Abadala abaneminyaka engu-7 bayakulungele ukuhlola ukuziphatha nobuhlobo
Izingane ezineminyaka engu-7 zizojabulela ubungane futhi zingase zibe eduze komuntu oyedwa noma abambalwa. Abantwana abaneminyaka eyisikhombisa bayokhathalela kabanzi mayelana nokuphendula komunye nomunye imibono yabantu, okungabenza bakwazi ukubhekana nokucindezela kontanga. Bazohlakulela ukuzwela okukhulu, kanye nomqondo oqinile wokulungile, okungalungile nokulingana.
Ubuhlobo
Njengoba izingane ezineminyaka engu-7 zikhula futhi zandise ama-horizons awo ezenhlalakahle, zivamise ukuba zithandane nabanye abantu abadala ngaphandle kwabazali babo, njengothisha, umalume noma ngisho nomzali womngani.
Bantfwana, le minyaka ingase ibe nobuhlobo obuseduze enkulisa noma ekuqaleni. Kodwa kubantwana abaneminyaka eyisikhombisa, okunamathiselwe kwabanye abantu bobabili oontanga nabadala asebekhulile bangaba abacebile futhi bazuze ngokwengeziwe lapho behlanganyela izithakazelo, izinto zokuzilibazisa, futhi badlala imidlalo kanye nemidlalo ndawonye.
Kubuye kubonakale kubantwana abaneminyaka eyisikhombisa ukuthi bafune ukudlala ngokudla kuphela ngezingane zobulili babo. Kwezinye izimo, lokhu kungase kube umsebenzi wemvelo wokuba nesithakazelo esihlukile; kwezinye izimo, kungase kube umphumela wokucindezela kontanga. Abazali bangakhuthaza izingane ukuthi ziqhubeke nokudlala nomngane ongase abe nobulili obuhlukile uma izingane zabo ezineminyaka eyisikhombisa zithanda ngempela ingane. Lokhu kungaba yithuba lokukhuluma ngokucindezela kontanga nokubaluleka kokwenza izinto abanye abangase bangavumelani nazo uma kuzizwa kufanelekile.
Ukuziphatha Nezimiso
Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engu-7 uhlakulela umqondo oqinile wokulungile nokungalungile futhi kungenzeka ukuthi uzizwe unecala futhi uhlazekile.
Izingane ezineminyaka engu-7 zingase "zitshele" abanye ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi zikopela, futhi zingase zisho futhi zigxile ngemibono njengokungathi ubulungisa nobulungiswa.
Ukunika, Ukuhlanganyela, nozwela
Esikoleni, ingane yakho eneminyaka eyisikhombisa ithuthukisa ukuqonda ubukhulu bezwe kanye nencazelo yomphakathi kanye nomakhelwane.
Kungenzeka ukuthi ufunde mayelana nokuthi ungaba kanjani ilungu elihle lekilasi ngokuhlanganyela, ukusizana, ukulinda isikhathi sakhe, ukuhlanganyela emisebenzini yeklasi, njalo njalo.
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi akwazi ukuqonda izenzo nezenzo zabanye abantu, nakuba kungokwemvelo kumuntu oneminyaka engu-7 ubudala ukuthi ahlale ecabanga ngezikhathi ezithile. Abaneminyaka engu-7 bayakwazi ukufaka izicathulo zomunye futhi basebenze ngokusebenzisa izingxabano, nakuba ukuhlukumezeka nemizwa ebuhlungu kungakwazi ukuphuma phakathi kwezingane ezineminyaka engu-7 ubudala.
Lokhu kungaba yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokufundisa ingane yakho ngokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba yisakhamuzi esihle emhlabeni. Ungakhuluma ngokuthi ungaba kanjani usizo noma izindlela ongasiza ngazo imvelo. Futhi ngenkathi izingane ezineminyaka engu-7 zivame ukuhlakulela abanye ububele, ungasiza ekukhuliseni ukuhlakanipha kwakhe ngokomzwelo . Beka isibonelo esihle, ubuze ingane yakho imibuzo efana nokuthi "ungazizwa kanjani?" Futhi usebenze ndawonye ukusiza labo abaswele noma abanenhlanhla.
> Imithombo
- > Amasevisi Okulawula Nokuvimbela Izifo. Izigameko ezibalulekile: ingane yakho ngeminyaka emihlanu. Iwebhu. 2017.
- > Abazali be-PBS. Ukuthuthukiswa kwengane yomthuthukisi: wakho oneminyaka engu-7 ubudala. Iwebhu. 2017.