Nakuba ubude bokusebenza komsebenzi wokuqala kujwayelekile ngamahora angu-12-18, kungabandakanyi ama- inductions , kunemisebenzi ehlala isikhathi eside. Ezinye izisebenzi zihlala isikhathi eside ngenxa yezinkinga zomzimba, ingane ishukuthela endaweni engcono, ukuvulwa komzimba komama. Ezinye izisebenzi zide kakhulu ngenxa yezinkinga ezingokomzwelo ezinjengokwesaba okuzungezile noma zokuba umzali, noma ukuthi umyeni wakho ngeke akwenze ngesikhathi.
Lokhu kungaba izinto zangempela kakhulu. Kulabo besifazane okumele bakwazi ukubhekana nokusebenza okude, kubonakala sengathi kunzima kakhulu.
Nakuba nginezinkinga eziyisikhombisa zami, nginezikhathi ezihlukahlukene: (ngokulandelana) amahora angu-36, amahora angu-45, amahora angu-8, amahora angu-11, amahora angu-4 (amawele), amahora angu-2-3, namahora angu-45. Imisebenzi elula empeleni yayimisebenzi yami yamahora angu-45. Isizathu? Ngoba ngiphumelele umsebenzi wami kanye nami. Futhi ngikubonile ukuthi kwenzeka nezinye izikhathi eziningi ngesikhathi sami njenge- doula . Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi "isikhathi eside" sichazwa ngokuhlukile yiwo wonke umuntu. Uma utshelwe ukuthi unomsebenzi omude futhi ukungenelela okunye kuphakanyisiwe, buza imibuzo bese uthola ulwazi ngaphambi kokunquma ukuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani, ngezinye izikhathi "isikhathi eside" akuyona inkinga, into nje okumele ubhekane ngayo wena neqembu lakho . Nakuba ukungenelela okuningi kunezinkinga ezingase zifike nazo futhi kungenzeka noma zingasheshe ziphuthumise inqubo.
Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso zokuthola enye yalezo zisebenzi ezide.
Ungagxila kwiwashi.
Kuyamangalisa kakhulu uma usebenza ukuze ubuke iwashi. Ngikwenze kube nini lokhu? Ngizoba yisikhathi esingakanani lokhu? Ngizofika nini ukubamba ingane yami? Lezi yizo zonke imibuzo ezivumelekile, kodwa imibuzo ekugcineni ikugcine ekugxileni emsebenzini wezabasebenzi yilokho okukuholela ekupheleni.
Uma ungakwazi ukususa amawashi eduze nawe, bawaphendukele noma uwahlanganise.
Hlala ekhaya isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ekhaya lakho, ukhululekile kakhulu. Ungahamba ngokukhululekile, ubukele ithelevishini, udlale kukhompyutha yakho uhlale egumbini lomntanakho. Lezi zonke izinduduzo zasekhaya. Unayo indlu yakho yokugezela kanye nebhabhu noma ishazi, ungadla uphuze ukuze ududuze. Kulula kakhulu ukudlulisa isikhathi endaweni yakho futhi kungasiza ekuvimbeleni umsebenzi wakho ukuba ugweme ngokuya esibhedlela kakhulu kusenesikhathi . Uhlelo lokuqala lomsebenzi lungasiza futhi lapha.
Hambisana nekwenzekayo.
Njengobuqili njengoba kungase kuzwakale - landela ukuhola komsebenzi wakho. Emisebenzini emide, kukhona okuvame ukuba yizingxenye ezisheshayo futhi zithule. Lena yithuba lokuphumula ngisho naphakathi. Abaningi besifazane abakucabangi ngalokhu futhi ngokuvamile babheka lokhu kuhamba phansi njengento embi. Kodwa lokhu kuvame amandla omzimba wakho wokuzwa ukuthi udinga ikhefu elincane ngaphambi kokuqhubeka. Zisebenzise lezi ziphuzo uma kunokwenzeka.
Sebenzisa izinyathelo zokududuza ekuqaleni futhi kaningi.
Ngesikhathi nginezingane ezintathu futhi ngangilindele umsebenzi omude kakhulu, ngifuna ngempela wonke umuntu ukuba aphumule ukuze angisekele "lapho ngidinga ngempela." Ngemuva kwehora noma ezimbili kokuzama ukuhamba ngedwa, ngangingumuntu ecasulwa futhi ebuhlungu.
Ekugcineni ngivumela abantu bangisize ngiphumule futhi ngiguqule emuva futhi bangisize. O, umsebenzi wawulula kakhulu. Ngemva kwamahora ambalwa lapho ngicabanga ukuthi bekungeke kube nezinsuku ezintathu zomsebenzi, ekugcineni konke kwakungenangqondo. Ukuhlala ngithulile ngandlela-thile kuthatha amandla amancane futhi kwangenza ngakhululeka kakhulu, ngisiza inqubekela phambili yomsebenzi. Futhi, ungakhohlwa ukuhamba ngokuphindaphindiwe , lokhu kungase kube yilokho okudingayo uma ukusebenza kuthatha isikhashana. Isiza ukuvikela amalunga akho nesikhumba ekubeni endaweni eyodwa kakhulu.
Qala ukusebenza ngokulungile.
Uma uqala ukubona ukuthi usemsebenzini, iseluleko esingcono kakhulu sokungazinaki. Khumbuza ukuthi kungani ungenakusebenza manje.
Uyazi uhlu engikhuluma ngalo: Angikwazi ukusebenza ngoba angizange ngageza izingubo zengane. Angikwazi ukusebenza, kodwa akusilo usuku engiwuthathe. Angikwazi ukusebenza kodwa, ingubo yami engiyithandayo ayigcwele. Kodwa khumbula ukuthatha isikhathi sakho. Kwabesifazane abaningi, asikho isidingo sokusheshisa. Vele uhambe ngokuzilungiselela futhi ujabulele kulezi zikhathi ezimbalwa zokugcina zokukhulelwa.
Ngakho ngesikhathi esilandelayo lapho unomntwana nomntanakho kubonakala sengathi uthatha isikhathi sakhe , khumbula, kunesizathu futhi kungcono kuwe ukusingatha lo msebenzi ngendlela eyakhayo ezuzisa wena nomntanakho.