Ukuyala abantwana beminyaka yobudala besikoleni kunezinselele kanye nemivuzo ehlukile. Ngenkathi izingane zonyaka zingakwazi ukuveza imizwa yazo futhi zibonise ukuzithiba, ukuyala izingane ezinkulu zingasadingeka ukuthi zisebenzise ezinye izinyembezi nezinyembezi.
Lapho ingane enkulu inenkinga yokuqhuma, zama ukukhumbula ukubaluleka kokufundisa inhlonipho lapho uyala izingane.
Ngisho noma ingane yakho iphoqa izinkinobho zakho, zama ukukhumbula ukukhuluma naye ngendlela ongathanda ukukhuluma ngayo.
Kuyasiza futhi ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuyala izingane esikoleni kungaba yindlela yokubeka izisekelo zokuziphatha okuhle eminyakeni ezayo. Abanye abazali bangase bacabange ngokuqondiswa kwengane njengento oyenzayo lapho ingane ingenzi kahle. Kodwa ochwepheshe abaningi bathi ukuyala izingane kufanele kube ngaphezulu ngokusebenza nengane yakho ukuze imqondise ekuziphatheni okuhle ukuze enze izinqumo ezinhle ngokwayo. Nazi ezinye zezindlela ongaqondisa ingane yakho yokufunda esikoleni samabanga aphansi njengoba ekhulela kumuntu ongakwazi ukuzijezisa ngokwengeziwe.
Lindela ezinye izinyathelo eziphambili ... nokunye okubuyela emuva
Njengoba izingane zikhula futhi zingena esikoleni sontanga nesibanga, ziqala ukuthuthukisa ukuzithiba okungcono ukubhekana nokukhathazeka nokudumazeka. Baphinde babe nokukwazi ukukhuluma ngemizwa yabo futhi bakwazi ukuqonda nokulandela imithetho.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi basesebancane, futhi ngezinye izikhathi bangabuyela emuva ekungcoleni, ukucwiliswa, nokunye ukuziphatha okungajwayelekile okujwayelekile eminyakeni encane neyesenkulisa.
Thola Ingane Yakho Inomthelela Ekubekeni Imingcele Nemithetho
Manje ukuthi ingane yakho in enkulisa noma ebangeni lesikole , uzokwazi kangcono ukuqonda ukuthi kungani eminye imithetho iyadingeka (impilo yakhe, ukuphepha, njll).
Chaza isikhundla sakho, ulalele umbono wakhe, bese ukhohlisa lapho unga khona. Uma umngane wakhe elala ku-9, kodwa ungathanda ukuthi isikhathi sokulala kwengane yakho sibe ngu-8, mtshele ukuthi uzozama u-8: 30 uma enikezwa ukuthi akhathele kakhulu emini.
Qiniseka mayelana ne-RESPECT
Mtshele ukuthi kuphephile ukuveza imizwa yakhe - uma nje enza kanjalo ngenhlonipho. Uma enza i-cranky nawe (hey, sonke sinemihla embi, abantu abadala bakhona), mtshele ukuthi akhulume nawe ngendlela enhle. Khona-ke, lapho enokuthula okuningi, khuluma naye ngalokho okwakwenza angathokozi. Inhlonipho ibuye ihambe ngendlela emibili, ngakho-ke khuluma nengane yakho ngendlela ofuna ukuba akhulume ngayo nawe. Ungamemeza, tshela lokho okudingayo ngokuthula, futhi khumbula ukuthi "sicela" futhi "ngiyabonga."
Nika "Do" Esikhundleni se "Do not"
Gxila ekuziphatheni ofuna ukukubona, hhayi lokho akwenzayo okungalungile. Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Ungaphonsa lelo bhola nxazonke zendlu" uthi "Ukwenza lokho kungaphula okuthile. Ake sihambe ngaphandle bese sidlala. "
Thola Okubangela Ukuziphatha
Mhlawumbe wayenomusa kumuntu odlala naye ngoba wayenemisebenzi eminingi kakhulu ngalolo suku. Hamba emuva, futhi ucabange ukuthi yini okungenzeka yamenza wakhathazeka. Kamuva, ngemva kokuthula, mbuze ukuthi ucabangani nokuzizwa.
Gcina ingane isilule futhi ilula
Yize umfundi wakho webanga-grade ekwazi kangcono ukuqonda imithetho, gwema ukungena emininingwaneni eningi kakhulu. Ukungena enchazeni eside mayelana nento ofuna ukuthi angayenza kungase kudideke. Kungamnika ingane yakho umlayezo ongaqiniseki ngalokho okushoyo.
Qiniseka futhi uqine
Isikhathi sokulala isikhathi sokulala. Okunye okunye (gcwalisa okungenalutho) akuvumelekile. Uma udideka, uzokwazi ukuthi angaphinda aphonse imingcele ngesikhathi esizayo.