Yonke imibhangqwana idlula isikhathi sokulungisa ngaphambi, ngesikhathi nangemva kokulahlekelwa kokukhulelwa . Ozakwethu angeke abonakale ekhasini elifanayo, futhi ukucasuka okuvamile kungakhula ngokushesha. Ungase uzizwe sengathi umshado wakho uhloselwe ukuchithwa ngezikhathi ezithile.
Uma uye kunoma yimaphi amaqembu okusekela, funda noma yiziphi ezinye izindaba zokuhlukumeza okungaxhunyiwe ku-intanethi, noma uqale ukuzwa izindaba ezivela kubo bonke besifazane empilweni yakho ongazange wazi ukuthi uphelelwe ukukhulelwa, usuqaphele ukuthi ulwazi lwawo wonke umuntu luhlukile .
Ngenkathi kunezenzo ezithile ezivamile zokubhekana nosizi, akuwona wonke umuntu oyozibona ngendlela efanayo, noma umyalelo ofanayo.
Izinyathelo Ezinhlanu Zokuzizwa
Cishe usuvele uzwile mayelana nezinyathelo ezinhlanu zokuzisola futhi akungabazeki ukuthi wazizwa cishe yonke imizwelo ebonakalayo kusukela ekulahlekeni kwakho kokukhulelwa - ukuguqulwa kusuka esiteji kuya esiteji ngokwanele ukuze uzenze uhlaziyekile. Intukuthelo, ukudabuka, ukuzithoba, izikhathi zenjabulo ngisho nezikhathi ezimbalwa lapho umcabango wakho wokuqala wawungekho mayelana nezingane zakho ezilahlekile. Ngokufanayo, cishe uzobona eziningi zalezi zemizwa kumlingani wakho. Izinkinga zivame ukungena uma uzizwa izinto ezihlukene ngezikhathi ezahlukene.
Ukulahlekelwa ukukhulelwa kungenye yalezi zikhathi lapho wena nomlingani wakho nibhekene nosizi ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo. Kungaba ukudideka ngawe njengoba uzama ukusekela uma uhlala ezindaweni ezahlukene ngokomzwelo.
Kuvame ukuthi kube nomlandu omkhulu wecala labo bobabili abalingani emva kokulahlekelwa kokukhulelwa, futhi ngamunye angakholelwa ukuthi omunye ulahlwa ngandlela-thile.
Ngakho yimuphi indlela engcono kakhulu yokugwema imizwa yokulimala?
Ngokuvamile, abantu bafihla imizwa yabo komunye nomunye, ngisho nangenhloso ngenxa yecala, intukuthelo noma nje ukucabanga okulula ukuthi abalingani babo bazi ukuthi bazizwa kanjani ngaphandle kokudinga ukukhuluma. Khuluma nomunye nomunye, khuluma nabanye abantu abazi ukuthi uyaphi.
Ungalindeli ukuthi ubani owazi ukuthi ungaphakathi uma ungahlanganyeli.
Noma yini oyenzayo, ungayikugijimi. Ukudabuka kuthatha isikhathi, futhi akukho zikhathi zokugcina, naphezu kwalokho ongakuzwa noma ukucindezeleka ongase uzizwe. Qhubeka ukhuluma, futhi ukhumbule ukuthi kuzoba nezinsuku ezinhle nezinsuku ezimbi, futhi akukho lutho olungalungile ngokuba nosuku olubi ngisho nangemva kokuba ucabanga ukuthi "uphezulu."
Nika inkululeko yokubhekana nalokhu ngezindlela zakho eziyingqayizivele, kodwa ungesabi ukwethembeka ngemibono yakho, noma ngabe umlingani wakho ubonakala ehluke kakhulu.
Sivame ukugwema ukukhuluma ngokukhulelwa komzimba nokukhulelwa kokukhulelwa ngoba kwenza abantu bangakhululekile. Ungase uzwe ukuthi kulindeleke ukuthi ukhohlwe ukuthi kwenzekani noma ufihle imemori. Kodwa usizi luhlanganisa ukukhumbula. Ezinye izinto ongenza ngazo: nikeza ingane yakho igama, ukhanyise ikhandlela lokuzalwa ngosuku lwakho olufanele noma isikhumbuzo sokukhulelwa kwesisu sakho, unike isipho sokuhlonipha ingane yakho, sitshale isihlahla, noma ubhale "Siyakuthanda" i-balloon ye-helium bese uyikhulula esibhakabhakeni.
Ungesabi noma uhlazeke ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe. Okwenzekayo yi-HARD. Ungazitholi phansi wena noma umlingani wakho uma ungeke ukwenze wedwa. Iqembu lokusekela , umeluleki noma umelaphi angakusiza, umlingani wakho noma bobabili njengombhangqwana ukuba nisebenzele usizi lwakho futhi uphume ngamandla njengeqembu.