Izinzuzo Zokuvimba Ukuzama Kwakho Ukuzama Indaba
Ukuqala ibhulogi yokungabi nabantwana kuyindlela elula futhi enhle yokubhekana nokucindezeleka kokuzama ukukhulelwa . Ukufunwa kwe-TTC (okusho ukuzama ukukhulelwa) noma amabhulogi wokuzala izothuthukisa izingosi ezingaphezulu kunalokho ongacabanga. Umphakathi omkhulu wabesifazane (namadoda!) Baphuma lapho, babelana nakho kwabo futhi bathola ukwesekwa kwabanye abafana nabo.
Uma ngabe ungajwayele ukubhuloga, kufana nanjengomagazini osesidlangalaleni.
Kuye kwaphakanyiswa isikhathi eside ukuthunyelwa njengendlela yokubhekana nezimo zokuphila ezinzima. Ukubhala imizwa yakho, esikhundleni sokuwafaka ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, kunganikeza inzuzo enhle yokuphumula.
Into epholile ngokubhuloga ukuthi ungabelana nabanye ngemizwa yakho, futhi banganikeza ukusekelwa ngamazwana kanye ne-imeyili. Kufana nephephandaba elikhuluma nawe.
Kungani uqala ibhulogi engenzi lutho?
Kungani izwe lizobe linesithakazelo emidlalweni yakho yokuzala? Ingabe abantu banesithakazelo empilweni yakho siqu?
Okokuqala, abantu abaningi laphaya banesithakazelo sokufunda mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho.
Cabanga ngokuthi kungaba kuhle kangakanani ukufunda ngendlela abanye besifazane abaphatha ngayo ukwelashwa kokuzala noma izimo ezinzima nabangani noma emsebenzini.
Akungabazeki, ungathola eziningi ze-TTC blogs ezikhuluma ngalezi zihloko nokunye okuningi.
Uthola ukubona ukuthi abanye babhekana kanjani. Njengoba nje unesithakazelo sendlela abanye ababhekana ngayo nokungabi nabantwana, abantu abaphuma lapho bafuna ukuzwa nokufunda okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho.
Amabhulogi angabonakali nobumfihlo
Kodwa ingabe ufuna ngempela umhlaba ukwazi impilo yakho?
Ukukhathazeka okusemthethweni, kodwa okukodwa kunzima kakhulu ukubhekana nakho.
Ababhulogi abaningi babhala ngaphansi kwegama elicatshangelwe, noma nje igama labo lokuqala. Awudingi ukwabelana ngemininingwane efana nokuthi uhlalaphi, umsebenzi, noma yini enye.
Kungcono kakhulu uma ungenjalo, empeleni.
Eqinisweni, kufanele uphinde ucabange kabili ngaphambi kokuhlanganyela isixhumanisi sakho sebhulogi nomndeni wakho noma abangani bakho. Yabelana kuphela ngesixhumanisi nabantu ongeke uzizwe uvinjelwe, njengomngane wakho omkhulu kakhulu.
Isibonelo, uma wabelana ngebhulogi nomama wakho, futhi ufuna ukubhala ngempikiswano phezu kokuthi "uzonginika nini abazukulu," ungase ubalekele ukuziveza ngokugcwele.
Amanye amabhulogi akuvumela ukuba iphasiwedi ivikele okufakwayo kwakho, kodwa iningi le-blogger ligcina amabhulogi awo evulekile umphakathi ukuthi ufunde. Inkinga yokuvikelwa kwephasiwedi yukuthi ungatholi abafundi abaningi.
Kodwa-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngemuva kokuthi wakhe iqembu labafundi abazinzile, ungase unqume ukwenza ibhulogi yakho ibe yimfihlo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthatha isinqumo, wazi nje ukuthi ukhetho lukhona.
Ukuthola Ibhulogi Yakho Yokungafaki Okukhulu kakhulu
Ungathola ibhulogi yamahhala kusuka kumawebhusayithi amaningi, futhi akulula kakhulu ukusetha. Awudingi ngempela ukuthi ube yi-computer geek ukuze uwahlole. Okunye kulula ukusebenzisa izingosi zokudala iwebhusayithi lapho ungasetha ibhulogi kufaka i-WordPress, Weebly, i-Wix, i-SquareSpace, i-Blogger, ne-Tumblr. Cishe wonke lawa masayithi anenkululeko yamahhala ongazama.
