Lokho abazali okudingeka bazi mayelana nokuhlukunyezwa ekolishi
Abantu bavame ukukholelwa ukuthi ukuxhashazwa kuyinkinga yobuntwana lapho izingane zigcina ziphelile. Eqinisweni, abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi izingane zabo ngeke zibhekane nokuxhashazwa uma seziqedile esikoleni esiphakeme. Kodwa, ucwaningo olukhula luveza ukuthi izihlukumezi ziyakhula futhi zingena emakolishi ekolishi. Ngisho nabasebenzi abanayo ngaphezu kwesabelo sazo sokuxhaphaza.
Empeleni, ukuxhashazwa kuyinkinga abantu beminyaka yonke okufanele bazimisele ukuyenza. Uma unomfundi esikoleni esiphakeme mayelana nokungena ekolishi, noma omdala omdala kakade ekolishi, nansi amaqiniso amahlanu mayelana nokuxhashazwa okumele ukwazi.
1. Ukuxhashazwa akupheli esikoleni esiphakeme.
Nakuba iningi lokuxhashazwa lihamba esikoleni esiphakathi futhi lixhaswa esikoleni esiphakeme, ucwaningo olusha lubonisa ukuthi ukuxhashazwa kungase kungabi nhlobo. Eqinisweni, uma izihlukumezi zingafundiswanga ukuthatha umthwalo wemisebenzi yazo noma zingaqeqeshwa ngokuxhaphaza abanye , lokhu kuzoba yindlela yokuziphatha kubo ikakhulukazi uma kuthola imiphumela abayifunayo.
Ngenxa yalokho, abazali bezingane zasekolishi badinga ukuxoxisana nezingane zabo ngezindaba zokuxhashaza ngisho nalapho behamba ekolishi. Kufanele futhi baqhubeke nokwakha ukuzethemba , ukuqinisekiswa , amakhono omphakathi kanye namakhono okuqinisekisa ukuze izingane zabo zikwazi ukubhekana ngokuphumelelayo nezindaba zokuxhashaza ekolishi nasemva kokusebenza.
Ukuba nesibindi nokuqina kunengxenye yempi uma kuziwa ekumeni ukuxhaphaza .
2. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-cyberbullying ekolishi kuyanda.
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying kwanda esikoleni. Futhi okuningi kwe-cyberbullying ukuthi ulwazi lwezingane zasekolishi lubhekene nezinkinga zomshado.
Isibonelo, izikhathi eziningi ukuxhaphazwa kwe-cyberbullying kuhlanganisa ukuhleka nokuhleka kwamahemuhemu , ukuhlambalaza i-slut nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi .
Ngokuvamile amantombazane asho ukuthi uzozibandakanya kule ndlela yokuziphatha njengendlela yokunyuka esitelekeni sezenhlalakahle noma ukusongela amanye amantombazane. Futhi bangasebenzisa i-cyberbullying ukugxila ekufuneni kwabo kubafana abanesithakazelo. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, abafana bangabanye abafana nge-cyberbully njengendlela yokubahlazisa futhi bazikhandle ngokwabo. Noma, bangasebenzisa i-cyberbullying ukuze babuyisele emuva kokulahlwa. Eqinisweni, uma abafundi behlanganyela ngokuthumelelana nge- imeyli lokhu kubeka engozini enkulu yokuxhunywa kwe-cyberbullying noma i-slut ekuhlaziyeni lapho ubuhlobo buphela.
3. Ukuxhashazwa kweKolishi kuveza izinselelo eziyingqayizivele.
Ngokungafani nokuhlukunyezwa esikoleni esiphakathi nesikole esiphakeme, abafundi abaningi basekolishi kumele babhekane nokuxhashazwa ngaphandle kokusekelwa komndeni nabangane abaseduzane. Bahlala emakhilomitha amakhilomitha ukusuka ekhaya. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuphunyuka kwesimo sezulu sokuhlukumezeka kungaba yinkinga kakhulu ekolishi ikakhulukazi uma umhlukumezi engumakhelwane noma umlingani we-dorm.
