Imibono kubazali ukuthi bangabhekana kanjani nokuhlukunyezwa kwe-cyberbullying
Njengoba imithombo yezokuxhumana iba indlela yokukhulumisana nentsha, kukhulunywa kakhulu nokwanda kwenani lezingxoxo ze-cyberbullying. Futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nangaphezulu okuya kungakapheli. Ngenxa yalokho, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bazi ukuthi bangasabela kanjani lapho kwenzeka izigameko ze- inthanethi . Yize zonke izimo zihluke kakhulu, kuyasiza ukuba uthole iziqondiso eziningi zokuphatha indlela yokuphatha i-cyberbullying, futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola ingane yakho endleleni yokunqoba ukuxhashazwa .
Nazi izinto eziphezulu wena nomntanakho okufanele nizenze uma ingane yakho ibhekene ne-cyberbullying.
Ungaphenduli . Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthi indlela engcono kakhulu yokubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa kwe-inthanethi ukungazinaki okuthunyelwe, amazwana, imibhalo kanye namakholi. Nakuba kunzima ukugwema ukuphendula okuthile okungelona iqiniso, kungcono ukumisa futhi kubike umcimbi kumzali noma omdala omethembayo kunalokho. Cindezela izingane zakho ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi amazwi abuhlungu kangakanani, akufanele athumele impendulo. Ama-cyberbullies afuna ukusabela. Qiniseka ukuthi izingane zakho azikwazi ukubanika eyodwa. Inkinga kungenzeka ukuthi ifinyelele uma kungekho impendulo evela kulitshe. Khumbula, ukuphendula kuphela kuvumela isimo ukuba sikhule.
Phrinta futhi ugcine amakhophi azo zonke izixhumano ze-inthanethi . Londoloza yonke imilayezo, imibono kanye nokuthunyelwe njengobufakazi. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ama-imeyili, okuthunyelwe kwebhulogi, okuthunyelwe kwezokuxhumana, ama-tweets, imiyalezo kanye nokunye okunye. Nakuba ukuphendula kwengane yakho kuqala kungaba ukususa konke, umkhumbuze ukuthi ngaphandle kobufakazi awunawo ubufakazi bokuthi kuqhutshwa i-cyberbullying.
Emva kokuba ubufakazi buqoqwe futhi ukhulume nesikole namaphoyisa, kufanele ukwazi ukususa amazwana. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi uma okuthunyelwe kuhilela ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi okuqukethe ubunqunu, kufanele kususwe. Ukugcina noma ukunyathelisa izithombe zengane encane kubangelwa ukutholakala kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ezinganeni futhi kungabangela isenzo somthetho ngokumelene nawe nengane yakho.
Bika lesi sigameko ngokushesha futhi uvumele amaphoyisa ukuba agcine ubufakazi. Ungalondolozi amakhophi kwanoma yiziphi izikhala zocansi.
Bika ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying kumeluleki wesikole sakho noma oyinhloko. Ukubika lezi zigameko kubaluleke kakhulu uma ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzeka ezikoleni. Kodwa noma ngabe kwenzeka esikoleni, abanye bathi izikole zikwazi ukungenelela, ikakhulukazi njengoba ukuxhaphazwa kwe -cyberbullying kanye nezinye izinhlobo zokuxhashazwa kuzongena ngaphakathi kwesakhiwo sesikole. Ngaphezu kwalokho, noma ngabe ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzekile ku-campus, cishe abafundi bazoxoxa ngakho esikoleni.
Ngokwesibonelo, izikhathi eziningi izingane zizofunda okuthunyelwe ku-Facebook noma ku-Instagram. Bese basebenzisa lolu lwazi njengezinhlamvu ukuze bahlanganyele ekuhlukumezeni okungeziwe esikoleni kufaka phakathi ukubiza amagama , ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobudlelwane nokuxoshwa . Uma kubika i-cyberbullying esikoleni, faka ikhophi yama-tweets, imiyalezo, okuthunyelwe noma enye incwadi yamafayela abo. Qinisekisa ukugcina ikhophi yakho futhi. Uma isifunda sakho esikoleni singakwazi noma singathandi ukuphendula ku-intanethi, cabangela ukuxhumana namapholisa ukufaka umbiko.
Bika i-cyberbullying kumasayithi ezokuxhumana nabantu kanye nomhlinzeki wezinsizakalo ze-intanethi (ISP). Uma ukuxhunywa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzeka kuma-akhawunti wakho wengane noma kwenzeka ekhaya, kubalulekile ukuthi uthumele amakhophi wokuqhuma kwe-intanethi ku-ISP yakho.
