Ukuhlukunyezwa akuyona into elula yokubhekana nayo. Ukuxhashazwa kuvame ukushiya izingane zizwe zingenakuzisiza, zisengozini futhi zididekile. Ngenxa yalokho, lapho izingane zixhashazwa ngokuvamile zivame ukwethuka ukuxhashazwa ukuthi aziqiniseki ukuthi benzeni. Kodwa lokhu ukungacabangi nokungabi nampendulo kungavula umnyango wokuxhashazwa okwengeziwe.
Indlela Ingane Yakho Engayenza Ukuyeka Ukuxhashazwa
Ukuze ugcine izihlukumezi ekuhlukumezeni izingane zakho, qiniseka ukuthi bayazi ukuthi benzeni uma bebhekene nomhlukumezi.
Ngaphandle kokuthuthukisa amakhono abo okuqinisekisa , ukwakha ukuzethemba kwabo nokuthuthukisa amakhono abo omphakathi , badinga namathuluzi asebenzayo ekusingatheni izimo zokuxhashazwa. Nazi imibono eyisikhombisa lapho ingane ingayisebenzisa khona.
Ziba umhlukumezi . Ukungaphenduli uma othile ethi noma wenza okuthile okulimazayo ngokuvamile kuvame ukusabela ngokuphumelelayo ekuhlukunyezweni. Iningi labantu abahlukunyezwayo lifuna ukusabela. Bafuna ukuhlose ukuthukuthela noma ukukhala. Futhi, uma ingane yakho isabela ngendlela engokomzwelo ekuhlukunyezweni, ivame ukuqhubeka futhi ingase iqhubeke phambili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ingane yakho iqhubeka ihamba nekhanda layo liphakanyiswa njalo lapho umuntu eqhuba igama noma noma yiluphi olunye uhlobo lokuhlukumezeka, umlutha uzogcina ekugcineni lapho eqonda ukuthi ngeke athole impendulo evela kumntanakho.
Tshela umhlukumezi ukuthi ayeke . Kanti futhi, izihlukumezi ngokuvamile azilindeli ukuthi omunye umuntu azimelele. Eqinisweni, bavame ukukhomba izingane ezikholelwa ukuthi zingasabisa.
Ngenxa yalokho, ukutshela umhlukumezi ukuthi ayeke egameni eliqinile futhi elithembekile lingasebenza kakhulu. Eqinisweni, izihlukumezi zivame ukubheka isisulu esingeke sisho lutho. Kodwa uma ingane yakho iqinisekisa ukuthi u-bully uyazi ukuthi akakwazi ukuhamba kuyo yonke indawo, lo mhlukumezi kungenzeka ukuthi ayeke lokho akwenzayo.
Yenza ihlaya noma uvumelane no-bully . Ezinye izingane zihlekisa ngokwemvelo futhi zithola kulula ukuhleka kanye noxhaphazi. Uma izingane zikwazi ukwenza lokhu, kubonisa ukuthi ziyaqiniseka ngokuthi zingobani futhi azikhathazi uma abanye abantu beveza amaphutha abo. Eqinisweni, bavame ukuvikeleka ngokwanele ukuhleka kanye noxhashazi. Lapho ingane yakho ihleka ne-bully, ihlukana nanoma yikuphi amandla umluthayo ocabanga ukuthi unakho phezu kwengane yakho futhi izindlela zakhe zokuxhaphaza ziba zingasebenzi.
Gwema ukuxhashaza izindawo ezivuthayo . Ngezinye izikhathi konke okudingekayo ukuvimbela ukuxhashazwa kugweme izindawo lapho iziqhwaga ziphuma khona. Lezi zindawo ezishisayo zokuxhaphaza zifaka izindawo ezinjengezindawo ezikude zendawo yokudlala, imigwaqo engenamuntu, izindlu zokugeza, amakamelo okuzulazula nasemuva kwebhasi. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi lezi zindawo zitholakala kuphi nokuthi uyazigwema noma zihamba nomngane uma engakwazi. Ngezinye izikhathi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuvimbela ukuxhaphazwa ukugwema ukuwela izindlela nomuntu ohlukunyezayo.
Namathela nabangani . Ngokuvamile iziqhwaga zifuna izingane ezodwa noma ezodwa. Qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi ukulinda nabangani kuyindlela enhle yokuvimbela ukuxhaphazwa. Uma ingane yakho ihlukunyezwa ngamakhono omphakathi noma inabangani abambalwa kakhulu, thatha izinyathelo zokumsiza ukuba athuthukise ubungane .
Ukuba nobuhlobo obunempilo obulodwa kuphela kungasiza kakhulu ekuvikeleni ingane yakho kubahlukunyezwa.
Yazi ukuthi ungavela kanjani esimweni sokuxhashazwa . Khuluma nengane yakho ngezindlela angakwazi ukuzivikela ngazo ngokuhlukunyezwa , ikakhulukazi uma ukuxhashazwa kungokomzimba. Ngokwesibonelo, qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho iyakwazi ukugcina iso layo ekuphumeni futhi ukuyisebenzisa uma ithuba liziveza. Okunye okukhethwa kukho kubandakanya ukwenza umsindo omkhulu, ukuheha futhi ukwazi ukuhlukumeza noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba. Ingane yakho akudingeki ukuba "ilwa" nomhlukumezi ukuze azivikele. Udinga nje ukwazi ukuthi ungasakaza kanjani isimo futhi ufike ekuphepha.
Bika ukuxhaphaza kumuntu omdala . Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuvimbela ukuxhashazwa ukuyibika. Ngaphandle kokungenelela kwabantu abadala, ukuxhashazwa ngokuvamile kuzoqhubeka noma kwandise. Khuluma ngezizathu zokuthi kungani izingane zingatshele abanye ukuthi zihlukunyezwa futhi uqiniseke ukuthi izingane zakho ziyazi ukuthi uqonda ukwesaba kwabo. Gcizelela ukuthi nakuba kuthatha amandla amaningi nesibindi ukubika ukuxhaphazwa, kuyindlela ehlakaniphile kakhulu yokusingatha lolu hlobo lwesimo. Futhi qaphela ukuthi ungahlanganyeli ekuhlukunyezweni-ukulahlwa noma ukumgxeka ingane yakho ngokuthola ukuxhashazwa. Ukuhlukumezeka kuyisinqumo esenziwe ngumhlukumezi futhi akukaze kube ngumthwalo wesisulu.