Usuku lukaMama luhlukile kulabo abahlukumezeka ukukhulelwa
Usuku Lokusinda Lokungapheli Kuzwelonke luyiholide elihloswe ukugubha futhi libhekise labo abaye bahluleka ukukhulelwa . Akuyona iholide eyaziwayo, kodwa kuyadingeka kakhulu. Usuku luhloswe njengenye indlela yoMama kaSuku.
Usuku lukaMama alulula kulabo abhekana nokuphelelwa amandla . Kubuhlungu kakhulu. Ngosuku lukaMama, omama abasebenza kanzima abekwe emindenini yabo bayaziwa.
Kodwa kuthiwani ngabesifazane abasebenzisana nokungabi nabantwana? Basebenza kanzima futhi. Ngokuvamile, umzabalazo wabo uthule futhi awubonakali .
Kodwa manje, sinezinsuku zethu - Usuku Lokusinda Lokungapheli Kuzwelonke!
Ukugcizelela okuyinhloko kosuku kuwukuzinakekela nokugubha ngalokho esikukho. Kuyinto futhi usuku lwabangani nomndeni ukwenza umzamo owengeziwe ukusekela othandekayo nge-infertility.
Njengomhla kaMama, lapho wonke umsebenzi onzima oya emama ugubha, kwiSuku Lokusinda Lokungapheli Kuzwelonke, sigubha futhi sihlonipha imibhangqwana ezama kakhulu ukuba ngabazali.
Iholide yasungulwa ngo-2004 nguBeverly Barna, umbhali we- Infertility Sucks! Ukugcina konke ndawonye Uma izidakamizwa nezinsikazi zihlala ziphikile (Xlibris Corporation, 2002). UBarna uchaza iholide kanje:
"Ngithemba ukuthi iNational Infertility Survival Day izobakhuthaza futhi ibanike amandla okugubha ngokwabo kanye nalokho abanakho. Lokhu akukona ukuphikisana nokuphelelwa ithemba kwangempela okungenzeka babhekene nakho. Kunalokho, yisikhathi esihle sokuyeka nokuphunga i-Chanel, futhi ukuphazamisa ukucindezeleka okungokomzwelo okungenzeka kuqhubekele phambili, ngosuku nosuku olukaMama. Futhi kuyisithuthi lapho labo abaseduze nabo abanganikeza ukusekelwa okunenjongo, okudala nokujabulisa. "
Ngukuphi Usuku Lokusinda Lokungapheli Kuzwelonke?
Iholidi liwela ngeSonto lokuqala lwenyanga kaMeyi.
Ngo-2016, iholide izogubha ngoMeyi 1st.
Ehlelwe ngempelasonto ngaphambi koSuku LwaseMama, isikhathi seholidi sizimisele. Sekuyisikhathi sokuphazamiseka ukudabuka nokukhungatheka ukuthi abesifazane abaningi bazizwa njengoSuku lukaMama lusondela.
Kungani Usuku Lokusinda Lokungapheli Kuzwelonke?
U-Barna uyachaza: "Njengoba kuhle njengoSuku lukaMama kungaba omama, kungaba buhlungu kakhulu futhi kuphazamise abesifazane abangenalutho.
"Umuntu angazizwa ekhululekile futhi ekhishwe. Ngami, bekuyisikhathi lapho konke ukudumazeka ngesimo sami kuhambisana khona ngalolu suku olulodwa. "
Iholidi libuye libe nethuba lokuphendukela futhi lilethe okuthile okuhle kulokho okuvame isimo esinzima.
Ngokuvamile, sigxila amandla ethu nemicabango ngalokho esingakutholi noma esingakutholanga, naphezu kwemizamo yethu yonke. Kulolu suku, sidumisa futhi sigubha konke esikwenzile ukuzama ukuba nomntwana.
Esikhundleni sokugxila ekulahlekeni kwethu, sigxila emandleni ethu.
Ubani okufanele agubha uSuku Lokusinda Lokungapheli Kuzwelonke?
Usuku Lokusinda Lokungapheli Kuzwelonke alugcini nje ngabesifazane kanye nemibhangqwana esebenzelana nokungasebenzi manje. Kuyinto futhi usuku kulabo abaye phambili empilweni yabo.
UBarna uyachaza, "Ngithemba ukuthi leli holide likhuthaza [labo abangakabhekani nokungazali] okwamanje ukuba bathole ulwazi - ngisho nokuhlakanipha - abazuzile kulo mzabalazo, futhi bathole izindlela zokusekela labo abasasabhekana nosizi ngosuku -uku-suku, inyanga nenyanga, futhi angazi ukuthi uzobaphilela. "
Indlela Yokugubha nokuchitha Usuku
Lusuku usuku lwakho kuphela. Kufanele ugubhe usuku othanda ngalo!
Imibono embalwa engenzeka:
- Phuma ukuze udle.
- Bona i-movie noma umdlalo.
- Thenga wena izimbali.
- Hlangana nabangani, kungaba ekhaya noma ngaphandle kwedolobha.
- Zizungeze ngokuvakashela i-spa, noma uthola ukumisa.
- Thatha usuku oluthile lobuciko - ubuciko obuhle, izinkondlo ze-corny, noma yini oyithandayo!
Abanye besifazane bangase bazizwe begubha ngobuwula lapho benomuzwa wokuthi abanakho ukugubha.
Umphakathi wethu ugcizelela kakhulu ukugubha emva kokufeza umgomo. Kuyinto engavamile ukuba abesifazane besabele nokungabi nabantwana bazizwe behluleka.
Kodwa awuyena ukwehluleka.
Ngokungabikho, ukufeza kwakho umzamo osuvele ubeke kuwo ekubeni umzali.
Ungase ungakwazi ukubamba lezi zinhlobo zokufeza esandleni sakho, kodwa zingokoqobo futhi zifanelwe ukugubha.
Indlela Yokusekela Umuntu Ongenalutho
Kubalingani, lolu usuku lwesipho esikhethekile. Okuthile okumele kumvuselele.
"Ama-chocolates - uma engadli, uma kunjalo, ubucwebe buhle njalo," kuphakamisa uBarna. "Perfume! Amakhadi! Ukudla kwamakhandlela! Iwayini! I-Champagne! Inkondlo! Uhambo! "
Asikho isizathu, ngendlela, ukuthi awukwazi ukugubha usuku ndawonye. Phela, kokubili nisebenza kanzima futhi nibhekene nokungasebenzi. Mhlawumbe ukuhlunga umbhangqwana kuyoba yindlela ephelele yokuchitha usuku.
Emndenini nabangani, ucabanga ukuthi umbhangqwana uvumele ukungena kule ndawo yangasese yezimpilo zabo, noma yini ezoletha ukumomotheka ebusweni bawo inkulu.
Letha amanye amabhaluni. Thumela i-e-card ehlekisa noma evuselelayo. Ngezinye izikhathi nje ucingo olubazisa ukuthi ukhona uma befuna ukukhuluma kuhle.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini ongayicabangela ukuyenza ngosuku lwazo lokuzalwa, lezo zinhlobo zemibono cishe zifanelwe ukugubha kweSuku lokuKhuselwa koSuku lokuPhila, futhi.