Izinkinga Zokuziphatha Ezivamile Ezingane Zesikole

Izinkinga zokuqondisa izingane ezingabuka ezinganeni ezineminyaka emihlanu kuya kweyishumi ubudala

Kanye nezenzakalo ezimangalisayo, ungalindela ukubona phakathi kwezingane ezifunda esikoleni ezifana nokuzikhulisa okwandayo kanye nokukwazi ukuphatha imithwalo yemithwalo yemithwalo yemfanelo, kukhona nokuvela kancane okujabulisayo kwezinkinga zokuziphatha ezivamile kule nkathi yobudala.

Ngenkathi izinkinga zokuziphatha kwengane ezinjengokunganaki nokukhulumisana emuva kungase kukhule eminyakeni engaphambili emntwaneni, ukuziphatha okunjalo kungathatha isici esiyinkinga kakhulu njengoba izingane zikhula, zikhuluma futhi zizimele.

Funda ukuze ufunde ngezinkinga ezithile zokuziphatha ongayilindela ukuzibona ezinganeni kulezi zinsuku - nezixazululo eziphumelelayo zokubhekana nalezi zindaba zokuziphatha. Ngenkathi kungekho nqubo eyodwa yokuqondisa ingane isebenza kuzo zonke izingane, kunezinye izindlela abazali abangazama ngazo, njengama- timeouts kanye namashadi okuziphatha . Kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, isihluthulelo sokuqondisa ingane ngokuphumelelayo siqala ngokuqonda umehluko phakathi kokujeziswa nokujeziswa , ukuqinisa isibopho esinamandla nengane yakho, nokuxhumana nengane yakho nsuku zonke.

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Ukwethembeka nokwenqaba

Uma uzwa okuningi "okungenayo" kusuka kumntanakho noma ngokuya ngokubona ukuziphatha okungcolile njengokulahla ukwenza into oyicelile ukuthi ingane yakho yenze, awuyedwa. Ukuziphatha okungcolile kuyinkinga evamile kakhulu phakathi kwezingane ezifunda esikoleni. Kodwa ngamasu alungile, ungathola empandweni yokuziphatha kwengane yakho futhi ubuyise ingane yakho eqenjini lakho.

Okuningi

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Ukukhuluma Ngempendulo

Ukukhuluma emuva kungase kube yingxenye evamile yokuthuthukiswa kwengane, kodwa ngokuqinisekile kungenye yezinto ezimbi kakhulu. Nazi ezinye izindlela zokuzama futhi zeqiniso zokufaka le nkinga yokuziphatha ku-Buddha nokusiza ingane yakho ukuthi iveze ngendlela efanele futhi ehloniphayo.

Okuningi

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Ukungalaleli

Uma kwenzeka waziphindaphinda izikhathi eziningana ukuze ingane yakho ilandele okuthile owamcela ukuba akwenze noma ukulalela isiqondiso, uyazi ukuthi kungakhathazeka kanjani uma ingane ingalaleli. Kungani kwenzeka, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, yini ongayenza ukuze ulungise lokhu okunamandla? Funda ngezinye iziphakamiso namathiphu awusizo.

Okuningi

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Ukukhohlisa

Ukuba nomntwana wakho amanga kuwe kungadabukisa. Kodwa iqiniso ukuthi ukuqamba amanga kuwukuziphatha okuvamile phakathi kwezingane ezingabhekiswa ngothando kanye nokuqinisekiswa ngokulinganisela nemiphumela.

Okuningi

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Sibling Ukuphikisana Nokulwa

Njengoba izingane zakho zingase zithandane, ukulwa nomntakwethu kanye nokulwa kuyinto evamile kakhulu ebuhlotsheni abaningi bomntakwethu. Nazi imibono emihle kakhulu yokwakha uthando lwezingane zakini kanye nokunciphisa ukungqubuzana okungaholela ekuxabaneni kwabantwana phakathi kwabazalwane nodadewethu.

Okuningi

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Ukudonsa abanye

Ukuxubha kuyinkinga ecasulayo kodwa ejwayelekile kakhulu phakathi kwezingane ezineminyaka yobudala bebanga lesikolo. Izingane kule minyaka zihlolisisa okulungile nokungalungile, zifunda ngemithetho nemiphumela, futhi zibeka ukubaluleka okukhulu kokungabi nabulungisa. Konke okuyinto iresiphi yokuxubha, kodwa abazali bangasiza ukuqondisa izingane ekubhekeni kokuziphatha okuhle futhi bafundise izingane ukuthi bangatshela kanjani umehluko phakathi kokuthungatha nokutshela ukusiza othile.

Okuningi

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I-Dawdling

Ingabe ingane yakho ithatha amaminithi angu-10 ukufaka i-sock eyodwa ekuseni? Ingabe uyadla kancane futhi uthatha isigamu sehora ukuba adle amakhekhe ambalwa endla yakhe? Ukuziphatha okuphazamisayo kungaphathwa ngezinye izixazululo ezimnandi nezokudala.

Okuningi

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I-Whining

I-Whining ingaba omunye wemisindo engavamile kakhulu eyaziwa yindoda. Futhi njengoba cishe wonke umzali angafakazela, izingane zizalwa zinekhono lokukhiqiza lo msindo, cishe njengokungathi kukhona okufakwe kwi-DNA yabo. Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ngamaqhinga ambalwa alula, abazali bangenza izingane zabo ziyeke ukugcoba - futhi zilondoloze ukuhlanzeka kwabo ohlelweni.

Okuningi

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Ukungena embhedeni

Ingabe isikhathi sokulala kaningi impi yokuthandaza endlini yakho? Uma ingane yakho ingeke ilale njalo noma ingakhathazeki ukulala noma ukulala, zama lezi zeluleko ukuze uthole ukuthi yini engambangela izinkinga zokulala futhi ufunde ukuthi ungamsiza kanjani ukuba aphumule ebusuku - into ebaluleke kakhulu izingane zesikole.

Okuningi

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Amahloni

kuyilapho abanye abazali bengase bakhathazeke ngokuthi amahloni emntwaneni wabo angase abe yinto engaba yinkinga, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi kunezici eziningi ezinhle nezinzuzo zokuba yi-introvert.