Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani abantwana behluleka esikoleni. Ngesikhathi umfundi ephendula ubudlova, sekuphuzile kakhulu ukuqala ukulungiswa okusheshayo. Ama-athikili amaphephandaba mayelana nezingane ezinenkinga yokuziphatha ezibuhlungu ngokuvamile zikhuluma ngamathuba alahlekile nokuthi kungani kungekho muntu osize. Nazi izindlela ezinhlanu zokuqala ukubhekana nezinkinga noma izinkinga ezingase zibe khona ekuqaleni, uma kusekhona isikhathi sokusebenza nabothisha nabaphathi ukwenza isikole indawo enokubekezela ingane yakho.
Vavolonti esikoleni sakho sezingane
Ukuba khona esikoleni somntanakho - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyazithandela emtatsheni wezincwadi noma usiza ekamelweni lesidlo sakusihlwa, ukhonza njengomzali weklasi noma izisebenzi ezikhethekile - ukhokha izinzuzo eziningi. Kukwazisa ngokuphatha ngendlela engezona ukuphazamisa. Ivumela ingane yakho ukuthi isikole sibalulekile kuwe nendawo ofuna ukuyenza. Ikunika ithuba lokubona lokho okuqhubekayo kuleso sakhiwo, kusukela ekuziphatheni kwabafundi kuya kubafundisi. Uma ungeke ubeke isikhathi sokuzithandela phakathi nosuku lwesikole, yiya emihlanganweni yonke ye-Home and School, futhi qinisekisa ukuthi ubonisa ukubuyela kobusuku besikole kanye nezinkomfa zothisha . Lapho abasebenzi bezikole bekwazi ukuthi ungumzali othakazelisayo nomzali onentshisekelo, kungenzeka ukuthi babe yingxenye yakho lapho kufika izinkinga.
Lalela lapho ingane yakho ikhuluma
Ku- The Pressured Child , umlobi uMichael Thompson ukusikisela ukuthi izingane aziphenduli umbuzo othi "Kwakunjani isikole?" ngoba bayazi ukuthi abazali bafuna ukuzwa izindaba ezinhle kuphela.
Uyala abazali ukuba baxhumane nalokho abakuthandayo ngempela esikoleni - amadokhumenti angakhululekile, amakilasi ahlaziyekile, othisha abaxoshiwe, umsebenzi olula kakhulu noma onzima kakhulu. Cabanga ngalokho okukuzwa ngempela ukuba ingane yakho esikoleni. Buza imibuzo ngemizwa, futhi ulalele ngempela lokho akushoyo.
Ungasheshi ngenkulumo ye-pep kanye ne-pat ngemuva. Ukuba nomuntu ozokulalela, ngaphandle kokukwahlulela, kungasiza ekunciphiseni ukukhungatheka okungahle kwenzeke kamuva ekuziphatheni okuyingozi. Futhi uma ulalela ngokucophelela, ungase ukwazi ukuthola ezinye izindlela zokunciphisa umthwalo wengane yomzwelo wakho.
Yiba Ongokoqobo Ngekhono Lengane Yakho
Ukugxilisa nokugqugquzela nokubambelela okuphezulu kungadlulisela ezinye izingane zibe yizo zonke, kodwa zingabangela abanye ukuba baqonde ngqo ekukhathazeni nasekucindezelekeni. Ungathanda ukusebenza emsebenzini, usuku nosuku ngaphandle, lapho uhlala khona kufanele ube khona phezulu kwamakhono akho, ukuphatha izinto owazingekho phezulu futhi uthemba ukuthi izinto zihamba kahle? Izingane azikwazi ukuyeka, futhi zincane kakhulu ngokuvumelana nezimo ezingcono zokusebenza, kepha zingathola zonke izinhlobo zokubhekana nentukuthelo nokuphelelwa ithemba. Thembeka futhi uzwela lapho ucabanga ukuthi hlobo luni lokufundela ingane yakho luzofunda kangcono nokuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zezinsizakalo azodinga. Izifundiswa zibalulekile, futhi akulungile ukubenza bakhathazeke kakhulu, kepha ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo nemizwa yokuphatha kubalulekile, futhi.
Hlonipha Igunya Wena
Sonke siyazi ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukulwa nezingane zethu futhi sibe namandla, abagqugquzeli abaphumelelayo.
Lo mzabalazo ungasenza siphethe ngokuthi abanye othisha kanye nabanye abaphathi abafanelanga ukuhlonipha, futhi ukwahlulelwa kwabo kungaphansi kokungabaza. Kodwa yiba kakhulu, qaphela kakhulu ukuthi ukuxhumana kanjani lokho kumntanakho. Ungase ucabange ukuthi umlayezo owunikezayo wukuthi lezi zikhulile zingalungile, futhi uzohlale unamathela kuye, futhi kufanele azibekezelele ngisho nalapho abanye begxeka. Umyalezo ingane yakho uthola, noma kunjalo, kungenzeka ukuthi kuhle ukungahloniphi othisha, imithetho ayifuni kuye, futhi uzohlanza zonke izidakamizwa azenzayo. Lesi simo sengqondo esiqinisekisayo sokubangela izinkinga ezinkulu esikoleni, nangaphezulu - uma ufundisa ingane ukuba ibuze umphathi, ngokushesha noma kamuva uzobuza imibuzo yakho.
Cela i-FBA
Uma lesi sikole sithumela izikhalazo zasekhaya mayelana nokuziphatha kwengane yakho - futhi silindele ukuthi wenze okuthile ngakho - ukubeka ibhola emuva enkantolo ngokucela ukuhlolwa kwe-Functional Behavior Assessment (FBA). Lokhu kuzophoqa abasebenzi bezikole ukuba bacabange ngempela ngokuziphatha kwengane yakho, hhayi nje ukuphendula kuyo. I-FBA ihlola ukuthi yini ezayo ngaphambi kokuziphatha okubi nokuthi imiphumela yenzani; yikuphi ukusebenza okungenzeka ukuthi ukuziphatha kungakhonzela ingane; futhi yiziphi izinhlobo zezinto ezingahle zimukise. Uma ingane ithola amakilasi kakhulu kunzima noma iklasi licindezela, isibonelo, ukuthunyelwa egumbini noma inhloko noma ikhaya lingase libe umvuzo, hhayi isijeziso. Ukuqhuba i-FBA nokubhala uhlelo lokuziphatha okusekelwe kuyo cishe kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuqeda izinkinga zokuziphatha. Uma othisha nabaphathi benqabe ukuhamba nayo, kungase kudingeke wenze ukuhlaziywa okuncane kokuziphatha kubo.