Abameli bangasiza ukuxoxisana ngezingane ezineziphene
Abameli ngabanye abasebenza egameni labantu abakhubazekile ukuthola izinsizakalo ezidingekayo. Basiza abafundi ngokukhubazeka nokufunda nezinye ukukhubazeka. Abameli baxoxisana nezikole nabanye abahlinzeka ngemisebenzi ngokunikeza imibono, ukwenza ucwaningo, nangokumelela noma ukuqeqesha abazali emihlanganweni yeqembu le-IEP.
Lapho Ababameli Badingeka?
Abameli emfundweni ekhethekile bangasiza abazali ukuba bathole izinsizakalo ezibalulekile ezinganeni zabo abakhubazekile .
Iningi labantu liwasebenzisa lapho izikole noma abanye abahlinzeki bezinsizakalo bephika izinsizakalo, ukwelashwa, noma izinto ezidingekayo ezinganeni. Uma uhlola ukuthi kufanele uhilele abagqugquzeli, abazali kufanele bacele izizathu ezithile zokuthi izicelo zabo zenzelwe izinsizakalo. Uma kunqunywa isidingo sabameli, abazali kufanele bahlole ngokucophelela lokho okufunayo nokuthi ngabe ummeli angasiza yini noma cha:
- Ingabe isevisi noma indawo yokuhlala ifuna noma isidingo sendodana yami?
- Ingabe mina (noma ingane yami) ngizohlangabezana nemigomo yokufunda ngaphandle kwalento noma isevisi, nakuba kungathatha isikhathi eside noma kungabi yindlela engingayithanda?
- Ingabe isicelo sami sisekelwe ocwaningweni oluzwakalayo?
- Ingabe kungenzeka ukuthi into noma inkonzo ingahle ingasebenzi noma ingozi?
- Ingabe le nto noma isevisi yokuhlola noma akuyona indlela ejwayelekile?
- Ingabe isicelo sami sinengqondo?
Uma abazali bakholelwa ukuthi le nsizakalo iyasebenza futhi iyadingeka, bangase bafune ukucubungula abaxhumanisi usizo uma bengatholi izimpendulo ezifanele kusuka esifundeni sesikole.
Ubani Ongaba Yizifundo Ezikhethekile Nezemfundo Futhi Ngingawuthola Kanjani?
Abameli bavela kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kanye nobuchwepheshe obuhlukahlukene. Ayikho ilayisensi esemthethweni noma isitifiketi, futhi abaningi babo baye bafunda okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo. Ungathola abamele ngokusebenzisa:
- Izinsiza ezisesimweni sakho;
- Umnyango wezemfundo wombuso wakho;
- Indawo engaphansi kwezempilo yengqondo noma umnyango wezempilo wendawo;
- Izinhlangano ezingenzi inzuzo ezikhonza abantu abakhubazekile;
- Isikole noma isisebenzi senhlalakahle yangasese noma umeluleki; noma
- Ukudluliselwa kwabanye abazali bezingane abakhubazekile.
Indlela Yokutshela Uma Abaphikisi Bezemfundo Ezikhethekile Bakulungele Wena
- Funa abagqugquzeli abanolwazi endaweni yakho yokukhubazeka. Uma engekho, thola umuntu osekelayo onomlando omuhle wezingxoxo eziphumelelayo.
- Cela izinkomba. Buza izinkomba mayelana nezinga lommeli wolwazi, ubuchwepheshe, nokusebenza. Uma kunokwenzeka, khuluma nabanye abajwayele ummeleli onganikeza ukuhlaziywa okungakhethi kwamasevisi akhe.
- Okungenani, abagqugquzeli kufanele babe nolwazi oluhle lokusebenza lomthetho okhethekile wezemfundo. Abaqeqeshi abaqeqeshiwe abahle uma bekhona.
- Funa abameli abazobe bethembekile kuwe hhayi nje ukukutshela ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi ufuna ukuzwa.
- Funa ummeli osekelayo futhi onengqondo ngalokho angakwenzela khona.
- Buza mayelana nemali, futhi ube nommeli ubhale kahle ukuthi yiziphi izinsizakalo ozothola lezo zimali. Abamele bangatholakali ngezindleko ezivela ku-ejensi kahulumeni. Uma izimali zihilelekile, qaphela ngokucophelela. Ngeshwa, kunabameli abangekho emthethweni abazophanga ngenkathazo yakho. Thembela ama-instincts akho. Uma ungazizwa ukhululekile ngemali yommeli, bheka kwenye indawo.
