Indlela izingane ezingasilwela ngayo ukuhlaselwa yiziqhumane
Uyazi ukuthi uma ingane yakho ingakulungele ukuxhashazwa noma ingazi ukuthi indawo ehlala kuyo, kungenzeka ukuthi ihloselwe? Akekho ofuna ukuthi ingane yabo ingabi nokuzivikela uma kuziwa ekuhlukunyezweni. Kodwa uma ungalungiseleli izingane zakho kusengaphambili, ziyoba. Khuluma nawe izingane mayelana nendlela yokubhekana nokuxhashazwa ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke. Xoxa ngokubaluleka kokugwema ukuxhashazwa izindawo ezishisayo, ukuhlala uphephile ebhasini nokuthi ungamelana kanjani nezihlukumezi .
Futhi umhlomise ngezinye izindlela zokuzivikela.
Lapho abantu abaningi becabanga ngokuzivikela, bacabanga ngokushaya emuva. Kodwa ingxenye enkulu yokuzivikela ayihlangani nokushaya noma ukushaya omunye umuntu. Kuhilela ukuqaphela indawo okuzungezile, ukulalela ugundane wakho, ushiya ngaphambi kokuba inkinga iqhume, usebenzisa izwi elizethembayo futhi uziphethe ngokuqiniseka. Nazi izindlela eziyisishiyagalolunye izingane ezingasebenzisa ukuzivikela ngokumelene nezihlukumezi zesikole.
Sebenzisa ulimi lomzimba oluthembekile.
Enye yezindlela ezingcono zokuvimbela ukuxhashazwa kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi izingane zakho zinokuzethemba okunempilo futhi zithwale ngokuzethemba. Ukuba nokuzethemba kuhilela ukuhleleka okuhle, ukuhamba ngenhloso nokwenza ukuxhumana kwamehlo nalabo abakuzungezile. Ngokuphambene nalokho, uma izingane zishaya futhi zigcina amehlo abo zivinjelwe, lokhu kwenza kubonakale bebuthakathaka futhi kulula ukuyikhomba. Sebenza nezingane zakho kulezi zindlela. Futhi ukhumbuze ukuthi ngisho nalapho bengenaso isibindi, njengokungena endlini yokudla yasemini egcwele abantu abaningi, kufanele bahambe njengabo.
Hlala eqenjini.
Abahlukumezi bancane amathuba okukhomba othile ophethe iqembu labangane. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi kungcono ukuya ezindaweni ngamaqembu, ikakhulukazi ekuhlukumezeni izindawo ezishisayo esikoleni. Uma ingane yakho ingenayo iqembu labangani, sebenze naye ukuthuthukisa abangane . Ubuhlobo buyisici esivimbela ukuxhashazwa .
Ngisho nomngane oyedwa oseduze angahamba ngendlela ende ekuvimbeleni ukuxhaphazwa.
Themba ugulane wakho.
Fundisa izingane zakho ukuba ziqaphele indawo ezungezile. Baye bafaka amafoni abo bese bebheka nxazonke. Ingabe kukhona iqembu labafana ababukeka bekhwele ekhoneni? Ingabe kukhona imoto engavamile esitobhini sebhasi? Kuthiwani ngendoda engemuva kaMcDonald's ekubukeni konke okuhambayo? Ingabe lezi zinto zikhiphe izinsimbi ze-alamu ngaphakathi? Ingabe kukhona okungazizwa kahle emgodini wesisu sabo? Ukuqaphela ukuthi kwenzekani kuzo futhi ukuzethemba izimo zabo, hhayi nje kuphela kuzosiza ukuvikela izingane zakho ekuhlukunyezweni , kodwa futhi kuyigugu lokuphila ebalulekile. Ukuqaphela okwenzekayo nxazonke kungabasiza ukuba bagweme ukugujwa noma ukuhlaselwa njengomuntu omdala.
Gxila endizeni, hhayi ukulwa.
Izikhathi eziningi, izingane aziqapheli ukuthi uma izinto zibukeka sengathi zingaqondisa isiqondiso esingalungile, kufanele ziphenduke futhi zihambe. Qinisekisa ukuthi bayazi ukuthi akusilo ukwesaba ukuhamba. Esikhundleni salokho, bakhumbuze ukuthi kudinga isibindi ukuhamba kude nesimo esiqhubekayo. Cindezela izingane zakho ukuthi zidinga ukushiya isimo ngaphambi kokuthi ziphume. Ukubona ukuthi isimo sithatha ukuthatha isikhathi esingcono kakhulu futhi ukuhamba kude kungenye yezindlela ezingcono zokugwema izimo zokuxhashaza.
