Ngomhla ka-Okthoba 1, 2018 yiSuku lwe-Blue Shirt Day World of Bullying Prevention
Kuyinto eyaziwa ukuthi ukuxhashazwa kuyinkinga ebuntwaneni kanye neminyaka yentsha yezingane eziningi. Kube nezimo eziningi zezingane kanye nentsha eyazibulala ngenxa yokuphelelwa ithemba ngenxa yokuzikhethela nokuxhashazwa ngezizathu eziningi. Ukuhlukunyezwa Ngokwehlukumeza kungenye yezinhlangano ezisebenza emikhankaso yokulwa nokuxhashazwa, egxile ezinganeni esikoleni.
Ukuxhashazwa akupheli lapho ingane isencane. Abafundi beKolishi, abantu abadala, ngisho nabantu abadala asebekhulile bangase babe yisisulu sokuxhashazwa, ikakhulukazi ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying. Asikho isizathu sokuthi noma ubani kufanele akhuthazele lolu hlobo lokuziphatha okubi, okulimazayo. Uma ngabe ingane yakho - noma yobudala bekolishi noma ezweni elisebenzayo - libhekene nokuhlukunyezwa okuqhubekayo nokuxhashazwa, kunezinyathelo zokuthatha le mithi.
Okushiwo Abazali
Uma uthola ukuthi umdala wakho osemusha uhlaselwe:
- Thola ulwazi olunembile nolwazi olubanzi mayelana nokuthi yini abaxhashazayo abakwenzayo - lokhu kuhlanganisa izinsuku, izikhathi, izindawo, izenzo, njll. Dweba konke. Qinisekisa ukuthi uthatha ama-skrini wokuhlaselwa kwezindaba zenhlalo uma kunokwenzeka, futhi uthole ulwazi loxhumana naye loxhumene nabo, kufaka phakathi amaphrofayela wezindaba zenhlalo.
- Uma ngabe ingane yakho yasekolishi isongelwe umuntu noma inthanethi, thintana nomthetho.
- Thola ikhophi yenqubomgomo yokulwa nokuxhashaza yasekolishi ukuze unqume ukuthi umhlukumezi wephule inqubomgomo yesikole.
- Xoxa nomntanakho ukuthi bafuna kanjani ukusingatha ukuhlukunyezwa. Bazise ukuthi ukhona kubo futhi banqume uma befuna usizo lwakho. Ungangabazi ukuhlola ingane yakho uma ukhathazekile ngesimo sabo sengqondo, noma ukufinyelela ekuphathweni kwesikole. Ungummeli omuhle wengane yakho esimweni esibucayi.
Izimpawu zokuxwayisa ukuthi ingane yakho ixhashazwa:
- Kubonakala sengathi besaba ukuya emakilasini noma ukuhlanganyela emisebenzini ehleliwe noma amaqembu ahambisana neontanga
- Ulahlekile amakilasi
- Unezinguquko ezingachaziwe emabangeni abo
- Yena ngokuzumayo uyakhathazeka futhi ushintshe ekuzithembeni kwabo
Njengomzali, kubalulekile ukuthi:
- Yisho engxoxweni oye wafunda okuningi ngokuxhaphazwa nokuxhaphazwa kwe-inthanethi kumakholeji njengokungathi bayakwazi umuntu ekolishi okungenzeka ukuthi kwenzeke.
- Qinisekisa ingane yakho ukuthi uyayithanda nokuthi ukuhlukunyezwa akuyona iphutha labo nokuthi uzobasiza.
Ngokuvula ingxoxo mayelana nokuxhashazwa nomuntu omdala osemusha, uzomnika ithuba lokuxoxa ngalokho okwenzekile empilweni yakhe. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali baqaphele ukuthi lokhu kungaba yinto enamahloni futhi engakhululekile kunoma yimuphi umuntu omdala osemusha ukuba avume, kodwa ukukhuluma ngakho kubalulekile ukulungisa inkinga ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke into emangalisayo.
