamile.
Namuhla, abesifazane bayaziqhenya ngokuthi ukukhulelwa kungenye inqubo yemvelo impilo yabo futhi baqhubeke bephila kanjalo.
Ngokubukeka komphakathi kwabesifazane abakhulelwe beza nombono womphakathi kukho konke ekuphileni kwabo kusukela ekugqokeni kwabo, lokho abadlayo noma abaphuzayo nokuthi izibeletho zabo zikhula kanjani. Esinye sezikhalazo ezivame ukuzwa besifazane abakhulelwe iseluleko esingafuneki kubantu abangabazi futhi kubonakala sengathi kudingeka abantu abangabazi ukuthi bathinte izibeletho zabo ezivuvukale.
Abanye besifazane banomuzwa wokuthi ukugqoka uphawu oluzungeze izintamo zabo ezithi "Hamba isisu!" akukho okuningi abakwaziyo ukukwenza ukuvala lesi senzo esingathandeki noma iseluleko. Nazi ezinye izinketho kusuka kwamanye ama-mamama abanolwazi ngokubhekana nombono womphakathi wokukhulelwa:
Ukuthinta uBelly
U-Amanda, umama wezingane ezine, uthi: "Ngiyaqhubeka ngiqaphele izandla ziza kimi.
U-Sally, ongumama wakhe wokuqala, uthi "Ukuqeda isisu sabo kuye kwabangalisa abantu abambalwa emsebenzini ukuba bayeke lokhu kuhlasela okucasulayo."
"Ngizama ukubheka njengoba bazama ukwabelana nakho," unikeza uLaura, elindele umntwana wakhe wesibili. "Abazami ukuba babe yindoda, bajabule kakhulu kimi."
"'Suka emuva!'" Ukumomotheka omunye umama. "Ungamangala ukuthi ukuklabalaza lokhu kungenza abantu bahambe kanjani."
Iseluleko esingadingeki
"Ngivame ukumomotheka futhi ngikhonce ngenkathi bekhuluma, ngabe ngilalele noma cha," kusho uGail.
"Lokhu ngokuvamile kuvimbela ukuthi bangakutsheli ukuthi kungani bekulungile futhi uphutha. Yindlela elula kakhulu yokuphuma!"
"Uma bekhuluma into engiyazi ukuthi ayiphutha ngivame ukutshela udokotela wami ukuthi akusikho kimi," kusho uSally. "Lokhu kungase kuholele kwezinye izifundo ezibafundile."
U-Leeza, umama wabathathu uthi: "Ngendlebe eyodwa nangaphandle," kusho umlenze wesandla sakhe.
U-Angelia uthi ngezinye izikhathi ukulalela akuyona into embi, "Ngiye ngafunda izinto ezithandeka kakhulu kwabanye omama ekuqondeni usuku nosuku nosana. Okuwukuphela kwento eyangikhathaza kwakuyizindaba zakudala zomuntu."
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha kanjani ukusingatha izandla namazwi phakathi nezinsuku ozilindele, khumbula ukuthi uma uqala ukubonisa, uzodinga isu.