Okuyikho, Okufanele Kube Khona, Kungani Kubalulekile
Njalo ngonyaka eWashington, DC, amakhulu abameli abuthana ukulwa namalungelo alabo abanesifo. Usuku Lokumemezela ngumcimbi ohlelwe yiSombululo: I-National Infertility Association.
Ngosuku olugcwele, bonke labo abakhathalela ukungabi nabantwana nalabo abathintekayo bangakwazi ukuhlangabezana nabamele abathintekayo, babelane ngezindaba zabo, futhi bavikele labo abazama ukuwakha imindeni yabo.
Ukuxazulula amashejuli imihlangano nabomenenja bakho kanye nommeleli wendlu, inikeza ukuqeqesha nokusekela, futhi uqinisekisa ukuthi bonke abahlanganyeli balungele ukwenza izwi labo lizwe.
Amadoda nabesifazane abavela nxazonke e-United States baya eWashington, DC ngoSuku lokwazisa.
Bangobani la madoda nabesifazane?
Yebo, bangabantu abanjengawe. Mhlawumbe kuyoba wena.
Inini? Kungani Kufanele Ubonise?
Usuku Lokubambisana lunye ngonyaka ngoMeyi. Ngo-2017, Usuku Lokubambisana lwenzeka ngoMeyi 18, ngeNkokhelo Yokwamukela Yokwamukela kusihlwa ka-Meyi 17.
Izindleko zokuhamba nezokulala azikhokhelwa, ngakho-ke kuzodingeka ukhokhe indlela yakho lapho. Kodwa imisebenzi yosuku ngokwayo ikhululekile, kanti ezinye izindleko zakho zingase zibe intela ekhishwe. Qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nomuntu we-akhawunti.
Uma ufika Usuku Lokwazisa, uzoba nethuba lokulwa nelungelo lokusekela kangcono kwezezimali nezempilo kulabo abahlukumeza ukwakha imindeni yabo.
Ngokuza ukuhlangabezana nabameleli bakho, ubonisa inhlangano ukuthi lezi zindaba zibiza abavoti babo.
Ukuthi uhambile futhi uthatha isikhathi sokuhlangana nabo kwenza umthelela omkhulu.
Ubuye ubeke ubuso obuqotho nendaba ngemuva kwezindaba. Izindleko zokwakha umndeni ngeke zisaba imibono nje. Bazoba ngabantu bangempela abanezindaba zangempela .
Kuyinto yokunika amandla.
Ubani Okufanele Afike Usuku Lokubambisana?
Ubani "ummeli wobandlululo?" Ungaba.
Noma ubani angakwazi.
Kumele ufike ngokungathí sina ngosuku lwezokumemezela uma ...
Usubukhulu bokungasebenzi.
Mhlawumbe ungaphansi kwezigaba zokuhlola noma ujulile esigabeni sokwelashwa . Mhlawumbe uzama nje i- Clomid noma usuzoqala umjikelezo we-IVF wakho wesithathu .
Kufanele ufike kuSuku Lokubambisana.
Yiqiniso kuyilapho ukuhlolwa kokuzala nokubiza ukwelapha kuyabiza - ngakho-ke ukuhamba ngosuku lwe-Advocacy kungabonakala kungenangqondo - empeleni kuyisizathu esihle kunazo zonke sokuya khona.
Abantu abanjengawe yibo okufanele babonise futhi badinga ukwesekwa.
Ubani owaziyo ... mhlawumbe ukuba khona kwakho ku-Day Advocacy kuzothatha uchungechunge lwezenzakalo ezizoholela ekunakekeleni imithi yakho ngemishwalense esikhathini esizayo.
Okungenani, ngokuqinisekile bayoholela kwabanye ukuthola lokho abakudingayo - futhi ngeke badinga ukubhekana nokucindezeleka oye wadlula.
Ukwelashwa kwakho kuxazululwe.
Ukuxazululwa kungaphazanyiswa ngezindlela eziningi - kungase kusho ukuthi ekugcineni waba nezingane nge ukwelashwa. Kungase kusho ukuthi uke wamukela. Futhi kungase kusho ukuthi uhambe umzila ongenawo ingane-hhayi-by-choice.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuxazululwe kusho ukuthini kuwe, kudingeka ube khona kunakho konke.
Okokuqala, awuzami ukuhlela impilo yakho phakathi kokuhlolwa nokwelashwa. Lokho kusedlule.
