Wonke umuntu uyaphumelela lapho abazali nabaphathi bezinhlangano
Iphuzu elihle kakhulu lokuphumelela esikoleni ukuqinisekisa ukuthi abazali nabafundisi basebenza ndawonye njengababambisene nabo. Ngezinye izikhathi, kungase kubonakale sengathi kunomugqa we-chalk owehla phakathi nendawo yokuphila kwengane yakho.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi lwekhaya, kukhona konke owaziyo ngomntanakho, usizo olunikeza ngomsebenzi wesikole kanye nentuthuko yakhe yentando yenhlalakahle nezingane zakini nabangane bakhe.
Ehlangothini lesikoleni, kukhona zonke izinto othisha wengane yakho azi ngaye, usizo aluthola emsebenzini wakhe wesikole nokuthuthukiswa kwentando yenhlalakahle nabangani bakhe.
Ulwazi oluhlangothini zombili luhlangene ukudala ukuqonda okugcwele kwengane yakho. Lokhu akusizuzisi nje kuphela kodwa nakuwe nothisha bakhe.
Khulumisana, Ukukhulumisana, Ukukhulumisana!
Kuyinto abazali abazwa ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa ibuye ibuye. Esinye sezihluthulelo kubazali nakothisha abasebenza ndawonye kuwukuxhumana okuhle. Okungase kungacacile ukuthi ukuxhumana kusebenza ngezindlela zombili.
Ngokuqinisekile, kunezinto eziningana okufanele utshele uthisha wakho wengane ngaye ukuze asize ukuqala ngonyaka ngokufanele, kodwa umthwalo wokulondoloza ukukhulumisana okuhle komzali-othisha akugcini nje kumzali.
Ubuhlobo bomzali nabafundisi busebenza kahle uma uthisha engenzi nje kuphela ukuzama ukuphendula okukhathazayo nemibuzo kodwa futhi uyazama ukukwabelana ngokukhathazeka nokuncoma nawe.
Kodwa yini ongayenza uma ucabanga ukuthi uthisha akaphili ingxenye yakhe?
Izinga le-Issue Head-On
Ukubhekana nomfundisi onzima kunzima kepha akuyona into engavamile njengoba ucabanga. Uma uzizwa sengathi uthisha wengane yakho ulungile noma angahlanganyeli ngolwazi oluningi njengoba kufanele, yisikhathi somhlangano wothisha-uthisha ukubuza imibuzo mayelana nokuthi kwenzekani.
Vele ukhumbule ukuthi ukuze uthole okuningi ngesikhathi sakho, kubalulekile ukuhlela umhlangano ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Njengoba nje uthisha ekubamba egumbini lokudlala akufanelekile, awuyikumxosha eceleni emsebenzini wesikole. Kukhona umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwendlu evulekile nenkomfa yomzali-uthisha !
Ukusebenzisana Nama-Tough Stuff Together
Akuzona zonke izingane ezikwazi ukushintsha kalula esikoleni noma zijabulele ukuba esikoleni. Eqinisweni, kulinganiselwa ukuthi amaphesenti angama-20 ezingane abonisa izimpawu zokuziphatha zokulahla esikolweni ngesikhathi esithile esikoleni sabo. Futhi usuku ngalunye izingane ezingenakubalwa zikhononda ngokuba nesithukuthezi esikoleni .
Abanye abazali banecala futhi banomthwalo wemfanelo yengane yabo, hhayi ukukhuluma nesikole ngoba bazizwa sengathi kuyinkinga yabo yodwa yokubhekana nayo. Abanye abazali banomuzwa wokuthi isikole sidlulisela isahlulelo ekuzalaneni kwabo lapho bethola ucingo becela ukuhlala phansi bese bekhuluma ngomntanakho.
Akuyona njalo indaba. Ezimweni eziningi, ukuhlala phansi ukwenza izixazululo ndawonye kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuxazulula noma ukubhekana nezinto ezinzima. Ukubhekana nokulahlwa kwesikole kudinga ukuthi wena nesikole wabelane ngalokho oyaziyo ngomntanakho bese usebenzisa lolo lwazi ukuza necebo lokumbuyisela ekilasini.
Ngokufanayo, ukuhlola izizathu ingane yakho ingase ibe nesithukuthezi esikoleni kungcono kakhulu kwenziwe ndawonye. Ukuzwa lokho ingane yakho ekushoyo ekhaya kuyasiza esikoleni, futhi ukwazi ukuthi kubonakala yini futhi kuthiwa ekilasini kukunika umongo ongayisebenzisa lapho uzwa izikhalo zengane yakho.
Cabanga Ngendlela Yomunye Nomunye
Ukwakha ubudlelwano phakathi kwabazali nothisha kuncike othisha abalalela abazali nabazali bethatha isikhathi sokuqonda ukuthi bavelaphi othisha. Ngezinye izikhathi abazali nabafundisi bobabili banecala lokulahla umbono womunye.
Njengomzali, uma ukhululiwe ngokwengeziwe, cishe uzoba yingxenye yemfundo yengane yakho.
Njengomfundisi, ngaphansi kokuzizwa sengathi uzwa, cishe uzoyeka ukuxhumana nomzali.
Izinto ezingase zibonakale zingqubuzana, njengokuthi uhlose uhlobo luni lwesikole olusiza uthisha ofuna kumzali noma umzali ochaza lokho esikoleni okudingeka akwenze ukuze ahambisane nokungezwani komdlavuza wezingane, akuzona njalo ezidingekayo njengoba zivela. Umgomo wokuphela kufanayo kokubili umzali nesikole: ukusiza izingane zibe nesibopho, ziphephile futhi ziphumelele.