Iminyaka ephakathi kweminyaka yinguquko yonyaka, izinselele, kanye nezinhlawulo eziningi. Kokubili wena kanye nomphakathi wakho uzothola ukungazenzeki kokuguquguquka komntanakho kuze kube seminyakeni eyishumi nambili nangaphezulu.
Kodwa ushintsho alisho ukuthi le minyaka ayinakuphinde ibe yiminyaka yokuphumelela okukhulu, isakhiwo somlingiswa, nokuzijabulisa. Nakhu ukuthi ungasiza kanjani phakathi kwakho ukuthola ukuphefumulelwa empilweni yansuku zonke, ukuze ingane yakho isebenzise kakhulu iminyaka ephakathi nonyaka wonke olandelayo.
Fundisa uhlangothi lwakho ukuze ugweme imiphumela yengqondo izinselelo zeminyaka ephakathi.
Thokozela izinto ezincane
Abaningi abaningi abajwayele ukugxila ezintweni ezimbi, noma konke okungahambi kahle kubo. Usuku olubi, ukukhuluma okushoyo, umzuzwana ohlazayo kungonakalisa usuku lwengane yakho. Kodwa ungakwazi ukusiza phakathi kwakho ngokumfundisa ukuba ajabulele izinto ezincane ekuphileni. Ukujabulela izinto ezifana ne-show funny show, umzuzu wokudlala ophethe isilwane, noma i-ayisikhilimu ehle kakhulu ye-ayisikhiliki ingasiza i-interior yakho ukuthi iphendule into enhle. Ungasiza ophakathi kwakho ukufunda ukujabulela izikhathi ezimbalwa zokuphila ngokuzijabulela wena ngokwakho. Ukubonga ikomishi elihle lekhofi, isidlo esihle, noma umzuzu omnandi ungasiza ingane yakho ukuba ifunde ukwazisa.
Jabulela Izinto Ezinkulu
Kunezikhathi ezithile empilweni ezingaba okungavamile ngempela, futhi zifanele ukuzindla kwengane yakho nokwazisa. Njengoba nje ufundisa ingane yakho ukuba yamukele izinto ezincane empilweni, kufanele futhi kumsize ukuba athole okungcono kakhulu izenzakalo ezikhethekile, ezifana nokuphothula iziqu, amasiko omndeni, ukushada, noma ukwamukela ingane entsha noma ilunga emndenini.
Uma kwenzeka umcimbi omkhulu, qiniseka ukuthi wena kanye nenkulumo yakho ephakathi ngakho futhi uxoxe ukuthi lezi zikhathi zingayilula kanjani umndeni kanye nekusasa lomthandekayo. Thola izikhathi ezinkulu empilweni yomndeni wakho futhi usize phakathi kwakho ukuthi ubambe ukubaluleka kwabo nokuthi bangayithuthukisa kanjani noma baphuthukise impilo yakho ndawonye.
Yamukela futhi Wamukele Ukuhluleka
Ukugqugquzela uhlangothi lwakho ukufeza nokuphupha kusho ukufundisa ingane yakho ukuthatha amathuba futhi yamukele ukwehluleka njengengxenye yenqubo.
Uma i-middle yakho iphefumulelwe ukuzama ukudlala esikoleni noma iqhaza eqenjini lempikiswano, kufanele azi ukuthi impumelelo ingase ifike ngokushesha. Kunalokho, ngezinye izikhathi ukuphumelela kuthatha iminyaka yokusebenza kanzima nokuzinikezela, nokufunda emaphutheni kuyingxenye yohambo. Thola izikhathi ezivela empilweni yakho ezisiza ingane yakho ukuba iqonde ukuthi ukuhluleka ngokuvamile kuvame ukuba yiyona nto eholela empumelelweni. Ungabuye wabelane ngezibonelo zabomdabu noma abanye abantu ingane yakho ingazibona.