Abafundi beKholeji kumele babhekane nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukukhwaza , okwenzeka nakwamanye amakolishi ekolishi. Ngenkathi abantu abaningi becabanga ukuthi ubuhlobo obuhle kanye nokuhlambalaza kubambe iqhaza ekushuseni, cishe noma yiliphi iqembu lingase libheke amasiko ahlanganisa amaqembu ezemidlalo namanye amaqembu e-campus.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ukhuluma nengane yakho mayelana nezingozi zokukhanga nokuthi ungasabela kanjani emidlalweni yokukhanga.
4. Abafundi bekolishi abahlukunyezwayo bavame ukuzizwa bebodwa futhi bodwa.
Imiphumela yokuxhaphaza iphezulu kunoma ubani othekisiwe. Kodwa ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abafundi bekolishi bangazizwa bebodwa kakhulu futhi behlukaniswe ikakhulukazi uma bengaphansi kweyunivesithi. Wonke umfundi wekolishi udinga umjikelezo wokusekela, kodwa abafundi bekolishi abahlukumezekile basesidingo esikhulu nakakhulu sokusekelwa.
Uma ingane yakho ixhashazwa ekolishi, thatha izinyathelo zokunciphisa imizwa yedwa nesizungu. Ngokwesibonelo, vakashela umfundi wakho uma unakho.
Mkhuthaze ukuba ahlanganyele emisebenzini engenza ukuba azizwe exhumene nabanye abantu. Futhi ukhulume nabachwepheshe be-campus mayelana nokuthola ingane yakho umeluleki. Umngane oyedwa noma ababili bangakwazi ukuhamba isikhathi eside ekunciphiseni umqondo wokuzihlukanisa lapho izisulu zokuhlukunyezwa zingase zihlangane.
5. Abafundi bekolishi be-bullied bavame ukungathuli ngokuhlukumezeka abakutholayo.
Abafundi abaningi basekolishi abahlukunyezwayo akalokothi batshele muntu ukuthi yini abayibhekene nayo. Kukhona izizathu eziningana ezenzele ukuthula kwazo. Okokuqala, izikhathi eziningi izisulu zokuxhashazwa zihlazeka yilokho abakutholayo. Ukukhuluma ngokuhlukunyezwa kudinga ukuba babelane ngemininingwane elulazayo yalokho abanye abantu abakushoyo noma abakwenzayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abafundi bekolishi bangase babe nomuzwa ocindezelayo kunesikoleni esiphakathi noma esikoleni esiphakeme ukuba basabele ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokwabo. Bakholelwa ukuthi manje ukuthi baba abadala, kudingeka bafunde ukusingatha izinkinga ngokwabo. Futhi kuyilapho lokhu kuyiqiniso ngokwezinga elithile, ukuxhashazwa kuyinkimbinkimbi eyinkimbinkimbi evame ukufuna uhlelo lokusekela nokungenelela. Abazali banganikeza usizo nokuqondisisa ikakhulukazi uma ukuhlukunyezwa ababhekana nakho kuhilela izenzo ezingqubuzana nomthetho.
Izwi elivela emndenini we-Verywell
Uma unentsha ehoxisiwe ekolishi ekwindla noma umfundi ovele eseya ekolishi, qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma ngokuxhashazwa njalo. Lalela ukukhomba ukuthi izinto ngeke zihambe kahle bese ubuza imibuzo evulekile. Ukubeka inkhulumomphendvulwano evulekile nomfundi wakho wekolishi kungenye yezinyathelo zokuqala zokubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa kwekolishi.
> "Ukuhlukunyezwa Kokuxhashazwa Phakathi Kwabafundi BaseKholeji," I-US National Library Of Medicine, Izikhungo Zikazwelonke Zempilo, 2013. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3861792/ (March 2018)