Futhi uma ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzeka enkundleni yezokuxhumana, qiniseka ukuyibika nabo. Amasayithi afana ne-Instagram, i-Facebook ne- Twitter azophenya ngezimangalo ze-cyberbullying, ikakhulukazi uma kuhilela ingane encane. Ngisho noma ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying kungaziwa noma kwenzeka ngaphansi kwe-akhawunti ye-fake, kufanele uyibike. Izikhathi eziningi, i-ISP, kanye namapholisa, angakwazi ukulandelela ukuthi ubani othumela noma othumela imilayezo. Khumbula, ingane yakho akudingeki ibekezelele i-cyberbullying. Ngezikhathi eziningi, i-cyberbully izoshiya umzila ocacile wobufakazi bokuthi uma kubikwe eziphathimandla ezifanele kungakwazi ukuhamba ngendlela ende ekuyiqedeni.
Xhumana namaphoyisa ngokushesha mayelana nanoma yiziphi izinsongo. Ukwesatshiswa kokufa, izinsongo zokuhlukumezeka ngokomzimba, izinkomba zokugxila kanye neziphakamiso zokuzibulala kufanele zibikwe ngokushesha. Kumele futhi ubike noma yikuphi ukuhlukunyezwa okuqhubekayo isikhathi eside kanye nanoma yikuphi ukuxhumana okubandakanya ukuhlukunyezwa okusekelwe kubuhlanga, inkolo noma ukukhubazeka. Amaphoyisa azobhekana nalezi zenzakalo.
Nciphisa ukuxhumana . Khansela ama-akhawunti wamanje okuxhumana nabantu abandakanya i-Twitter, Instagram ne-Facebook kanye nama-akhawunti amasha avulekile. Uma ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying kwenzeka ngefoni, shintsha inombolo yeselula yengane yakho uthole inombolo engabhalwanga. Khona-ke, vimbela i-cyberbully kusuka kumasayithi omusha womphakathi wengane yakho, ama-akhawunti we-imeyli, imiyalezo esheshayo namafoni omakhalekhukhwini. Isihluthulelo ukwenza kube nzima kakhulu ukuthi i-cyberbully ixhumane nengane yakho.
Qaphela imiphumela ye-cyberbullying . Izingane ezixhunywe nge-cyberbullied zithola imiphumela ehlukahlukene ezihlanganisa konke okuvela ekuzizwa zikhululekile futhi zisengozini yokuzizwa ecindezelekile ngisho nokuzibulala. Qaphela kakhulu imiphumela ye-cyberbullying futhi ungesabi ukubathola usizo abayidingayo ukuze baphulukise. Buka izinguquko zokuziphatha futhi uxoxe nsuku zonke nengane yakho. Kubalulekile ukuphazamisa ingane yakho emithonjeni yezokuxhumana. Yenza okuthile okujabulisayo ndawonye noma ukhuthaze ingane yakho ukuthi ithathe isenzo sokuzilibazisa esisha. Isihluthulelo ukuqondisa ukunakwa kwakhe kulokho abanye abakushoyo nokwenzayo.
Funa ukululekwa nokusekelwa . Ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-Cyberbullying kuyinkinga enkulu engafanele iphathwe yedwa. Qinisekisa ukuzungeza ingane yakho nabangani nabomsekeli abesekayo. Khumbula, kusiza ukukhuluma nomuntu ngalokho okwenzekayo. Cabanga ukuthola umeluleki wezobuchwepheshe ukusiza ingane yakho ukuphulukisa. Kufanele futhi ukuba ingane yakho ihlolwe ngumsebenzi wezempilo, ikakhulukazi uma ubona ushintsho emoyeni, imikhuba yokulala noma imikhuba yokudla. Ngisho nabafundi basekolishi abasebenzisa i-cyberbullied kumele bathole usizo ngaphandle.
Yeka ukuthatha ubuchwepheshe . Kuvamile ukuba abazali bafune ukuqeda lokho okulimaza ingane yabo. Futhi kubazali abaningi, impendulo enengqondo ibonakala sengathi ukukhipha ucingo kanye nekhompyutha. Kodwa, ngenxa yentsha, lokhu kuvame ukusho ukuyeka ukuxhumana nezwe labo lonke. Amafoni abo kanye namakhompiyutha abo bangenye yezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu abaxhumana ngazo nabanye. Uma leyo ndlela yokukhulumisana isusiwe, ingazizwa ihlukaniswe futhi iqedwe ezweni layo. Lokhu kungakwandisa imizwa yedwa nesizungu. Esikhundleni salokho, siza ingane yakho ukuba isetshenziswe ngesimo ngokushintsha ukuziphatha kwe-inthanethi , ukubeka imingcele kanye nokukhawulela isikhathi ku-intanethi.
Khumbula, ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi izingane eziningi azibiki ukuxhaphazwa ngoba ziyesaba ukulahlekelwa ifoni noma ikhompyutha yabo. Esikhundleni salokho, khumbula ukuthi akuyona ubuchwepheshe obulimaza ingane yakho, kodwa umuntu komunye umkhawulo wobuchwepheshe. Qinisekisa izingane zakho ukuthi ngeke zilahlekelwe ifoni uma zibika ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying. Bese, gcina izithembiso zakho.