Yini ongayilinda eneminyaka engu-7
Ukuvuthwa ngokomzwelo lapho uneminyaka engu-7 ukude kakhulu kulokho okwakukhona phakathi neminyaka yesenkulisa noma ye- kindergarten . Okokuqala, izingane ezineminyaka engu-7 zikwazi kangcono ukusingatha izinguquko nezinguquko zomzuzu wokugcina. Nakuba kungenzeka bengakakwazi ukuzisebenzisa ukuzithiba abazobe beneminyaka engu-10 noma engu-12 ubudala, iningi elineminyaka engu-7 lingakwazi ukubekezelela ukuhamba nezimo ezingalindelekile.
Noma kunjalo, abaneminyaka engu-7 bazobe besadingeka futhi bathole induduzo emisebenzini. Njengoba umhlaba wezingane uvula futhi ugxila kakhulu ezintweni nakubantu abangaphandle kwendlu yakhe nomndeni wakubo, uzothembela kakhulu ezintweni angayilindela futhi azibheke kuzo, njengesikhathi somndeni , isimiso sokulala , nomndeni ovamile ukudla.
Ukuqiniseka nokungavikeleki
Ukufunda izibalo eziyisisekelo nokufunda esikoleni kunganikeza ukuzethemba kweminyaka engu-7 nokuziqhenya kwimpumelelo yabo. Ukukwazi ukufunda kabanzi ngokuzimela uye kwavula umhlaba, futhi kunomthelela kumqondo wengane wokuba "ukhulile".
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abaningi abaneminyaka engu-7 bazozizwa bengalondekile ngokwabo futhi bangase babe ngabagxeki babo ababi kakhulu. Ngomunye oneminyaka engu-7 ubudala, ukungatholi okuthile ukubuka ngendlela abafuna ngayo noma ukulahlekelwa umdlalo kungabhekana nokuzethemba kwabo. Abazali, othisha, nabanye abantu abadala bangasiza ngokunikeza isikhuthazo njalo futhi kusize ingane igxilise kulokho angase ifunde kulo msebenzi kunokuba yini engahambanga kahle.
Abaneminyaka engu-7 bazokwazi ukucindezelwa kontanga. Njengoba izingane ezineminyaka engu-7 zingase zingaqiniseki ngokwayo, isifiso sokungena kuzo singenza ingane ibe yingozi kakhulu ekuhambeni nesixuku. Abazali bangazisiza izingane ukuba zingavumi ukucindezelwa kontanga ngokugcizelela ukubaluleka kokuzimela komunye umuntu futhi ungahambisani nabanye, ikakhulukazi uma kukhona okungahambi kahle kubo.
Ukuzimela
Abaneminyaka engu-7 banamathuba amaningi okukuvumela ukuba uhlale ulala nabo ngesikhathi sokulala kodwa ugxume ekukhukhuleni kwakho emini, ikakhulukazi uma ukhona eduze nabangane bakhe noma esikoleni. Izingane kule minyaka zingahlala zikhona phakathi kokufuna ukwenza imisebenzi, njengezabelo zasemakhaya noma imisebenzi yasekhaya, ngokuphelele ngokwabo, bese nje ngokushesha nicela umuntu omdala usizo. Lona umzabalazo wabo wokuzimela ngokwengeziwe ngenkathi besadinga isiqondiso.
Abaningi abaneminyaka engu-7 bazobe bengathanda ukudlala nabangani kodwa bangase baqale ukujabulela ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi bodwa, bedlala ngokwabo noma befunda. Isikhathi sesikhathi esisodwa kanye nokuphumula, empeleni, kungaba yingxenye ebalulekile yentuthuko yengane yomqondo wokuzimela kanye nobuhlobo bakhe kwabanye.
Abangane kanye Nokusebenzisana
Lapho uneminyaka engu-7 ubudala, izingane eziningi zidlala ukudlala okuhlelekile okufaka imithetho, kodwa lokhu kungaholela ekukhungathekeni. Ingane yakho ngeke isebenze kuphela imizwelo yayo, izokhula futhi emandleni akhe okuqonda imizwa yabangane bayo nabanye abazungezile.
> Imithombo:
> Amasevisi Okulawula Nokuvimbela Izifo (CDC). Izingane Ephakathi (iminyaka engu-6-8 ubudala). https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/childdevelopment/positiveparenting/middle.html. Kubuyekezwe ngomhla ka-3 Januwari, 2017.
> Tracker Child Development Tracker: Uneminyaka Engu-7 ubudala. Abazali be-PBS. http://www.pbs.org/parents/childdevelopmenttracker/seven/index.html.