Izindlela zokuziphatha zezingane zokuzama uma isikhathi sokuphuma siphumelela
Uma kuziwa ekuqondiseni izingane , asikho isixazululo esisodwa esihambisana nazo zonke izingane. Uma ngabe ingane yakho iyinhlobo yezinyane elichitha lonke isikhathi ngesikhathi sokuthukuthela noma ukucasuka nokukhala nokukhala futhi ungaboni umehluko ekuziphatheni kwakhe, kungase kube yisikhathi sokuvuma ukuthi "ukwenza ubugebengu, yenza isikhathi "indlela engasebenzi ngayo ingane yakho .
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isikhathi noma isikhathi sokuphuma emsebenzini singancika ebuntwaneni bomntwana nangokwakheka, ubudala bakhe nesigaba sokuthuthukiswa, nokuthi isikhathi sokuphuma sisetshenziswa kanjani. Ukuphuma kwesikhathi kungase kube yinto nje ingane eyodwa okudingeka ikwazi ukuzola futhi ucabange ngokuziphatha kwayo; kodwa ngomunye umntwana, bangase bayeke ukumemeza nokucasuka ngokomzwelo. Uma isikhathi siphumeze senza ezinye izixuku futhi zithukuthele ekhaya futhi zingasombululi izinkinga zokuziphatha , kungase kube yisikhathi sokuqala ukucubungula amasu okulungisa ingane okunye okuqondisa ukuziphatha kwengane yakho ngendlela efanele.
Amasu okuzama ukuzama uma ukuphuma kwesikhathi kungasebenzi
- Hlala uphole futhi usebenzise amanye amathuluzi. Ungaboni ukuphuma kwesikhathi njengegrail engcwele yokuqondisa ingane futhi uvulekele ezinye izindlela zokufundisa ingane yakho ukuthi uziphathe kanjani. Into ebalulekile ukuthi uxhumane nomntanakho, uxhumane naye ngokuphumelelayo , futhi umenze azise ukuthi ulindele ukuthi abe ngumntwana owenza izinqumo ezinhle futhi aphathe abanye - kubandakanya futhi ikakhulukazi wena - ngenhlonipho.
- Uma ekuqaleni ungaphumelelanga, zama futhi. Njengoba nje ngokunikela ngokudla okusha noma ukuthola umntwana wakho ukuba adle imifino , isisho esidala ngokuzama futhi uma uhluleka okokuqala ugcina iqiniso ngesikhathi sokuphuma. Angase azonde isikhathi sokuqala kodwa ekugcineni, ingane yakho ingase isetshenziselwe ukuphumula kude nesimo esimcasulayo ukuze ikwazi ukuzincisha phansi futhi ihlele imicabango yakhe nemizwelo - amakhono azoba abaluleke kakhulu njengoba ethola endala.
- Bonisa ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani ukuhlehlisa isikhathi sokuphuma. Ingabe ugcina ingane yakho ngesikhathi sayo ngaphandle kwendawo ende kakhulu? (Imizuzu eyishumi ingase ibe yinde kakhulu ingane eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala , isibonelo.) Cabanga ngobudala nengqondo yengane yakho futhi unamathele ekuphumeni kwesikhathi esifushane kwezingane ezincane. Kuzingane ezindala, ungase uthande isikhathi silingane nobugebengu: isikhathi eside sokushaya nokulwa nezingane zakudala nokusho okuncane ngokusho okuthile okuthukuthele futhi uxolise ngaso leso sikhathi, isibonelo. Futhi cabanga ngesimo: Ingabe uthumela ingane yakho ekamelweni lakhe ukuze ikwazi ukudlala ngamathoyizi akhe? Lokho akumkhuthazi ukuba acabange ngokuziphatha kwakhe okubi. Noma ingabe uyibeka ngesikhathi sokuphuma ne-TV? Lokho ngeke kusebenze. Cabanga ngesithuba esithulile ngaphandle kweziphazamiso lapho angacabanga ngalokho akwenzile nokuthi angashintsha kanjani ukuziphatha kwakhe ngesikhathi esizayo.
- Qinisekisa - kepha uqine. Chaza - okungaphezu kwesisodwa uma udinga - leso sikhathi akusiyo isijeziso, kodwa ithuba lokuba wonke umuntu ahlale phansi. Qinisekisa ingane yakho ukuthi uyamthanda, kodwa ukuthi ukuziphatha kwayo kufanele kushintshe futhi uzomsiza ukuthi abone ukuthi angenza kanjani ukukhetha okungcono futhi akhulume naye uma isikhathi siphelile.
- Hlala eduze uma ingane yakho ithola ukuthi iyakhathaza futhi. Lokhu kungasiza izingane ezincane zihlale ngesikhathi futhi zingakhathazeki ngokuhlala isikhathi. Kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ungakhulumi nengane yakho noma uhlanganyele naye.
- Nika izinto azithandayo isikhathi futhi uthathe amalungelo. Ingabe ingane yakho iyathanda ukudlala i-Minecraft? Mtshele ukuthi ngeke avunyelwe ukudlala isikhathi esithile (izinsuku noma ngesonto, kuye ngokuthi kunzima kangakanani lokho akwenzile okungalungile). Uyakuthanda yini ukuba nabangani emva kwesikole noma uhambe nabangani bakhe? Angase alahlekelwe amalungelo okudlala idethi njengomphumela wokuziphatha okubi. Cabanga ngalokho ingane yakho ekuthandayo futhi unikele lezo zinto isikhathi sokumqondisa ngendlela efanele.
- Ungamvimbeli ngokomzimba ingane yakho. Iphuzu lokuphuma kwesikhathi lizocabangela ukuthula futhi liyancipha. Ukuzama ukumbamba ingane yakho kuyinto ehluke kakhulu kulokho, futhi kungabangela ukuba ingane yakho ilimale.