Indlela Yokuthola I-Aunthood futhi Ukwenza Umehluko Ekuphileni Kwengane
Ungaba u-Antie omangalisayo. Ukuthola indima yakho njengo-Ugogo - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umshana noma umshana wakhe noma ingane yomngane wakho oseduze - enye indlela yokuzibandakanya empilweni yengane . Yiqiniso, uma unayo nezingane zakho uma unesiphi isikhathi, ungaqhubeka nomsebenzi wakho we-Awesome Auntie. Izingane zakho cishe zizoba namzala omncane noma "Amaminithi ama-Mini" (kuye ngokuthi ubudala babo) ukuze bakhule nabo.
Lokho kusho, ukwamukela indima ka-anti akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi. Imizwelo eminingi kanye nezinkinga zokungakwazi ukuzala zingathola indlela.
Nakhu ukuthi ungadlulela kanjani labo bese ungena ezicathulweni zakho ze-Awesome Aunt.
Hamba Ube Nomhawu
Ukuvumela ukuhamba komhawu kudinga ukuza kuqala. Kungenzeka kube yisithiyo esisodwa esisodwa esithweswe inselelo okumelwe sinqobe.
Ubani ongabi nomhawu lapho abangane namalungu omndeni bekhulelwa kalula? Ikakhulukazi uma kubonakala sengathi wonke umuntu ozungezile ukhulelwe noma unakekela ingane esanda kuzalwa ...
Uma uzizwa unesisindo esinzima esifubeni sakho lapho udade wakho ebiza futhi ethi usalindele futhi, awunabo. Kuvamile.
Ukuzwa umhawu, noma ngisho nokukhathazeka, uma ufunda nje ngokukhulelwa okusha kuhle.
Vele ungabambeli kulo.
Ungavumeli ukuthi ungene endleleni yobuhlobo bakho nodadewabo, umngane noma ingane yabo entsha.
Thatha ukuphefumula okumbalwa, mhlawumbe ngesonto elifanele, bese uvumela ubuhlungu buhambe.
Uma ungenjalo, ngeke ukwazi ukwamukela ngokugcwele umsebenzi wakho we-Auntie.
Tshela udade wakho noma umngane ofuna ukubandakanyeka
Ngokushesha, ngisho nangesikhathi sokukhulelwa, vumela udadewabo noma umngane wakho bazi ukuthi unethemba elingakanani lokuhileleka empilweni yakho yomshana noma umshana wakho.
Kuhileleka kanjani, futhi maduzane kangakanani, kuzoxhomeka ezingeni lakho lokududuza nodade wakho noma umngane wakho.
Udadewabo angathanda ukuthi omunye umuntu abambe isandla ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kokukhulelwa okungakhululekile, kodwa uma uthola okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu ngokomzwelo, zinike isikhathi esengeziwe. (Bheka inkinga yomhawu ngenhla.)
Kungenzeka nokuthi udade wakho angase abe nomuzwa wokuthi ukukhulelwa kuyimfihlo kakhulu futhi angafuni ukubandakanyeka kwakho. Kufanele uhloniphe leso sifiso.
Amama omusha azwa kubangane nomndeni sonke isikhathi abathanda ukusiza, kodwa uma umntwana efika, akekho oshayelayo. Umama uzizwa kabi ekuthatheni usizo noma engafuni ukuwucela.
Uma ufuna ukuhileleka, qiniseka ukuthi uyashayela futhi ubonise. Balethe ukudla. Ukunikela ukuza nokunakekela ingane ngenkathi uMama egula. Cela izithombe zengane ukuze zibonise kubangani bakho.
Kusobala ukuthi uthatha isabelo sakho sika-Anin ngokubaluleke kakhulu. Awudingi udade wakho noma umngane wakho uzizwe ukuthi uyisibopho ngokucela usizo noma ngokuwamukela usizo lwakho. Bazise isikhathi nentsana yabo kuyisibusiso esikhulu.
Uma bezazi ngezinselelo zakho zokuzala, qhubeka ubabatshele lokhu ukuthi uthola kanjani uthando lomntanakho. Bangakwazi ukukuqonda lokho.
Khumbula Izinsuku Zokuzalwa futhi Ube Khona Emihlanganweni Ekhethekile
Uma u-Anti Awesome, uthola ukuhlola izitolo zezitokisi bese uthenga izinsuku zokuzalwa kanye nezipho zeholide kumshana wakho noma umshana wakho.
Ngokungafani nomama nobaba, noma kunjalo, ukuphuma ukuthenga izipho kuyoba lula. Kungenzeka ukuthi ube nesikhathi esiningi sokubuka izitolo ezahlukene futhi ubeke ngempela inhliziyo ezithombeni ozithengayo.
Ungase futhi uzimisele kakhulu ukuthenga amathoyizi "ahlambalaza" izingane ezizithandayo kodwa abazali banganqikaza ukunikela izingane zabo, njengamapende kanye namaqoqo esitembu. Uma umama nobaba bengavumelani namathoyizi angcolile, ungavolontiya ukugcina amathoyizi endaweni yakho lapho umshana wakho noma umshana wakho efika ukudlala.
Izinsuku zokubeletha namaholide akuzona kuphela isikhathi esibalulekile sama-Awesome Awesome.
Uma umshana wakho noma umshana wakho enomdlalo wezemidlalo noma ikhonsathi yeholide esikoleni, bangase bathande umama wabo omangalisayo noma umalume ukuba babe izilaleli kubo.
Uma behileleke kuma-scouts, ungakwazi ukuzithandela e-troop yabo futhi usize ngekambi nemisebenzi.
Sebenzisa isikhathi esiyingqayizivele ndawonye
Ama-Birthdays, amaholide, kanye nemidlalo yebhola yizo zonke izikhathi ezinhle zokuchitha nomshana wakho noma umshana wakho, kodwa ungakhohlwa ngokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye "ngenxa yokuthi."
Ungathatha u-ayisikhilimu ngeSonto ntambama ngesikhathi abazali babo behlala isikhathi esithile ekhaya. Ungawaletha e-zoo, kumabhayisikobho, noma kwipayipi-eyakho-nge-ceramics esitolo.
Uma uhlala kude nomshana wakho noma umshana wakho, ungavumeli ukuthi amamayela ahambe endleleni. Ungashayela ucingo noma ngisho ne-Skype noma i-Facetime ndawonye. Isikhathi somuntu sihle kakhulu. Kodwa uma ungeke ube khona emzimbeni, okungenani uzame ukuba khona emoyeni.
Izingane zizwa zithandwa uma abantu a) banika izipho, futhi b) bachithe isikhathi nabo. Isikhathi sakho yisipho esiyigugu, mhlawumbe esiyigugu nakakhulu kunomdlalo wevidiyo wakamuva.
Yiba Umuntu Ongabethelela
Izingane zidinga umuntu ongabelana ngazo ngezinkinga zabo - njengomfana abachotshoziwe ongeke abanike isikhathi sosuku - futhi ukwabelana ngento enjalo nabazali bazo bangase bazizwe bengenangqondo. Abanye abantwana bangabelana ngalezi zinto nabazali babo, kodwa izingane eziningi zingathandi.
Ungaba umuntu omdala othembekile ozizwa ekhululekile ukukhuluma naye.
Ngethemba, noma yiziphi izinto abazikhethayo ukuzithemba nawe kuzoba yizindaba ezijwayelekile zobuntwana. Uma kwenzeka banomfihlo omkhulu wokuhlanganyela - uhlobo okumelwe lukwabelwane nabazali babo noma iziphathimandla - uzoba khona ukulizwa futhi ubasize ngesikhathi esibucayi.
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