Siza izingane zakho zibonise abaxhashazi empilweni yabo
Ubuhlobo buyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwentsha. Kodwa akuzona zonke ubungane ezidalwa ezilinganayo noma bonke abangane bangabangane obuphilile . Eqinisweni, ezinye ziyiqiniso. Kodwa izingane ngokuvamile aziboni umonakalo lobu buhlobo obungabangela. Eqinisweni, abanye abadala abakwazi ukutshela ukuthi othile ungumngane noma umhlukumezi.
Lapho umhlukumezi ebeka njengomngane, lezi zihlukumezi zivame ukubizwa ngokuthi ama-frenemies.
Ama-Frenzi enza ukuphila kube buhlungu kubantwana bakho. Njengabaphathi benkosi, bakhohlisa abantu ukuba bakholelwe ukuthi bangabangani, uma ubuhlobo ngempela buyindlela yokuphela. Ama-Frenemy nawo angasebenzisa ukucindezela kontanga ukuphatha abanye futhi ngokushesha ingane yakho iphinde ihlukumeze abantu. Ngenxa yalokho, kubalulekile ukukhomba ama-fren enemy ekuqaleni.
Ukuvimbela izingane zakho ekuhlakuleleni ubudlelwane nabangqingili, khuluma nabo ngezici ze-frenemy. Nasi uhlu lwezici eziphambene ezizoxoxa nengane yakho. Bonke, nikhulume ngokungafani phakathi kwabahle nabangani.
1. Ama-Frenemy Aphumelela Emandleni
- Ama-Frenza afisa ukuba namandla phezu kwabanye, kodwa abangane abahle bafuna ubudlelwane ukuba balinganise futhi balingane.
- Ama-Frenza afisa ukuba yilowo olawulayo futhi enze zonke izinqumo. Abangane abalungile bazimisele ukusebenzisana ngezinqumo.
- Ama-frenemy avame ukusebenzisa ukuhlukumeza ngokobudlelwane okubandakanya ukusebenzisana kwezakhiwo, ukwakha amaqembu nokungabandakanyi abantu, kodwa abangane abahle bayamamukela wonke umuntu.
- Ama-Frenemy atshela abanye ukuthi angakwazi futhi angeke abe abangane nabangani abahle bevulekile ukwenza abangane abasha.
- Ama-Frenemy avame ukuzizwa enegunya lokuthola izinto noma afune ukwelashwa okukhethekile ngenkathi abangane abathobekile futhi bebonga.
- Ama-Frenando ajabulela ukusongela abanye abantu ngokunikeza ukubukeka okuthile nokugubha amehlo abo. Abangane abahle bayabingelela abanye abantu bemomotheka.
2. Ama-Frenemies Awona Abantu Abahle
- Ama-Frenemy angase abonakale amnandi futhi emuhle kepha empeleni enza nje okuhle. Abangane abahle bangempela futhi baqinisile.
- Ama-Frenemies aphikisana namaqiniso nezimo ukugwema ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngezenzo zabo. Kodwa abangane abalungile bayavuma uma bephutha.
- Ngezinye izikhathi ama-Frenzi ahawukela, ahawukele noma athukuthele abanye. Abangane abahle abazizwa besongelwa yimpumelelo yabanye abantu. Kunalokho, bagubha nabo.
- Ama-Frenzi agxile ekuthandeni futhi ngezinye izikhathi azolimaza abanye ukuthi bazizwa besengozini. Kodwa abangane abahle banesithakazelo ebuhlotsheni ngaphezu kokuthandwa.
- Ama-Frenemy agweba abanye ngemuva ukuze akhuphuke isiteji somphakathi. Abangane abahle banamathela futhi banamathele abangane babo.
- Ama-Frenemy ayabalulekile futhi akhuluma kabi ngabanye, ngisho nabangane bawo. Abangane abahle bayakhuthaza futhi bayeke ukukhuluma izinto ezilimazayo.
- Ama-Frenemy ahleke futhi ahlekisa abanye abantu ngendlela abagqoka ngayo, babheka noma benze. Kodwa abangane abahle bahlonipha ukungezwani kwabanye abantu futhi bayakwazisa ukuthi bangobani.
- Ama-Frenemies acabanga ukuthi kuyamukeleka ukunciphisa futhi ukuhleka usulu abangane babo phambi kwabanye abantu. Kodwa abangane abahle baqaphele ukuba bakhuthaze, babe nomusa futhi bahloniphe.
- Ama-Frenemy azokuxhaphaza ukuthokoza komngane noma ukuphana. Kodwa abangane abahle bayakwazisa lapho omunye umuntu ebasiza.
3. Ama-Frenemies Dala idrama
- Ama-Frenzi ahlanganyela ulwazi lomuntu siqu ngenkathi abangane abahle begcina ulwazi lomuntu siqu ngasese.
- Ama-Frenemies atshela amanga namaqiniso-hamba ngenkathi abangane abaqotho beqotho futhi beqondile.
- Ama-Frenzi ayenokucindezela ngokomzwelo futhi azosebenzisa ukuhamba kwecala futhi afune ukuthola lokho abakufunayo. Abangane abahle baqonda ukulinganiselwa nemingcele yokuhlonipha.
- Ama-Frenemy enza idrama ngokuhleba nokuhleka amahemuhemu ngenkathi abangane abathandekayo bejabulela ukukhuluma ngezinto ezithandayo, imisebenzi nemibono.
- Ama-Frenando ajabulela ukushiya imilayezo ebuhlungu noma imilayezo kumadeskini, kuma-lockers noma kuma-social media. Abangane abahle bangathanda ukuthumela amanothi akhuthazayo noma imilayezo.
- Ama-Frenemies ahlanganyela ekuthuthukiseni i- cyberbullying . Abangane abalungile bafaka amazwana amahle kuma-social media.
Uma ingane yakho ihlakulele ubudlelwane ne-frenemy, mkhuthaze ukuba abeke isikhala phakathi kwakhe nomngani. Qinisekisa umqondo wokuthi ukuxhumana ne-frenemy kungabangela ukucindezeleka okuningi nobuhlungu. Kodwa ulungele ukuphikiswa okuthile. Ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuba izingane zihlukanise nomuntu abazizwa axhumene naye. Kungase kuthathe isikhathi esithile ukuba bahlakulele ezinye ubungane. Ngakho-ke yiba nesineke.
Okwamanje, siza ingane yakho ukuthi yenza ukuxhumana nabanye . Mema abanye abangaphezulu futhi ukhuthaze ingane yakho ukuthi izame imisebenzi emisha noma ihlole izithakazelo ezintsha. Ekugcineni, ngosizo lwakho, ingane yakho izokuthuthukisa ezinye ubungane.