Ukuphila kwengane kukhishwa ngushintsho-kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungukunakekelwa kwezinsuku ezintsha, esikoleni noma kubantwana, umngane ohambisa indlela, imithwalo yemithwalo emisha emisebenzini yasendlini noma isimo esincane noma esincane kunazo zonke, izingane zabo bonke ubudala zibhekene noshintsho nsuku zonke. Noma kunjalo, ingane iyakhula lapho ekwazi ukuthi yini engayilindela - ngisho noma engayithandi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngokudala ingane yakho imvelo, ungamsiza ukuthi azizwe ephephile futhi evikelekile, okuyinto ebalulekile ekuvimbeleni izinkinga zokuziphatha .
Kungani Uhlela Izinto
Ngokwenza njalo futhi ulandele imithethonqubo nemigomo, ungase ubhalwe ukuthi ungumzali "oqinile." Yamukela lesi sihloko. Izingane zidinga le mithetho kanye nemigomo ngezizathu eziningana: ukuqonda imingcele nemingcele, ukufunda ukuzithiba , ukubhekana nokukhungatheka nokuphuza ukuzithokozisa nokusebenzisana ngokufanele nezwe elibazungezile, ukubiza abambalwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, imizila ejwayelekile ifundisa ukuzimela. Uma ingane yakho iqonda ukuthi ekuseni iqala ngokuxubha amazinyo, ukugqoka, ukudla ukudla kwasekuseni bese ukupakisha isikhwama sakhe esikoleni, cishe ngeke kudingeke uyikhumbule njalo - noma umlandele ngaphandle komnyango, ukumemeza ukuba abuyele emuva umsebenzi wakhe wesikole. Lokhu ukuzimela kungakhuphula ukuzethemba komntanakho njengoba eqiniseka ngokuzinakekela yena.
Ukusungula indlela evamile
Uma usuku lwengane yakho lunezakhiwo ezincane kakhulu, faka ushintsho kancane.
Ukusebenzisa isimiso ngokugxila engxenyeni eyodwa nje yosuku, njengehora noma amabili phakathi kwesidlo sasekuseni kanye nesikhathi sokulala. Uyazi kahle ukuthi yimiphi imisebenzi edinga ukufezwa ngalesi sikhathi, njengokugqoka ukudla, ukuphelisa umsebenzi wesikole, ukugeza, ukuxubha amazinyo, isikhathi sembali kanye nezibani, ngakho-ke yenza imisebenzi ngendlela enengqondo emndenini wakho.
Uma unayo "isikhungo somyalo" endlini yakho, yakha iphosta elinezinhlu zemisebenzi okufanele uyenze ngokuhlelekile. Ungabandakanya izithombe zengane ngayinye okwenza lo msebenzi ngendlela efanele ngakho akudingeki ukuba uqondise kuwo uma ijwayele - ikushiye ukwazi ukupakisha ukudla, ukuqedela imisebenzi yokusebenza futhi uzilungiselele usuku olulandelayo. Kungathatha noma yikuphi amasonto ambalwa kuya ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ukuze izingane zijwayele imizila yazo.
Uma udala isimiso sakho, ungakhohlwa ukungeza esikhathini esincane sokujabulisa, njengenganekwane noma ukukhuluma ngosuku lwakho ndawonye. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukugxila kakhulu ekufezeni umphumela wokuphela kwesimiso kusho ukweqa phezu kwamathuba okuxhuma njengomndeni.
Ukwakha Imithetho Yezindlu
Isakhiwo sisho nokusebenzisa imithetho yomndeni . Le mithetho kufanele ibe ecacile futhi ecacile - njengezinto zokwenza izinto zobuciko zihlale ekamelweni lokudlela noma kungekho iTVV kuze kube yilapho umsebenzi wesikole usuqedile - futhi kufanelekile. Kumele kubekwe kusengaphambili, futhi imithetho emisha akufanele yenziwe ngaphandle kokuxoxa ngayo kuqala.
Ungaphinda uxoxe ngemiphumela yokuphula le mithetho, ngakho ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi yini egciniwe uma yenza isinqumo esibi. Imiphumela engase ibe khona ingasho ukuthi akukho mali, akukho isikhathi sokudlala noma akukho imisebenzi yomphakathi ngempelasonto.
Ukuphambuka Emithethweni Nemigomo Ngokuphumelelayo
Ezinye zezingxenye ezingakhunjulwa kakhulu zokuphila kwengane yilapho abazali bakhe benquma ukuphonsa isimiso ngefasitela ngenjabulo encane, njengokuhlala isikhathi sekwephuzile ukuze ubukele izinkanyezi zokudubula noma ukudlala umdlalo webhodi ebusweni besikole. Ngakho-ke, abazali kudingeka babe nokuguquguquka okuncane. Uma unquma ukuphambuka emithethweni noma esimisweni, chaza ingane yakho ukuthi kungani wenza kanjalo nokuthi kuyisenzakalo esikhethekile, isikhathi esisodwa.
Ukwengeza, uzimisele ukushintsha isakhiwo sekhaya njengoba ingane yakho ikhula. Imithetho kanye nemigomo efanelekayo encane kufanele ixiliswe ukuze isebenzele i-pre-teen, ngokwemvelo.
Njalo ezinyangeni ezimbalwa, thola ukuthi indlu yakho isakhiwo kanjani futhi wenze noma yiziphi izimo ezifanelekile.
Ekugcineni, umqondo wokwakha uzokuqeda ukuhlukunyezwa kwamandla , uhlele umndeni wonke futhi usize ingane yakho izwe ivikelekile futhi izimele-umphumela owumnandi wezinyanga ezimbalwa zomzamo wokugxila.