Funda kabanzi mayelana nokuxhashazwa ngokocansi
Ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi kuyindlela yokuxhashazwa okuvamile phakathi kwe-tweens kanye nentsha. Lokhu kuziphatha kwenzeka uma umuntu noma iqembu labantu behlukumeza abanye ngokusebenzisa imibono nezenzo eziphathelene nobulili. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi kungenzeka ku-inthanethi noma kumuntu.
Umklomelo noma u-teen ekupheleni kokutholwa kokuxhashazwa ngokocansi kungase kube nokuhlukumeza, ukuhlekwa ngamanga, ukuhlambalaza, ukuhlambalazwa, ukuxhaswa nge-cyberbullied , ukunganakwa, ukuxoshwa , ukuhlazeka nokushaywa isabisa.
Ngokungafani nokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba , ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi kungaba nzima ukubona ngoba ngokuvamile akushiyi uphawu olubonakalayo.
Ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi kuvame ukukwenzeka uma kungekho muntu omdala. Ngenxa yalokho, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali baxoxe njalo nezingane zabo mayelana nokuxhashazwa ngokocansi nokuthuthukiswa kocansi okunempilo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba yisisulu sokuxhashazwa ngokocansi, unike ingane yakho ithuba elihle lokukhuluma nawe ngesimo.
Izibonelo zokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili
Izithombe zobulili, amahlaya, ulimi, namazwana abizwa ngokuthi akufanelekile ngesizathu. Ngenxa yalokho, uma kungokwemvelo ngokocansi futhi okwenza kube nzima ukuqondisa, ukucasuka, ukuhlazeka noma ukwesaba, kungukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili noma ukuhlukunyezwa. Ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi kungafaka izenzo kanye namazwana alandelayo:
- Ukwenza amahlaya ocansi noma ukuphawula ngomuntu othile
- Ukwenza ukuziphatha kobulili komuntu
- Ukwenza imibono mayelana nokuthandwa kocansi komuntu noma umsebenzi wobulili
- Ukushayela amagama omzimba ocacile nocansi
- Ukuthinta, ukubamba noma ukuphoqa othile ngendlela yokuziphatha ngokobulili
- Ukubamba izingubo zomuntu noma ukuxubha ngokumelene nabo ngendlela yokuziphatha ngokobulili
- Ukusakazwa ngamahemuhemu ngokocansi noma ukuhleba ngomuntu, ngombhalo noma ku-intanethi
- Ukuthumela amazwana wezocansi, izithombe noma amavidiyo kumasayithi omphakathi wezokuxhumana njenge-Facebook
- Ukuthumela imilayezo yombhalo ocacile ngokobulili nemifanekiso engalungile ngomlayezo wombhalo, owaziwa nangokuthunyelwa kwe- sexting
- Ukucindezela umuntu ukuba ahlanganyele ekuthumelelaneni nge-SMS ukubonisa ukuzibophezela noma uthando
- Ukudlulisela imilayezo yocansi ngokucacile nezithombe ezingalungile ngombhalo noma nge-imeyili
- Ukubhala amazwana wezocansi ngomuntu othile kuma-blogs, kuma-stalls wokugeza noma kwezinye izindawo zomphakathi
- Ukuhlanganyela amavidiyo angcolile ocansi noma izithombe
- Ukuzenza abanye abantu ku-intanethi nokwenza amazwana noma izipesheli zobulili egameni labo
- Ukubandakanya ukuhlambalaza ngamathambo noma ukuhlambalaza komphakathi ukuthi kuyisimo socansi
Okwenza izingane zixhashaze abanye ngokobulili
Kunezizathu eziningi ezenza izingane zihlanganyele ekuhlukumezeni ngokocansi. Kodwa, izizathu eziphezulu zihilela ukuthuthukisa isimo senhlalo ngaphakathi esikoleni, umhawu nomhawu , isidingo sokunakwa kanye nokwesaba ukuziphatha kwabo ngokocansi okuqhubekayo. Nakhu okuningiliziwe kwezici ezishukumisayo zokuxhashazwa ngokocansi.