Phuma Ngaphandle
Imvelo inendlela yokunikeza ugqozi kulabo abayidingayo, kodwa ukuphila kwakho okumatasa komphakathi kungase kunganikeli isikhathi esanele sokudlala ngaphandle noma ukuhlola. Phakathi komsebenzi wesikole , imisebenzi, imisebenzi kanye nezinye izibopho, ukudlala kwangaphandle ngokuvamile kuthatha isihlalo sangemuva ekuphileni kwezingane zanamuhla. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umntanakho unomatasa kangakanani (noma ukuthi unomatasa kangakanani) kubalulekile ukwenza isikhathi sokuzijabulisa kwangaphandle, njengokuhamba kwemvelo, ukuhamba eduze komakhelwane, noma ukuhlola amapaki wakho wendawo noma wombuso. Usuku ehlathini noma ebhishi linganikeza ithuba lakho lokuphumula, futhi usule ingqondo yakhe. Zama ukwenza isikhathi sakho sangaphandle ithuba lokubambisana komndeni, futhi uzophinda kabili imivuzo yolwazi.
Izindaba Eziphefumulayo
Umlando ugcwele abantu abaye banqoba, bafeze futhi baphefumulela abanye. Izingane eziningi zingafunda ezibalweni zomlando ezithakazelisayo, noma ngisho nabahlonishwayo, futhi ziphefumulelwe ukuphila kwazo. Cela umntwana wakho ucwaninge abantu emlandweni noma kusukela osukwini lwamanje owamgqugquzelayo, bese ucela phakathi kwakho ukuba ahlaziye ukuthi kungani ukuphila nokufezekisa kwabo kugqugquzela yena. Ungase ufune ngisho ukwabelana ngezindaba zabanye abantu othole ugqozi ngephakathi kwakho.
Be Creative
Sonke sinalo ikhono lokuveza ubuciko bethu. Ngesikhathi ingane yakho isencane mhlawumbe wayekujabulela umbala, edlala ne-Play-Doh noma edala ubuciko ngamanzi ahlanzekile.
Ngenkathi i-middle yakho ingase ingathathi noma yiziphi izifundo zobuciko esikoleni esiphakathi, kubalulekile ukuthi namanje ethinte ohlangothini lokudala. Nikeza ingane yakho ngemishini yobuciko njengama-watercolor, amapensela anemibala, ama-sketchbooks, upende noma ubumba. Noma, uma ingane yakho ingena ezithombeni noma imidwebo yefilimu, thola imithombo kanye nezinsiza ezingamsiza ukuba ahlakulele lelo cala lobuciko. Ama-tweens abathanda ukupheka noma ukupheka nawo ahlanganisa ukungena kwawo futhi kufanele akhuthazwe.
Sebenzisa isikhathi nezilwane ezifuywayo
Uma i-kati yakho idinga umngane okhethekile ongasoze ahlulele futhi abe umlaleli omuhle, isilwane semfuyo yomndeni sizohlangabezana nesidingo. Izilwane ezifuywayo zinendlela yokusihlisa phansi, futhi ngenxa yokuthi zihlala ngesikhathi lapho zingasiza ukubeka phambili kuqala futhi zithole incazelo nenjabulo ezintweni ezilula. Izilwane ezifuywayo zingasikhuthaza nokuba sibe nesithakazelo futhi siwusizo, futhi lokho kuphefumulelwe okuyozuzisa noma ubani. Khuthaza uhlangothi lwakho ukuthi uthathe indima ekhuthele ekunakekeleni nasempilweni zakho. Cela umntwana wakho ukuthi athathe ukusizwa kwansuku zonke, noma ukhuthaze phakathi kwakho ukuthola isikhathi sosuku lokudlala nesilwane somndeni imizuzu engu-15 noma engu-20. Uma ubeka phakathi kwakho okunye kwemithwalo yemfanelo yobunikazi bezilwane, ungathola ukuthi akaphefumulelwe kuphela isilwane somndeni, kodwa futhi futhi akwazi ukuthuthukisa amakhono okuzethemba nokuzimela.
Thatha Inselele
Enye yezindlela ezinhle zokuthola ugqozi empilweni yethu ukuthatha inselele. Ukuthatha iphrojekthi noma inselele kungasiza ekutheni uphendule phakathi kwamakhono angazange azi ukuthi ukhona. Ingane yakho ingase ithole ithalenta efihliwe noma isifiso sokwenza into enqubo. Izinselelo zingabandakanya ukubhekana nomsebenzi wokuthuthukisa ikhaya, ukondla umndeni noma abangane, noma uthathe ikilasi ngolunye ulimi. Izinselelo zikhona kithi nsuku zonke, kodwa uma ukhuthaza phakathi kwakho ukuba ubheke, futhi ungabesabi, uzokwakha ukulangazela kanye namanye amakhono azobazuzisa impilo yonke.
