Thola ukuthi ukubiza ngegama kuthinta kanjani izisulu
Ukubizwa ngegama kungenye yezinhlobo ezilimazayo nezibuhlungu kakhulu zokuxhaphaza. Ushiya izisulu ngemilayezo emibi mayelana nalabo abafakwe engqondweni yabo. Kuyingozi futhi ngoba izama ukuchaza abantu. Isibonelo, ukubiza othile "amanoni," "ukulibala," "nerd," noma yimuphi omunye igama elihlambalazayo likhahla ekuzihloneleni kwelitshe, umqondo wokuziqhenya nokuzicabangela.
Ukubizwa ngegama nakho kwenza kube nzima ukuthi isisulu sithembele imibono yakhe ngaye. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubizwa ngokuthi yiliphi isisulu, imilayezo ephindaphindiwe futhi ephindaphinda ithi "awunelisekile" futhi "awukwazi ukulinganisa." Nakhu ezinye izindlela abantu abasha abathintekayo ngokubiza amagama.
Ukwehla Ukuzizwa Kokuhlukunyezwa Kokuzimela
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukubiza amagama kanye nokunye ukuthukwa kungancipha kancane kancane ekuzihloneleni futhi isisulu ngeke sisakwazi ukuzibona ngokuqondile. Ngokwesibonelo, uma intombazane ibizwa njalo ngokuthi "amafutha," ingase ibheke njengokwedlula ngokweqile ngisho nangemva kokulahlekelwa isisindo. Lolu hlobo lwesithombe somzimba oluhlanekezela luvame ukuqala isigaba sokuqala kwesifo sokudla .
Kubangela izingane ukuba zihambisane nezinkolelo zabo kanye nemigomo
Uma izingane zihlambalazwa ngokuba nezinkolelo noma izindinganiso ezithile, leli gama lingabangela ukugoba ukucindezela kontanga nokunciphisa izinkolelo zabo ukuze babalekele ukuxhashazwa.
Isibonelo, intsha ebizwa ngokuthi "goody-goody" ingase izame ukuzamazama lesi sithombe ngokwenza izinto ezingqubuzana nesistimu yakhe yenkolelo njengoba ezama ukufakazela ukuthi akahlali "omuhle".
Ithinta Ukuhlukunyezwa Kokuhlukunyezwa
Ukubiza amagama kubangela ushintsho olubonakalayo kubuntu nokuziphatha kwalabo abathintekayo.
Isibonelo, izisulu ezinganeni zingase zibe izinyembezi, zithukuthele noma zihoxiswe. Futhi bangase bahlele izizathu zokugwema isikole futhi balahlekelwe isithakazelo emisebenzini yangaphandle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izisulu zivame ukunganeliseki ngokuphila. Futhi bangase bahlukane nemizwa yokuba nesizungu nokuphelelwa ithemba.
Ithinta Ubunikazi Bomuntu
Uma umhlukumezi ebiza omunye umuntu igama, bazama ukulawula indlela abanye abambona ngayo umuntu. Isibonelo, umhlukumezi angabiza umuntu "oyisiphukuphuku." Leli gama libizwa njalo phambi kwabanye futhi lenzelwe ukukhuthaza abanye ukuthi babheke lo muntu ngokuthi "uyisiphukuphuku". Uma ukubizwa ngegama kuphindiwe, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi abanye, kufaka phakathi okuhlosiwe, bangase baqale ukuhlanganisa igama elithi "oyisiwula" kulowo muntu. Futhi ekugcineni, lelo ilebula elimazayo lingaba yingxenye yalowo muntu.
Ivula i-Door ku-Violence
Ezimweni ezimbi, abahlukumezi ababiza abanye amagama ngokuvamile bazokwenza ngokufutheka kwabo futhi baphumele ngendlela engokwenyama. Eqinisweni, ubugebengu abaningi obuzonda buqala ngokubiza amagama. Ungalokothi uphazamise ukubiza igama. Esikhundleni salokho, uma ingane yakho ibizwa ngamagama esikoleni, yilethe uthisha noma uthisha oyinhloko.
Ikhuthaza ukugxeka kwangaphakathi
Ukubizwa ngegama ngokuvamile kuholele ekuhloswe ukuthi kuthathwe amagama njengeqiniso.
Ngenxa yalokho, baqala ukuzigxeka esikhundleni salokho. Ngokwesibonelo, uma umuntu ebizwa ngokuthi "olahlekile," izwi labo langaphakathi lizofunda ukulibiza ngokuthi lilahlekile futhi uma benza amaphutha. Inkinga yukuthi leli zwi langaphakathi lilukhuni ukuguqula futhi akuyona inhloso kakhulu.
Imiphumela ye-Mood
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi izinguquko eziphuthumayo zemizwelo ngezinye izikhathi zingabonisa ukuthi ukuxhashazwa kuyenzeka. Ungalokothi uphazamise izinguquko zengane enhle noma uzibhale njenge-hormonal uze wazi ukuthi kungani zibonakala zikhukhumezekile, zithukuthele noma zide. Izinguquko ekuziphatheni, imikhuba yokulala kanye nemizwelo kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi ibhekwe njengezibonakaliso zokuqala zokuxwayisa ukuthi kukhona okungalungile.
Kuyinto evamile izisulu zokubiza amagama kanye nezinye izinhlobo zokuxhashazwa ukuze zithole ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka. Uma ingane yakho ibonisa ukushintsha kwemizwelo, menze ahlolwe udokotela ngokushesha.
Ithinta impilo yengqondo
Ukubiza amagama kungaba nemiphumela emibi empilweni yengqondo. Eqinisweni, abacwaningi bacabanga ukuthi kungenye yezindlela ezilimazayo kakhulu zokuxhaphaza. Isibonelo, ezinye izisulu zicindezelekile kakhulu kusukela ekubizeni amagama ukuthi ziqala ukuzizwa zingenanzuzo, zingenakuzisiza futhi zingenakho ukulawula. Ezinye izisulu zingase zicabange ngisho nokuzibulala . Uma ingane yakho ikhuluma ngokufa noma ifuna ukufa, ungayinaki imibono yakhe. Yenza ingane yakho ihlolwe ngumsebenzi wezokwelapha ngokushesha.
Ithinta impilo yempilo
Ngokuvamile, lapho izingane zibizwa ngokuthi amagama abo ezempilo zizokwehliswa. Ngaphandle kokuba nenkinga yokudla noma yokulala, nabo bangase bakhononde ngesisu nesisu esikhathazekile. Ukwengeza, ezinye izisulu zingase zihlakulele ukucindezeleka kokucindezeleka ngemva kokucindezeleka , izilonda, noma ezinye izimo ezihlobene nokucindezeleka.