Okufanele Ukwenze Lapho Ingane Yakho Ingayi Esikoleni
Lapho ingane enqaba ukuya esikoleni abazali abaningi bazozibuza ukuthi benzani okungalungile, kodwa abayedwa. Ezinye izilinganiso zikhombisa ukuthi izingane ezingamaphesenti angama-20 zikhombisa izimpawu zokulahla esikolweni ngesikhathi esisodwa ngesikhathi sokufunda esikoleni. Ukubhekana nokwenqatshelwa kwesikole kuncike ekuqondeni ukuthi yini okuyikho futhi ukusebenzisana neqembu labaqeqeshi ukusiza ingane yakho ngalesi sikhathi esinzima.
Kungani Ingane Yakho Inqaba Ukuya Esikoleni?
Ngaphambi kokuba uhlele uhlelo oluqondile lokubhekana nokulahla esikoleni ingane yakho, kubalulekile ukuthola umuzwa wokuthi kungani ingane yakho yenqaba ukuya esikoleni. I-NYU Child Study Centre iveza izizathu ezine eziyinhloko izingane ezinqabe ukuya esikoleni. Ingane yakho ingenqaba ukuya esikoleni:
- ukuze ubalekele ukuzwa okubi. Uzama ukugwema okuthile esikoleni okubangela ukukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka noma ezinye imizwa yokucindezeleka.
- ukugwema ukuxhumana kwabantu noma ukuhlolwa komphakathi. Unenkathazo ezimweni zomphakathi, unenkathazo ngokusebenzisana kontanga noma ukhathazekile ngokuthi uzokwenza kanjani ezimweni zokuhlola kanye / noma mayelana nokumenywa ekilasini.
- ukuze uthole ukunakwa. Ukukhathazeka kwakhe, ukubambezeleka nokukhathazeka ngokwehlukana kungase kube yindlela yokuthola ukunakwa kwakhe.
- ukuthola uhlobo lomvuzo ngaphandle kwesikole. Lokhu kungaba okulula njengokukwazi ukubuka i-TV noma ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo ngenkathi ekhaya.
Ukwenqaba kwesikole kungase kube ukuhlanganiswa kwalezi zici, kodwa uma nje eqiniswa, ukuziphatha kuzoqhubeka. Ukuziphatha akugcini nje ukuqiniswa umvuzo, futhi kuqiniswa ukugwema okuphumelelayo komcindezeli.
Isibonelo, ingane ingase ingafuni ukuya esikoleni ngoba iyayizonda ukugibela ibhasi .
Ukugabha kwakhe ekuseni kungenza amlahle ibhasi noma amvumele ahlale ekhaya; uye waqiniswa kabi ngokugwema ngempumelelo ukugibela ibhasi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingane engayi esikoleni ngenxa yokukhathazeka ngokwehlukana iqinisekiswa ngokuhle ngokuhlala ekhaya futhi uchithe isikhathi nawe.
Yini Okufanele Uyenze Lapho Enqaba Ukuya Esikoleni?
- Khuluma nothisha wengane yakho nabanye abasebenzi besikole ngale nkinga. Uthisha wengane yakho ingakwazi ukunikeza ukuqondisisa ukuthi ngabe kukhona izinto eziqhubekayo esikoleni ezifaka inkinga kule nkinga noma angakwazi ukukuqinisekisa ukuthi naphezu kokulahla kwelanga nokusalela komlenze, ingane yakho kulungile ngesikhathi esisodwa ekilasini futhi kuhilelekile esimisweni.
- Letha ingane yakho kudokotela wezingane. Izingane eziningi ziyoba nezibonakaliso zomzimba kanye nezomzwelo. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi lezi zimpawu kanye nokukhathazeka noma ukucindezeleka akuhambisani nokugula noma kunomunye umphumela ongokwenyama. Uma ungakwazi ukubusa lokho, wena kanye nodokotela wezingane banganquma ndawonye ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuletha isazi sengqondo noma umeluleki njengengxenye yeqembu.