Ukuhamba
Kubonakala kulula kepha ukuhamba kuyindlela enhle yomndeni wonke ukuthola ukukhuthazwa nokukhuthazwa. Ukuhamba kuvula amehlo ethu emisebenzini, njengamathuba emisebenzi, izintshisekelo nokufunda ngamanye amasiko kusenza siqaphele ngokwengeziwe indawo esikuyo futhi siwazise konke esinakho. Awudingi ukuhamba phesheya kwezilwandle noma ezindaweni zokuthakazelisa ngokweqile ukuze uthathe izinzuzo zokuhlola. Uhambo oluya eminyuziyamu yakho yasendaweni, imidwebo yobuciko, amapaki, noma amanye amaphuzu ezithakazelisayo angasiza phakathi kwakho ukwandisa ama-horizons akhe futhi ufunde ngendawo yawo emhlabeni.
Cabanga noma Ufunde Ukuphumula
Ukuphila kwakho okumatasa okuphakathi kwakho kungase kuphazamise ukuthuthukiswa kwakhe nokuthula kwengqondo. Ukufunda ukuphumula kuyinto ikhono izingane eziningi namuhla ezingenalo, kodwa ukufunda ukuphumula kungasiza ingane yakho ngokomzwelo, ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ukuzindla, i-yoga, ukugijima noma ukumane uhlezi egumbini elithule ngokwabo kungasiza phakathi phakathi kokufunda ukuvumela izinkinga zabo zihambe futhi zamukele leso sikhathi. Ungase ucabange ukuthatha amakilasi ku-yoga noma ukuzindla ndawonye ku-Y yakho noma ku-gym. Noma, vele ukhuthaze uhlangothi lwakho ukuze ulalele umculo ophuculisayo nsuku zonke njengendlela yokuhlanganisa nokuvuselela.
Khonza abanye
Enye yezindlela ezinhle zokuthola isisusa nokukhuthazwa ukusiza abanye abadinga usizo. Ukuzithandela esontweni lakho lendawo, ngokusebenzisa inhlangano yendawo yendawo noma ngokusebenzisa i-nonprofit yangakini kungasiza ingane yakho ukuba ifunde ukusiza abanye, futhi ibone impilo ngamehlo omuntu onenhlanhla. Bheka amathuba okuvolontiya akho angase abe nesithakazelo ekuhambeni, futhi ucabange ukubenza ndawonye njengomsebenzi womndeni. Noma, khuthaza uhlangothi lwakho ukuze uqhubekele ukunikezwa kwezinto zokuhambisa indawo yesilwane sakho sendawo, noma ucwaninge ngezezimali zomhlaba wangaphandle ukuthi umndeni wakho ungase ube nesithakazelo ekusekeleni.
Gcina i-Journal of Inspiration
Abaningi abaningi bajabulela ukuloba noma ukugcina idayari yemicabango. Ukugcina iphephandaba lokuphefumulela kungasiza imibono yakho yokuqopha phakathi, izingcaphuno, izithombe, izinyathelo ezibalulekile, noma amaphupho angawaphendukela lapho kuphefumulelwa kakhulu. Iphephabhuku lingakusiza futhi uhlelo lwakho oluphakathi noma luhlele imigomo yakhe ngekusasa, okuyinto engabonisa ukukhuthazwa kanye nerekhodi. Cela phakathi kwakho ukubhala phansi izinto ezingu-20 angathanda ukuzenza ngesikhathi sokuphila, noma ucele phakathi kwakho ubhale phansi izindlela ezingu-10 ilungu ngalinye lomndeni liye laphefumulela yena nokuthi kungani. Ungase umangale futhi uphefumulelwe kancane!
Buza Ngezehlakalo Zansuku zonke
Uma ufuna ukuthola uhlangothi lwakho ucabange ngemicimbi ekhuthazayo noma isisusa, mcele ukuthi akutshele into eyodwa eyabaphefumulela nsuku zonke. Izimpendulo zakho zomphakathi zingase zihlekisayo, zingenangqondo, zingathí sina, noma ziyinqaba, kodwa uzomenza ingane yakho icabange ngokuthi izenzakalo zansuku zonke ezimpilweni zethu zingaba kanjani umthombo wokukhuthazeka nokuhle. Qinisekisa ukuthi wabelane ngezikhathi zakho eziphefumulayo, futhi ngubani owaziyo, ungase udale isiko lomndeni omusha - kanjani lokhu ukukhuthazwa?