Indlela yokwakha amakhono omphakathi angasiza izingane zigweme ukuba yizinhloso zokuxhashazwa
Ingane yakho akudingeki ithandwa kakhulu ukuze ibe namakhono okuhlala emphakathini. Kodwa ukuba namakhono omuhle omphakathi kungenza okuningi ukuze uthuthukise impilo yengane yakho. Ngeke nje aqiniseke futhi axhumeke kwabanye, ukwazi ukuxhumana imicabango nemizwa yikhono lokuphila ebalulekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amakhono omphakathi nawo ayimbangela yokuvikela ukuxhaphazwa.
Amakhono omphakathi anamandla nawo asiza intsha ukuthi ikhululeke ngokubhekana nezimo ezinzima, kuhlanganise nokuhlukunyezwa .
Akunamathuba okuhlukumeza abanye, ngoba angakwazi ukubhekana nezimo ezinzima ngaphandle kokusongelwa, ukuxhaphazwa nezinye izinyathelo zokuxhashaza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ucwaningo luye lwaxhuma amakhono aphezulu omphakathi ngokuphumelela okungcono kwezemfundo. Amakhono ezomphakathi nawo angathinta umsebenzi wekusasa wesikhathi esizayo nobuhlobo bakhe. Khumbula-ke, ukuthi ezinye izingane ezithuthukisa amakhono omphakathi zithatha isikhathi kanye nesilingo nesiphambeko. Yiba nesineke futhi ungalindeli izinguquko ngokushesha. Nazi amathiphu ayisikhombisa okuthuthukisa amakhono omphakathi wengane yakho.
Yakha ukuzibheka
Ukuzethemba okuqinile kungumsuka wamakhono omphakathi wengane. Uma izingane zingenakho ukuzethemba, kunzima ngabo ukuthatha izingozi ezidingekayo ekuthuthukiseni amakhono omphakathi aqinile. Qala ngokuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kwezingane zakho. Yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izingane zakho zikwazi ukubona amandla abo nobubuthakathaka babo futhi zizizwe kahle ngokuthi zingobani. Khumbula, ukuzethemba kuyisici sokuzivikela ekuhlukunyezweni futhi.
Izingane azikwazi ukukhetha labo abazizethembayo nokulawula.
Ubuhlobo Bobuhle
Ubuhlobo obunempilo kungenye into evikelayo uma kuziwa ngokuhlukunyezwa. Eqinisweni, ngisho nomngane oyedwa nje angakwazi ukuhamba ngendlela ende ekuhlukunyezweni ingane yakho. Abaxhashazi bancane amathuba okukhomba izingane ezinabangane.
Ngakho-ke, kuwukuhlakanipha ukusiza ingane yakho ukuba ithuthukise ubungane, ikakhulukazi esemncane. Ukuze wenze lokhu, hlela isikhathi nabangani babo. Bahlanganyele emisebenzini yangaphandle bese ukhuluma ngalokho okubangelwa ubungane obuhle.
Fundisa ukuqinisekiswa
Ukukholelwa noma cha, ukufakazela kuyisici esibalulekile sokuthi uqiniswe emphakathini. Uma izingane zingekho noma zithokozela, ziqeda ukusizakala noma ukuxhashazwa. Amantombazane asho ngokuyinhloko afune abanye abangaboni. Fundisa izingane zakho ukuveza imicabango nemizwa yabo. Kufanele futhi baqaphele ukuthi kufanelekile ukumelela amalungelo abo ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ngokuxhaphaza, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwane , ukuxhaphazwa kwe-cyberbullying , ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi nezinye izimo ezihlaselayo.
Faka ukuhlonipha
Izingane kufanele zifundiswe ukuthi wonke umuntu udinga ukuhlonishwa nokuthi wonke umuntu unenani. Uma bebona lokhu, akuzona nje kuphela amathuba okuhlukumeza abanye kodwa futhi banamathuba amaningi okuma ngokumelene nokuziphatha okuxhashazayo . Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane kudingeka ziqaphele ukuthi uma abangane babo bengabatholi ngenhlonipho, abangani babo yizihlukumezi. Cindezela izingane zakho ukuthi wonke umuntu ufanelwe inhlonipho, kuhlanganise nabo. Akufanele balondoloze ubuhlobo nabantu abangahloniphi.
Hlakulela ukulinganisela
Izingane zizobhekana nokuhlukunyezwa nokuphikisana kuzo zonke izimpilo zabo. Ukubafundisa indlela yokubhekana nezinkinga nezinkinga ngaphandle kokuyeka ukubachaphazela kuyigugu lokuphila elibalulekile. Ukuphindaphindiwe kusiza izingane ukulwa nomthelela wokuhlukunyezwa . Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane ezizinzile zingathembeka ngemizwa yazo futhi zikhulume ukuthi zizizwa kanjani kwabanye. Ibuye ibasize bahlale bebekezela lapho behlukunyezwa noma bebhekene nobunzima.
Bonisa Isihawu
Izingane ezinesihawu zivame izingane ezinamakhono ezinhlalakahle. Uma izingane zingazwelana nabanye, zihambisana nalokho abanye abazizwayo futhi ngokuvamile baxhumana nokukhathazeka nokukhathazeka.
Ukuze ufundise izingane zakho ukuzwelana , qiniseka ukuthi ufanisa ukuziphatha ekhaya. Ngokwesibonelo, uma ubona isimo sokuxhaphaza, cela ingane yakho ukuthi lowo muntu angase azizwe kanjani. Uma ehluleka ukukutshela, mkhuthaze ngemibono ethile. Futhi, khombisa ukukhathalela nokukhathalela abanye ngokunikela kwabampofu, ukuzithandela endaweni yokudla nokuhlanganyela kwezinye izinto zokusiza.
Zama ukuxazulula inkinga
Mhlawumbe into eyigugu kakhulu yokwakha amakhono omphakathi ukuthuthukisa ikhono lomntwana lokuxazulula izinkinga ngendlela enempilo. Ukwenza lokhu kudinga ukuba izingane zakho zikwazi ukuveza imizwa yazo nokuphatha izifiso zabo. Uma lezi zici ezimbili zingekho, izingane zingaba nezinkinga eziphathelene nabanye. Futhi, unikeza ingane yakho amathuluzi okuxazulula izingxabano ezifana nokufunda ukusebenzisana nokulindela imiphumela.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Khumbula, ukwakha amakhono amakhono omphakathi ezinganeni zakho kuzosiza ekuzivikeleni ekuhlukumezeni esikoleni. Ngeke nje babe nekhono lokuxhumana nabanye abafundi futhi benze abangane, kodwa futhi banamathuba amaningi okuba nesibindi nesibindi sokutshela umhlukumezi ukuthi ayeke uma ekhonjelwe.