- Zama ukuhlala uzolile futhi unengqondo. Yiqiniso, lokhu kulula ukushiwo ukwedlula ukwenza, ikakhulu lapho ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kuphazamisa umndeni wakho futhi kukubangela ukuba ukhathazeke ngezinto ezifana nemithetho yokukhwabanisa nokuthi ngabe uzolahlekelwa umsebenzi noma ngabe uzoshayela usuku olulodwa . Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi, udinga ukulondoloza ukulindela ukuthi lesi sikole singumsebenzi ongaxoxiswanga. Ukwenza izingxabano noma ukufumbathisa ngeke kuxazululwe inkinga engaphansi.
Iyini Isinyathelo Esilandelayo?
Uma usuqede inkinga, izinyathelo zakho ezilandelayo zizobuyisela ingane yakho esikoleni futhi zifune usizo olufanele lodaba oluyisisekelo. Ukwelapha le nkinga, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka, ukuphikisana nokuphikisana nokukhathazeka noma okunye okunye, ngokuvamile kuzodinga usizo lomeluleki wangaphandle futhi umbuyisele esikoleni kuzodinga ukubambisana esikoleni.
Indima Yomndeni Ekubhekaneni Nokunqatshwa KweSikole
Uma usungile ubuhlobo nesikole kanye nomeluleki wangaphandle, yisikhathi sokubheka ukuthi ungenzani ekhaya ukusiza ingane yakho ukuba ibuyele esikoleni.
Okokuqala, kungase kudingeke ukuthi ubuyekeze kabusha izinto eziza kuqala. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ingane yakho ingabeki izingubo zayo ukuya esikoleni, kungase kudingeke ukuthi uhlole ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba agqoke izingubo zesikole noma abe esikoleni. Ngisebenze nenani lemindeni elithumele izingane esikoleni kuma-pajama abo ngoba yindlela kuphela yokuzikhiphela emnyango ekuseni. Ezinye izinto ongazodinga ukuzenza:
- Setha isivumelwano sokuziphatha nomntanakho enikeza imivuzo yokuya esikoleni nemiphumela yokungena.
- Fundisa izindlela zakho zokuphumuza izingane ezifana nokuphefumula okujulile kanye namanye amakhono okuphatha ukucindezeleka.
- Vumela ingane yakho ukuthi ikubize futhi ihlole ngesikhathi esithile sosuku.
- Nikeza ingane yakho ngesithombe sakho noma enye into encane yokududuza.
- Misa isimiso esingenakuqhathaniswa ekuseni.
Ukusebenza Isikole Ukwakha Uhlelo
Kunezinhlobo zezindlela ezahlukene zokusebenza nesikole ukubuyisela ingane yakho ithrekhi. Izinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzicabangele:
- Buza isikole ukuba sikhiphe noma sinciphise inani lokumisa umsebenzi ingane yakho okumele iyenze ukuze ibambe.
- Yakha uhlelo lwe- 504 uma ingane yakho ingenayo izinkinga zokufunda ezibalulekile ngokwanele ukuze ikwazi ukuthola i- IEP. Uhlelo lwe-504 lubhekene nokuhlala okudingekayo lapho ingane inesiphene esithinta imfundo yakhe, kodwa hhayi ikhono layo lokufunda.
- Dala uhlelo lokuthola ingane yakho emotweni esikoleni. Uma ingane yakho inenkinga yokuhlukana, uthisha kumele ahlangane nawe endaweni yokupaka ukuze ahambise ingane yakho esikoleni. Kwezinye izimo, kungase kube ngokwanele ukuba othile ahlangane nawe emnyango.
- Xoxani ngohlelo lwezinsuku olulodwa ukuze uqale. Uma ukwenqaba kwesikole kunzima ngokwanele, kungadingeka uqale ngokulindela okuphansi. Kungaba kuhle ukucabangela usuku oluphumelelayo uma ingane yakho ingena esikoleni. Ekugcineni, ungakha, ihora ngehora kuze kube yilapho ekhona isikhathi esanele.
- Yenza ubuciko. Uma ungeke umthole ekilasini, mhlawumbe uzimisele ukuhlala emtatsheni wezincwadi, indawo yokudlela yokudlela noma indawo yokudlela enokuqondisa. UDkt. Christopher Kearney , umqondisi wekliniki ye-UNLV School Yokunqatshwa Nokukhathazeka Ngokukhathazeka, ubhekisela kulokhu ngokubeka isisekelo. "Okungenani bayakhula futhi bekulungele ukuya esikoleni, futhi kulula kakhulu ukuwabuyisela ekilasini elivamile kusukela ngaleso sikhathi," esho.