Qaphela abameli aba:
- yenza izithembiso ezibonakala zihle kakhulu ukuba zingeqiniso;
- bathi bodwa kuphela abangakusiza;
- uthembisa ukunqoba imali noma ukusiza ukuba ucebe;
- kubonakala sengathi kunzima kakhulu noma okuphikisana nawe noma umhlinzeki wenkonzo;
- ukuhudula inqubo noma ukukhokha naphezu kwenqubekelaphambili encane endabeni yakho;
Landela ama-instincts wakho uma uthola ukuthi ngabe abaphikisi bakulungile yini. Gwema kulabo abasebenzisa amaqhinga okwesabisa futhi ukwandise ukukhathazeka kwakho. Gwema abameleli abagxeka ngokweqile noma ukunyundela kumhlinzeki wakho wesevisi. Yiba namaqiniso abameli abachitha isikhathi sakho noma isikhathi sakho somhlinzeki ngamaqhinga okuthusa, ukuhlukunyezwa, nokudlala umdlalo.
Ungaze uvumele omelayo ukuba enze ngaphandle kokuxoxa ngamasu nawe kanye nemvume yakho yokunikeza.
Isitayela Esihamba phambili Sokuxoxisana Sabameli Abafundi Abakhubazekile Ukufunda
Izitayela zama-Advocates zingashintsha kakhulu, futhi nguwe kuphela onganquma ukuthi ukhululekile yini nesitayela. Ezinye zizolile kodwa zisebenzisana nabaxoxisana abaphumelela ngokufaka isicelo sakho ngemininingwane eqinile ukusekela. Abanye bakhathazekile kakhulu futhi bangase bazame ukusongela ukuze lolu daba luxazululwe ngokuthandayo.
Noma ngabe iyiphi indlela esetshenzisiwe, kubalulekile ukuthi:
- Qinisekisa ukuthi isicelo sakho sifanele futhi sinengqondo.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi abamele abonakali ithemba lokusebenza kwakho nesifunda noma umhlinzeki wesikole esikhathini esizayo. Abameli abahle akufanele bakwenze bathembele kubo ukuze baphile.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi unedatha eqinile ukusekela isicelo sakho, njengezincomo ezivela odokotela. Idatha nolunye ulwazi olusekelayo olubonisa ngokucacile ukuthi kungani inkonzo noma into edingekayo kungasiza icala lakho.
- Qinisekisa kusengaphambili ukuthi ungayenza yini noma ungayekethisa uma kufanelekile.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ukuthi iziphi izikhalazo ezithinta isicelo sakho nokuthi yiziphi impendulo yakho kulezi zikhalazo.
Amanye amasu okukhuthaza ukuthi angasiza ukuthola imiphumela oyifunayo
- Sebenzisa isikhashana ucwaninga isikhundla sakho. Amasayithi okukhubazeka e-intanethi, emitapo yolwazi, nezinhlangano ezingenzi inzuzo ezizinikezele endaweni yakho yokukhubazeka ziyizinsiza ezinhle zokwaziswa. Kungumqondo omuhle ukuthola ulwazi ezinkampanini ngaphandle komkhiqizi wento noma umhlinzeki wensizakalo oyifunayo ukuze unolwazi lomgomo lokuhlanganyela neqembu le-IEP.
- Yazi amalungelo akho, futhi uzimisele ukuwasebenzisa. Uma uye wabonisa isidingo esicacile, wenza isicelo esifanele, esifanele futhi usisekele isicelo sakho ngemininingwane eqinile, inhloso, futhi i-ejensi isenqaba isicelo sakho, ungase uthande ukucabangela ukufaka isikhalazo noma isikhalazo ngokuphathwa i-agency noma isikole.
- Uma uzame ukuxazulula inkinga ngokusebenzisa ukuphathwa kwe-ejensi noma yesikole, futhi ungakamukeli ukusekela okudingayo, cabanga ngokufaka isikhalazo esihleliwe nehhovisi likahulumeni elimele likahulumeni eliphethe i-ejensi. Ezikoleni, lokho kuzoba ngumnyango wezemfundo kahulumeni. Uma isikhalazo sakho sibhekene nenkampani yomshuwalense wezempilo, thintana nomnyango wesevisi yamakhasimende ukuze uthole imiyalelo yokufaka isikhalazo. Ungase ube namalungelo okufaka izikhalazo ngokusebenzisa i-ejensi yokuvikelwa kwabathengi yombuso noma ibhodi lelayisense noma umshwalense lapho usebenzisana nezinhlangano ezingekho esikoleni.