Uma usungule ibhulogi yakho, thumela isingeniso. Ungabhala ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kokuzala kuze kube manje, noma ungase ukhulume ngawe ngokujwayelekile. Ukuba okungenani okuthunyelwe okulodwa kwebhulogi mayelana nawe kuzokukusindisa ekudingeni ukuphinda uphinde uxoxe indaba yakho yonke.
Khona-ke, into elandelayo ngiphakamisa ukuthi uvumele uMelissa, owaziwa kangcono ngebhulogi yakhe emangalisayo Stirrup Queens neSperm Palace Jesters, azi ukuthi ukhona, ngakho anganezela igama lakho ohlwini lwakhe oluphelele lweblogi bezithelo. Ugcina i-blogroll, okuluhlu lwamabhulogi, ngesihloko sokuzala. Ungathola amanye ama-bloggers kulolu hlu, futhi uthole ibhulogi yakho ingeziwe.
Uma uyingqungquthela yokuzala noma iqembu le-Facebook, ungakwazi ukwabelana ngebhulogi yakho lapho. Qiniseka ukuthi ufunda imithetho yesithangami sakho noma iqembu kuqala, noma kunjalo. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukuthumela isixhumanisi kubhulogi yakho kuthathwa ngokuthi "ugaxekile." (Ngisho noma ungathengi lutho kubhulogi yakho.)
Funda, Beka amazwana, Phinda
Uma usuvele ubhale ibhulogi yakho, futhi uthumele okungenani isingeniso, kufanele uhambe uyeke ukuphawula kwamanye amabhulogi wokuzala. Ukufunda nokushiya ukuphawula kuyindlela eyinhloko abantu abazokuthola ngayo bese beza kubhulogi yakho (ekuboneni ukuthi ushiye isixhumanisi).
Ungase ucabange mayelana nokuphawula njengomjikelezo omkhulu wothando karmic. Amazwana oshiya ngaphezulu, lapho uzothola khona ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Yiqiniso, akuzona zonke izinto ezizohlala ziphakathi kwe-peaches kanye no-ukhilimu. Kuthatha isikhathi ukwakha abafundi, futhi ekuqaleni, ungase uzizwe sengathi ukhuluma nawe (okungekho ngempela into embi.) Ngempela, ibhulogi ngokuyinhloko yilobhuku.)
Futhi, akuwona wonke amabhulogi azobuyisela amazwana ngamazwana. Ngokuqinisekile uzothola ukwabelana kwakho kwamazwana amahle avela kubantu ababonakala bethola izinjabulo zabo ekwenzeni abantu bazizwe bebi.
Kodwa lokho kulungile, kusinda. Ungakwazi ukusabalalisa uthando lokuphawula noma kunjalo, futhi ungasusa amazwana angenamusa abantu abashiya kubhulogi yakho.
Bamba iqhaza ku-National Challenge Week Week Awareness Week
Enye indlela yokuthola abafundi futhi iphefumulelwe njenge-blog blogger ukuhlanganyela ku-RESOLVE's Week Infertility Awareness Week (NIAW) Challenge Blog.
I-NIAW ivame ukuphuma ngeviki lokugcina lika-Ephreli, futhi ingxenye yomkhankaso wokuqwashisa ihilela inselelo yebhulogi. Kunesihloko sonyaka, esithunyelwe kuwebhusayithi ye-NIAW. Ababhulogi bangabe bhala kule ndaba bese behambisa okuthunyelwe kwebhulogi yabo.
HLELA abasebenzi kanye nezisebenzi zokuzithandela ukufunda phezu kwamabhulogi athunyelwe, bese ukhetha izinhlanu zabo eziphezulu. Khona-ke, i-RESOLVE umphakathi woku-intanethi ubeka ivoti. Umnqobi unikezwa i-Hope Award yeBlog Best.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Naphezu kokuhlaselwa okungase kube khona, ukubhala ibhulogi ye-TTC nokujoyina umphakathi wokubaluleka kokungabi nabantwana kuyindlela enhle yokuveza imizwa yakho, ukwazi abanye ezimweni ezifanayo, ufunde kabanzi mayelana nokuphelelwa amandla, futhi ukhokhele ukusekelwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungukuthi (ngokuvamile) mahhala. Ingabe kungcono kunalokho?