Ukulwa Nezinkinga ngeNhlelo Ekhethekile Ye-Ed Ed School

Abazali bangathatha isinyathelo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izikole zihlangabezana nezidingo zezingane zabo

Abazali bezingane ezinokukhubazeka ekufundeni bangathatha izinyathelo lapho bezwa ukuthi uhlelo lwezemfundo olukhethekile lunenkinga noma alusebenzi kahle. Ngokuvamile, abazali abadinga izingane ezikhethekile badinga ukuphikisana nezikole lapho bengavumelani nezinhlelo zemfundo ngabanye nezinsizakalo ezinikezwa izingane. Ukuphatha ngokuphumelelayo izingxabano zesikole, abazali kufanele balungiselele kusengaphambili kwesikhathi futhi bafunde amakhono okuxoxisana agcina ugxile ezinganeni zabo.

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Abazali Kufanele Bakhiphe Ukukhathazeka Kokukhethekile Abafundisi Othisha

Lapho ukungavumelani kudlula umzila bese kuba izingxabano, abazali nabafundisi ngokuvamile bakhungathekile. Abazali bayaqonda ukuthi izingxabano azizona ezijabulisayo kodwa zingathinta ingane ehilelekile. Ukuxazulula impikiswano, abazali kufanele:

• Gxila ezinganeni zakho hhayi ithoni yomzwelo yenkinga.
• Buza imibuzo mayelana nokukhathazeka kwakho. Zama ukugwema ukwenza imicabango.
• Gcizelela amaqiniso kunokuba ngubani olungile.
• Yazi amalungelo akho ngaphansi kwe- IDEA.
• Qala ngezindawo zokuvumelanisa futhi usebenze lapho; futhi
• Uhlukanisa abantu abavela kule nkinga. Gwema ukugxeka komuntu siqu.
• Yeka amazwana wabasebenzi abangalungile futhi uwabheke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nabaphathi.

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Lapho Abazali Nezikole Bengavumelani Nezidingo Zezingane

Ukungavumelani kuvame ukugxila emibonweni ephikisanayo, imizwelo nokuxhumana. Lalela ngokucophelela izingxabano zabanye ukuze uzame ukuqonda iphuzu labo lokubuka. Buza imibuzo ngenhloso yokuqonda. Ngisho noma ungavumelani nombono wothisha, ukubuza imibuzo ehloniphekile kukhuthaza wonke amalungu eqembu le-IEP ukuba acabange ngamaphuzu angavumelani futhi angasiza izinhlangothi zombili zifinyelele ekungeneni.

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Lapho Imiqondo Ephikisanayo Neziphakamiso Kungabangela Ukungavumelani

Uma umbono wezothisha ungalungile, ubazise ngaphandle kokugxeka. Othisha nabazali baletha indlela ebalulekile futhi edingekayo eqenjini le- IEP . Ukukhuthaza ukukhulumisana okuvulekile:

• Vumela umuntu ngamunye ukuba aveze imibono ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa.
• Buza imibuzo ukucacisa amaphuzu.
• Qaphela ulimi lomzimba kanye nokuphawula kwakho. Uma usuhle kakhulu futhi uchwepheshe, indawo yakho iyohlonishwa kakhulu.
• Cela noma idatha yamanje njengama-test scores, amasampula omsebenzi, ukubuka noma ezinye izinsiza zokukhuthaza ukuqonda.
• Nika ulwazi oluvela ngaphandle kwemithombo efana nodokotela noma uchwepheshe osebenza nengane yakho kuzilungiselelo ngaphandle kwesikole.

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Lawula Intukuthelo Yakho Nokukhungatheka

Ukuze uvimbele imizwelo nokucindezeleka ekupheliseni isinqumo, qaphela futhi uqonde imizwelo yabafundisi kanye neyakho. Thola imbangela eyinhloko yenkinga ngokukhuluma ngemizwa yakho. Kungaba usizo ukuveza ukukhathazeka kwakho ngendlela egxile enkingeni hhayi umuntu ohilelekile. Isibonelo, "Lapho ngibona uSusan ehluleka ekufundeni izibalo, ngazizwa ngididekile futhi ngithukuthele ngoba ngangingazange ngitshelwe ukuthi wenza kahle lokho," kungcono ukuthi, "Awungithumeli imibiko ngomsebenzi wengane yami." Isitatimende esilandelayo sizwakala singamangaleli futhi singabangela ukuzivikela. Lapho kugxila kakhulu isitatimende, cishe kungabhekwa.

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Uma kungekho Ukuxhumana, Akukho Isixazululo Sokuxabana

Thuthukisa ukuqonda nokunciphisa izingxabano ngokuthi:

• Ukuba umlaleli omuhle. Buza imibuzo ukuze ucacise futhi ubonise umyalezo emuva kusikhulumi. Buza uma ukuqonda kwakho kulungile.
• Khuluma ngokucacile nangempumelelo. Yenza amanothi ambalwa ukukukhumbuza amaphuzu ofuna ukuxoxa ngawo. Buza imibuzo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi amaphuzu akho aqondwa. Zama ukungasuki esihlokweni.
• Khuluma wena nomntanakho. Yisho ukuthi inkinga ithinta kanjani ingane yakho, lokho okwenzile ukuyilungisa nokuthi yini oyidingayo esikoleni ukuxazulula inkinga ngokuphumelelayo.
• Vula eminye imibono ngalokho okungasiza. Zizimisele ukuzama ezinye izinketho uma kungenzeka.

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Amalungelo Wakho Okudabuka Ngaphansi kwe-IDEA

Ezimweni eziningi, amasu okuxhumana asebenzayo azokusiza ukuxazulula izingxabano esikoleni somntanakho, futhi izinqubo zezikhalazo nezinkomba ngeke zidingeke. Uma ukuxoxisana kwehluleka, kunezinye izindlela ongakhetha kuzo. Xoxa ngenkinga nomeluleki wengane yakho noma oyinhloko. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuxazulula le nkinga, thintana nabaphathi bezifundo ezikhethekile zesifunda sakho noma sombuso ukuze uthole usizo. Izinhlelo zokubambisana zivame ukutholakala ukusiza ekuxazululweni kwemibango. Abaphathi bakho bezinga likahulumeni nabo banesikhalazo esisemthethweni futhi izinqubo zokulalelwa kwezinqubo ezifanele zitholakalayo, uma izingxoxo nezikhathi zokuxoxisana zihluleka ukuxazulula inkinga.