Imibono Yendlela Abazali Abangavimbela Ukuxhashazwa KweSikole
Ukuxhashazwa esikoleni kungathinta ingane yakho ngezindlela eziningi. Akukhona nje ukuthi kunomthelela omubi emphakathini, kodwa futhi kudala isimo sokwesaba phakathi kwabafundi.
Ukuhlukunyezwa nakho kuthinta ukufunda, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho iyisisulu sokuxhashazwa noma ufakazi nje. Ngakho-ke, isidingo sokubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa kubalulekile.
Izikole, kodwa, azikwazi ukubhekana nendaba kuphela. Ukuvimbela ukuxhaphazwa kudinga ukubandakanyeka kwakho, futhi. Nazi izinto eziphezulu eziyishumi abazali abangayenza ukuvimbela ukuxhaphazwa esikoleni.
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Qala ekhaya- Xoxa nomntanakho mayelana nokuthi yini eyenza ubungane obuhle nalokho okungenjalo.
- Nakuba ucwaningo luveza ukuthi abazali bavame ukugcina ukuthi izingane zabo zixhashazwa noma zihlukunyeze omunye umuntu, ungaphula leso simo ngokukhuluma nezingane zakho nsuku zonke mayelana nokuphila komphakathi.
- Buza imibuzo evulekile mayelana nabani abadla isidlo sasemini nabo, ukuthi benzeni ngesikhathi sokuphumula futhi kwenzekani ebhasini noma ekuhambeni ekhaya ukusuka esikoleni.
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Funda Izimpawu Eziyisixwayiso- Izingane eziningi azitsheli muntu uma zihlukunyezwa. Ngenxa yalokho, kufanele ukwazi ukubona izimpawu ezingenzeka ukuthi ingane yakho ihlukumezwe.
- Ngokwesibonelo, izikhalazo zesisu ezisemathunjini, ukugwema imisebenzi yesikole kanye namamaki okuwa phansi kukhona amafulege abomvu okuthi kukhona okwenzekayo.
- Ukwengeza, izingane ezixhashazwayo zingase zithole izinguquko ezinmoyeni, ubuntu, imikhuba yokudla nokuhlanzeka.
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Faka izindlela zokuphila ezinempilo- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugxilisa ingqondo yokuhlukunyezwa. Kodwa lokhu kuhlanganisa okungaphezulu nje kokufundisa ingane yakho ukuthi ingaboni, inqamule noma ihlaziye ezinye izingane.
- Izingane kufanele zifunde ukuthi ukugxeka, ukwahlulela, ukwenza amahlaya okulimazayo nokuhleka kwamahemuhemu nakho kungenampilo futhi kubangela ukuhlukunyezwa.
- Akukaze futhi kusheshe ukuba ufundise izingane zakho mayelana nokuziphatha okusemthethweni kwe-intanethi. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-Cyberbullying kuyinkinga enkulu phakathi kwezingane namuhla.
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Ukunika amandla abantwana bakho- Nika amathuluzi wakho wezingane ukubhekana nokuxhashazwa njengokuhamba kude, utshele umuntu omdala noma utshele umhlukumezi ngezwi eliqinile ukuma.
- Kufanele futhi ufundise izingane zakho ukuthi zibike kanjani ukuxhaphazwa uma zifakaza.
- Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi izingane eziningi zizwa zingenamandla okusiza uma zibona omunye umuntu ehlukunyezwayo. Bafundise ngemibono yokuthi bangabhekana kanjani nalezi zimo ezinzima.
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Yazi kahle Izinqubomgomo Zesikole Sakho- Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ngokucacile ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kuthathwa kanjani esikoleni sabantwana bakho.
- Ngeke nje ukwazi ukuthi yiyiphi umuntu ongayishayela uma kwenzeka okuthile, kodwa futhi uzoba nethemba elicacile lokuthi isimo singasetshenziswa kanjani.
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Bika izigameko zokuhlukumezeka- Xhumana nabasebenzi bezikole bese ucela ukuhlangana nabo ngomuntu uma ingane yakho ixhashazwa.
- Ngokubamba ubuso nobuso , ubonisa ukuthi uzibophezele ekuboneni le nkinga ixazululwe.
- Ungase futhi ufune ukubhala phansi zonke izigameko zokuhlukumezeka uma kwenzeka isimo siphuthumayo futhi umthetho noma ezinye izikhungo ezingaphandle kudingeka zithintane.
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Yiba uMmeli- Nakuba kubalulekile ukuzwakala ukusekelwa kwakho kokuvimbela ukuxhaphazwa, kubalulekile futhi ukunikeza isikhathi sakho.
- I-Volonta yokusebenza nabothisha bomntanakho noma umeluleki wesiqondiso sakho esikoleni ukuthuthukisa uhlelo lokulwa nokuxhashazwa.
- Uma isikole sakho sesivele sinomsebenzi okwamanje, sinikeza usizo ukusiza lapho izenzakalo kanye nama-fundraisers abanjwa.
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Thola abanye abazali- Lapho abazali abaningi bezibophezele ekuvimbeleni ukuxhashazwa , uhlelo lwesikole luzophumelela kakhulu.
- Yakha iqembu labazali abathintekayo ukukusiza ukuxazulula le nkinga. Hlangana njalo ukuze ucabangele imibono.
- Bese, wabelana ngemibono yakho nezikhulu ezifanele zesikole futhi unikeze ukusiza ukufeza imibono.
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Sebenzisa isikhathi esikoleni- Yamukela amathuba okuzithandela emisebenzini yesikole futhi phakathi nosuku uma isimiso sakho sivumela.
- Ngebhajethi eyanciphayo, izikole ziye zaphoqeleka ukuba zinciphise. Ngenxa yalokho, izingane zakho zingase zithole ukunakekelwa okuncane ezindaweni zokudlala nasekuseni.
- Ngezinye izikhathi ukuvele ube nomuntu omdala owengeziwe kuzanele ukuvimbela ukuxhaphazwa.
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Buza i-PTA / PTO ukusekela uhlelo lokuvimbela ukuxhashazwa- Uma isikole sakho sinemali enganiselwe yezinhlelo zokuxhashaza, faka i-PTA / PTO yesikole sakho ucele usizo lwabo. Noma, khombisa u-fundraiser ukwakha ukuqwashisa.
- Khumbula, ukuxhashazwa akuyona ingxenye evamile yobuntwana. Ukuxhashazwa kuthinta wonke umuntu. Kodwa njengomzali, unamandla okwenza okuthile ngakho.