Kulula ukuthi ufike kunanini ngaphambili.
(Futhi yebo, uma unomntwana omncane, lokho kungenza kube nzima ukuhamba ... kodwa ungakwazi ukuhamba lapho ingane ikhulile.)
Okwesibili, cabanga ukuthi isigijimi esisithumelayo uma abasindile besifo sokubeletha babonisa iminyaka emithathu, emihlanu, ngisho neminyaka engu-20 emva kokuhamba kwabo kokungazalwa.
Kuthi lokhu kubalulekile. Lesi yisifo sokuguqula impilo. Lesi yisifo esiqhubezela umuntu ukukhuthaza iminyaka neminyaka.
Ungumngane osekelayo noma ilungu lomndeni.
Usuku lokwazisa alugcini kuphela kulabo abaye babhekana nokungabi nabantwana - kungenxa yabangane babo namalungu omndeni .
Ungakwazi ukuya nabo, noma ngisho nokuya wedwa endaweni yabo.
Kuzosho umhlaba kubo.
Ungumqeqeshi wokuzala.
Ubani ongcono ukufundisa iCongress ekungeneni kwezezimali nezomnotho kungekhona kubantu kuphela kodwa umphakathi omkhulu?
Uma ukuhlolwa kokukhubazeka nokungelashwa kutholakala umshuwalense, uzokwazi kangcono ukwelapha iziguli.
Esinye isizathu esikhulu sokuhamba: umthetho uye wasongelwa izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa ukuvala noma ukukhawulela ngokungathí sina ukufinyelela kokunakekelwa kokuzala.
Umsebenzi wakho nebhizinisi kuxhomeke ekusekeleni komthetho.
Ungummeli wezingane.
Usuku lokwazisa lusekela labo abazama ukwakha imindeni yabo ngeendlela ezihlukahlukene.
Lokho kubandakanya ukutholwa.
Unendaba ngempilo yomphakathi.
Ukungabi nalutho kwenzeka uma kukhona okungahambi kahle ngemithi ngesistimu yokuzala.
Kuyinkinga yezokwelapha. Ngenkathi ukhetha ukuthi ungazi noma ungabi nezingane ungabizwa ngokuthi indlela yokuphila, ungenalo ikhono lokukhetha - ngoba kukhona okungalungile ngomzimba wakho - akuyona indlela yokuphila. Kuyinto isifo.
Ukukhulelwa nokuncelisa akuzona nje "izinto ezinhle" zokuzizwa. Empeleni banikeza izinzuzo zezempilo. Abesifazane abakhulelwe noma abanesifuba sesifuba banengozi encane yokubhekana nezinkinga zempilo eziningana.
Ukukhulelwa nokuthola umntwana kungaba empeleni ukuvikela impilo yabesifazane.
Ukuba umuntu onempilo ukuthi ube nesistimu esebenzayo yokuzala. Ukuzala akuyona amandla amakhulu. Noma ilungelo. Noma "isibusiso."
Kuyisisekelo sokuphila kule planethi. Futhi nokho ... izinkampanini eziningi zomshuwalense wezempilo azihlinzeki ngezimali zokungasebenzi.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ukubeletha kufanele kuphathwe njenganoma yisiphi esinye isifo somzimba, kufanele ufike kuSuku Lokubambisana.
Kodwa Kuthiwani Uma Wena Ungazi ukuthi Ungavumela kanjani eKapitol Hill?
Akukho okukhathazayo ngalokho! Lo mcimbi udalwe abantu abanjengawe - labo abanesifiso, abafuna ukwenza umehluko.
Futhi ... yilokho okudingayo. Ukukhathazeka.
Ukuxazulula uqinisekisa ukuthi uqeqeshiwe futhi ulungiselelwe usuku. Kukhona ukuqeqeshwa okungavamile ngaphambi kokuba ufike eKapitol Hill, bese uqeqeshwa ngokuzimele uma ufika.
Kukhona futhi iqembu le-Facebook elisekela kakhulu ozothola ukungezwa uma ubhalisa, lapho ungacela imibuzo kulabo ababekhona ngaphambili, futhi uxhumane nalabo abaza okokuqala.
Ukuxazulula uhlela yonke imihlangano yakho, ikutshele ukuthi yiziphi izinkinga; ilungiselela ukwenza izwi lakho lizwe.
Ngeke ukukuphonsa ngosuku olungakalungi.
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