Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani umntanakho ekhetha ukuqeda ubuhlobo nabaqashi bawo. Uma wazi izizathu, kungase kube lula ukuzigwema futhi usize ukwandise futhi uqinise ubuhlobo bakho nomntanakho, okubalulekile ekukhuleni kwengane yakho nenhlalakahle, hhayi kuphela ngoba ubeka isibonelo esihle sokuqina ubudlelwane kodwa futhi ngoba ingane yakho ingase ibe nokuxhumana okujulile nomntanakho.
1. Ukungabi nokuxhumana
Ukuxhumana kungenye yezici ezibaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni bomzali bomzali. Ungase uthande unanny wakho ngoba ungumuntu othakazelisayo, ongekho-confrontational kanye nomgcini wokuthula nezingane zakho, kodwa lezi zici zingase zibe inkinga ngokwezindaba zokuxhumana
Ubuhlobo bomzali obunamantombazane buhilela abantu abanezizinda ezihlukahlukene ezihambisana nomgomo ohlanganyelwe wokukhulisa ngempumelelo izingane. Ukudumazeka nokufutheka kungenzeka kwenzeke uma kungekho ukuxhumana okuvulekile nokuvulekile. Ngaphambi kokuba ubuhlobo bakho buqale, xoxisana nomuntu ozobona nanny ukuthi ukukhulumisana okubaluleke kangakanani kuwe futhi uma esebenza nawe kuqala, qiniseka ukuthi unikeza i-nanny yakho indawo ephephile yokuhlanganyela imizwa yakhe. Ngaphandle kokungena kwansuku zonke endleleni ongena ngayo nangaphandle okuvame usuku nosuku lomntwana, kuhle ukubeka eceleni isikhathi eside kakhulu ngenyanga noma njalo njalo ukuze uxoxe ukuthi umsebenzi uyamthola kanjani.
2. Ukuguqulwa kwemisebenzi yomsebenzi
Nanny baqashwe ukwenza imisebenzi ethile, banakekele inani elithile labantwana. Uma uqala ukucela umntanakho ukuba enze imisebenzi eyengeziwe, ngisho nezincane, ngaphandle kokuxoxa ngakho noma ukuyibuyisela imali, izinto zingase zigcine ziphendule ngendlela engafanele. I-nanny akudingeki ihlanze ikhishi lakho ukuze wenze isidlo sasekuseni izingane zakho.
Uma inkontileka yakhe ithi uzokwenza izingubo zezingane, lokhu akunika abazali ithuba lokumcela ukuba enze izingubo zakho zokugeza. Ungaguquki imisebenzi yakhe ngokungalindelekile futhi ucabange ukuthi ulungile nalo.
3. Ukuhlela Amashejuli
I-nanny iqashwe ukusebenza ukusebenza izinsuku nezinsuku. Uma uzoqhubeka uguqula isimiso sakho, xhumana nomntanakho bese ubona ukuthi lokhu kusebenza kuye. Unomphefumulo ngaphandle kokubukela izingane zakho ngakho umbuze ukuthi yini emsebenzelayo. Amashejuli ashintsha lapho izingane zikhula kodwa abazali akufanele bacabange ukuthi lo mfana uzojabula ukubhekana nazo zonke izinguquko. Buza nanny wakho ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ukuthi lezi zinguquko ezintsha zizomthinta. Uma kungenjalo, uhlobo oluthile lokunciphisa lungase ludingeke lwenzeke, noma ngeshwa, ungaqeda izindlela zokuhlukanisa.
4. Ukungabi Nokwazisa
Ama-nannies achitha usuku lonke ukunakekela izingane, njengoba sonke siyazi, akuyona into elula! Emiphakathini yethu ematasa futhi siphuthumayo, abazali bavame ukukhohlwa ukubonga ama-nannies abo bonke abakwenzayo emindenini yethu. Ukubonga kuyahamba kakhulu. Thatha isikhathi sokubonga i-nanny yakho njalo. Ukubonga okukhethekile okubaluleke kakhulu ngosuku lokuzalwa kwabo, ngamaholidi noma ngesikhathi seNational Nanny Recognition Week. Isipho senanny yakho akudingeki sibe kubizayo.
Isiboniso esincane sokubonga kwakho nekhadi elenziwe ngezandla ezicatshangelwe ngesandla kusuka kumntanakho lihamba ngendlela ende ukukhombisa ukuthi uyakwazisa kangakanani yonke inanini yakho eyenzela yona.