Ukuzizwa Unamandla
Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zizoxhaphaza abanye uma zizwa zibuthakathaka noma zingenamandla. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi izingane zihlukunyezwa abanye ngoba nazo ziye zahlukunyezwa ngokocansi noma zihlukunyezwa. Ukuze baphinde baphinde balawule empilweni yabo, bahlose labo ababuthakathaka kunabo. Lokhu kuvumela ukuba babonise ukulawula empilweni yabo futhi bazizwe benamandla.
Ngesinye isikhathi, izingane zinezinkanuko ngokuqondene nobulili obuhlukile noma indlela yokuphila futhi zizoxhashaza abanye ngokobulili ngokusekelwe kulezo zinkolelo.
Ukuvela Ekukhuleni Ngokobulili
Uma izingane zifinyelela ekukhuleni, zibeka ukubaluleka okukhulu endleleni ababukeka ngayo nokuthi yini ontanga yabo abacabanga ngayo. Umgomo ukuvela ovuthiwe futhi wamukelwe. Ngenxa yalokho, bavame ukuvumela ukucindezela kontanga kanye nezidingo ezivela emaceleni . Ngezikhathi eziningi, abafana, ikakhulukazi, bazozihlukumeza ngokocansi amantombazane ukuze bathole ukwamukelwa kontanga noma banikeze sengathi babhekene nocansi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amantombazane angase agxile ekuhlukumezeni amanye amantombazane ngokuwabiza ngamagama ecacile ngokocansi ngomzamo wokunciphisa isimo senhlalo yentombazane.
Ukwenza ukuthakazelisa
Abanye abaxhashazwa ngokobulili bajabule ngokutshela indaba enamanzi, ukusakaza amahemuhemu noma ukwabelana ngemininingwane engafanele ngomunye umuntu. Amantombazane amancane , ikakhulukazi, azohlukunyezwa ngamanye amantombazane ngokusakaza amahemuhemu nokuhleba , ukwabelana ngemfihlakalo noma ukutshela izindaba. Bakujabulela ukunakwa kwabo ngokukwazi okuthile abanye abangazi. Baphinde bajabulele ekuhluphekeni kwabanye.
Ukunciphisa Ukuphepha
Ezimweni eziningi, ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi kuyisembozo semicabango yokungafaneleki nokuzethemba okuphansi . Isibonelo, umhlukumezi angazizwa engavikelekile ngomzimba wakhe othuthukayo noma ngokobulili futhi uzohlasela abanye ngaphambi kokuba nethuba lokumhlasela.
Ukususa Ukuncintisana
Izikhathi eziningi amantombazane azohlukunyezwa ngenye intombazane ngoba nje emhawu. Mhlawumbe bazizwa enhle kakhulu, ehlakaniphile noma ethandwa kakhulu ngabafana. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yisiphi isizathu, amantombazane azovame ukubhekisa enye intombazane ukuze imenze ibonakale efiselekayo kwabanye. Loluhlobo lokuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwane luhlanganisa izinto ezifana nokwabelana ngemfihlakalo yezocansi noma ukusakaza amanga namahemuhemu ngomsebenzi wezocansi womgomo.
Ukuze wenze abanye abanye
Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zizohlanganyela ekuhlukumezweni ngokocansi ngenxa yalokho abakubona abanye bezenza. Izithonya zingabandakanya konke kusuka kubantu abadala ekuphileni kwabo kube yithelevishini yangempela, amabhayisikobho nomculo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyisimo sokwethenjelwa kwethelevishini, ingane yakhulile, umngane, umzali noma ngisho nomakhelwane, izingane zivame ukulingisa ukuziphatha kwazo emva kwalokho okukuzo.