Sebenzisa izwi eliqinile.
Uma ingane yakho ithola isimo sokuhlukumezeka, ngezinye izikhathi ukusebenzisa izwi elizethembayo nokuqinisekisa ukuthi kuzokwehlisa isimo. Izikhathi eziningi, izihlukumezi zifuna ukubhekwa kalula. Futhi izwi eliqinile elinokwethenjelwa lingabangela izihlukumezi ukuba zibuyiselwe emuva. Yenza izingane zakho zijwayele ukukhuluma ngokuzethemba futhi ngezwi elinamandla ekhaya. Khona-ke, uma besesimweni esinzima kuzofika ngokwemvelo.
Gcina amehlo akho ekuphumeni.
Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zingena esimweni lapho zingakwazi khona ukuhamba ngokushesha. Mhlawumbe indlela yabo ivinjiwe noma bazizwa ukuthi akuphephile ukuyiqhuba.
Kulesi simo, kufanele baqhubeke befuna ukuphuma futhi uma ithuba liziveza, yenze ikhefu. Khumbuza ukuthi akuyona isibonakaliso sobuthakathaka ukugijima kumuntu ohlukumezayo. Eqinisweni, kudinga isibindi namandla. Ibuye ihlale iphephile.
Gxila ukunakwa.
Qinisekisa ukuthi izingane zakho ziyazi ukuthi zamukelekile futhi zikhuthazwa ukuba zenze umsindo omkhulu uma othile esongela noma ezilimaza. Akufanele nje ukuthi basebenzise izwi elinamandla, kodwa futhi bangakwazi ukumemeza, bekhala noma bakhamuluke. Umqondo uwukushaqeka umhlukumezi ngokuheha kakhulu isimo, ikakhulukazi kubantu abadala noma othisha. Le ndlela futhi ibalulekile uma ingane ihlaselwa ngumfokazi ngesikhathi sokuzama ukukhishwa. Ukuthula nokuzithoba akukaze kube umqondo omuhle.
Thatha isigaba sokuzivikela.
Ngezinye izikhathi into engcono kakhulu ongayenza izingane zakho ukuzibhalisa esiklasini sokuzivikela. Ngokwesibonelo, i-American Taekwondo Association inikeza izinketho eziningi ezihloselwe izingane ngqo. Izingane ngeke zifunde kuphela ukuzivikela, kodwa nazo zizofunda ukuzethemba nokuzithiba. Izikhathi eziningi, ukungafani nokuhlukunyezwa kwezimo kuhilela ukwazi ukuthi ungasabela kanjani esimweni esinokuthula nangokuzethemba ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuhlukumezeka ngokomzimba .
Sebenzisa amasu okuzivikela.
Nakuba kungakaze kube umqondo omuhle ukukhuthaza ingane yakho ukuba ilwa, kukhona izindlela ezithile zokuzivikela ezingasebenzisa ukuzivikela lapho zihlaselwa. Ngokwesibonelo, kunezinqubo zokuvimbela i-punch ephonswa kubo. Kukhona namasu okususa iminwe ye-bully kusuka ezandleni zabo kanye namasu wokuthi ungakhululeka kanjani uma uvinjelwe. Futhi kunezinqubo zendlela abangakwazi ukuzivikela ngayo ekuhlaselweni kweqembu. Zonke lezi zindlela zingafundwa ekilasini lokuzivikela.
Khumbula, uma ufundisa izingane zakho ngamakhono okuzivikela ngokumelene nezihlukumezi, zikhuthaze ukuba zisakaze isimo ngokusebenzisa izwi eliqinile noma ukuhamba kude. Futhi, hlola isifunda sakho esikoleni ngezinqubomgomo zabo mayelana nokuzivikela. Ezinye izikole zinezinqubomgomo zokubekezelelana zero futhi zizomiselela kokubili ukuhlukunyezwa kanye nesisulu lapho ukuxhashazwa ngokomzimba kwenzeka. Qinisekisa ukuthi uyaqonda umphumela ongase ube khona lapho izingane zakho zizivikela.