5. Abazali Abaphathi Abancane
Ukuqasha umuntu ukukusiza ukukhulisa ingane yakho kungaba nzima ngoba njengomzali, wazi ingane yakho kangcono futhi ufuna ukwenza zonke izinqumo, ezinkulu noma ezincane. Kodwa-ke, ukuqasha isikhwama semali kusho ukuthi ungena ebambiswaneni. Ukwengeza omunye umuntu ekuxubeni kokunakekelwa kwengane kusho imibono eyengeziwe futhi njengomntanami osebenze nezinye izingane, umbono wakhe kufanele uxoxisane. Okwesibili-ukuqagela noma ukubuza zonke izinqumo umntanakho akwenzayo kuzokwenza isimo esibi.
Ukunikeza inkululeko yakho yenkululeko nokufunda ukwamukela ukungezwani okuncane kuzosiza ngempela ingane yakho ukuba ikuhloniphe. Uma kukhona izindawo ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, bese ukhetha lezo zingamaphoyinti akho okunamathela futhi amenze azi ukuthi zibaluleke kangakanani.
6. Ukuzwa Isolated
Ukunakekela izingane usuku lonke kungaba umsebenzi wokuzihlukanisa. Abazali kufanele bakhuthaze imisebenzi evumela ukuba izingane zibe nemibuthano yabantu futhi zithole okuhlangenwe nakho okusha njengokuthatha izingane ukuhamba epaki yangakini, ukuya endaweni yokudlala noma kulabhulali yangakini nokujoyina amaqembu okudlala. I-nannies ilangazelela ukuhamba nomntwana ngosuku oluhle, ukuhlangana nabangani nokujabulela ukuxhumana. Uma ungumndeni ocela ukuthi umntanakho ahlale ekhaya usuku lonke, mhlawumbe ngenxa yesaba ingane yakho emotweni nomunye umuntu noma esinye isizathu, cabanga ngalesi sinqumo. Ufuna nanny wakho ajabule emini futhi angazizwa eboshelwe ekhaya lakho.
7. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ezihlukene
Amafilosofi omzali kubaluleke kakhulu ukucabanga mayelana nokuqasha ingane. Uma uxoxisana , cela ama-nannies angase abe nemibono yabo mayelana nokuziphatha nokuqeqeshwa ukulala. Kungase kuvuselele noma kukhanyise, ikakhulukazi njengomzali omusha, ukusebenza nomfana onamafilosofi ahlukene, kodwa kungabangela nezinkinga ezinkulu. Ukubambisana nokunakekela izingane kubalulekile ekuthuthukiseni ingane efanelekile.
8. Ukungasebenzi komndeni
I-Nannies inesihlalo esingaphambi kwento yonke eqhubekayo ngaphakathi kwendlu yakho, ngakho-ke uma wena noshade naye nihlala nilwa noma nivumela ingane yakho endala ukuba ilume futhi ibulale ingane yakho encane ngokuphindaphindiwe ngaphandle kwesiyalo esifanele ubudala, unina angase akhethe ukushiya umndeni . Izimo ezinzima kakhulu ezifana nokusebenzisa kabi utshwala, ukuhlukumeza ngokomzimba noma ukungazinzi ngokomzwelo yizimpawu ezinkulu ezibomvu zama-nannies ukubuka kwenye indawo.
Izinkinga Zemiholo Nezintela
Izindaba zentela zingaba nzima ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi unesivumelwano esayinwe yibo bobabili ngaphambi kokuqasha. Thatha isikhathi sokuxoxa ngezinkokhelo nezindleko ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana futhi ukhumbule lokhu ku-Nanny Contract yakho. Cabanga ukunikeza umntanakho ukuphazamiseka kwemali yentela ekhokhwa ngokukhokhwa kwakhe kokuqala, futhi noma kunini lapho kukhona ushintsho kumvuzo wakhe. Xhumana nomchwepheshe wezintela zentela ukuze uthole usizo.
Isimo Esingcono
Ungase uqashe unanny ovumelana nemigomo yakho ukuze uthole ukunikezwa okungcono phansi komugqa. Njengoba kunzima njengoba lokhu kuzwakala, kwenzeka. Noma iyiphi inhlangano ingakwazi ukuqeda inkontileka ngakho ugcine engqondweni ukuthi unina omuhle kunzima ukuthola ngakho ugcine owakho ejabule! Uma ungakwazi kuphela ukuhlinzeka isikhathi sesikhathi kanti nanny wakho uthola umndeni owanikeza isikhathi esigcwele, ucabange ukuthi uzohamba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma umntanami ethola umndeni ozokhokha imali eminye yemithwalo yemithwalo yemithwalo embalwa (ingane eyodwa ngokumelene nemisebenzi yakho emibili noma engekho izingubo zokuhlanza, njll), angase aphinde aphinde asebenze. Uma ngabe unina wakho unikezwa ngebhizinisi elingcono, angase akhethe ukuhamba.