Yiziphi izintsha ezincane eKolishi Ongakwenza
Yini ongayenza uma ubona izimo zokuxhashazwa:
- Ungesabi ukubika - tshela umeluleki wesikole noma umeluleki ohlalayo futhi uqiniseke ukuthi wabelana ngemininingwane yalokho okwenzekile.
- Yisekela umuntu ohlukunyezwayo. Yiba umngane, uhlale nabo emakilasi, futhi ubacele ukuba bahlanganyele kunoma yikuphi imisebenzi ye-campus. Ukuba ngumngane oqondayo nokusekela kungasho okuningi.
- Uma uzizwa uphephile futhi ukhululekile, ungamelana nomuntu ohlukunyezayo - tshela ohlukumezayo ukuthi lokho abakwenzayo kuwukuthi akulungile futhi akulungile. Kodwa-ke, ungamcasuli umuntu ongase akhishwe kuwe ngenxa yezenzo zakho. Ungakwazi njalo ukuya eziphathimandla ku-campus ukuze uthole usizo esikhundleni sokuphatha lesi simo ngokwakho.
Ukwandisa ngendlela esekelayo futhi engekho ekwahluleleni kuyokwenza lowo muntu ahlukumeze ithuba lokuhlanganyela ukukhathazeka nokwesaba ngesimo sabo. Nakuba kungase kubonakale kungakhululekile ukubandakanyeka, ukusiza umuntu ohlukunyezwayo kuyinto efanele ukuyenza, ngisho noma nje kumhambisa naye ehhovisi eliluleka ekolishi.
- Yazi ukuthi akuyona iphutha lakho ngoba akekho ofanelwe ukuhlukunyezwa!
- Ungalwi ngokumelene no-bully. Ngeke kwenze izinto zibe ngcono futhi zingakufaka enkingeni.
- Ungalokothi ugcine iqiniso lokuthi uyahlukunyezwa - tshela umngane noma umeluleki ohlala khona. Asikho isidingo sokungakhathazeki ngokuvuma ukuthi othile uxosha wena - nguyena ohlukumezayo ongalungile, hhayi wena.
- Xhumana nesikole ngesikhathi sokusebenza futhi uhlele i-aphoyintimenti noma ushayele umnyango ophethe izindaba zezingane.
- Chaza imininingwane, hhayi ku-rant angry, kodwa njengokungathi utshela umngane ukuthi kwenzekani.
- Uma uhlangana nelungu lokuphatha esikoleni, tshela indaba yakho bese ucela usizo. Qiniseka ukuthi ulandisa amaqiniso futhi ushiye imizwelo yakho. Uma uzizwa ukuthi umhlukumezi uphule inqubomgomo ye-anti-bullying yesikole, yibeke lokhu ngokuzithoba engxoxweni. Uma uzizwa ukhululekile ukuletha umngane noma ukukhuthaza kuwe noma yimuphi umhlangano lapho uzoxoxa khona ngesimo sakho, ungangabazi ukucela lokhu kusuka ekuphathweni. Unelungelo lokuzizwa uphephile phakathi nalezi zingxoxo.
- Ungaphumi amakilasi noma noma yikuphi ukugwema noma yibaphi abangane noma amaqembu abafundi ongase ube nawo - unelungelo elikhulu lokuba khona njengalowo omunye umuntu.
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzizwa uzibi kangakanani, uzilimaza noma ucabanga ngokuzibulala akuyona impendulo. Uma ikolishi lakho lineqembu lokufundisa / iqembu elilalelayo noma isikhungo sokululekwa, khuluma nabo bese ucela usizo.
- Uma ufaka isivumelwano sobuzalwane noma inhlanhla, qiniseka ukuthi noma yimiphi imisebenzi yokuqothula uzizwa uphephile. Uma bengakwenzi, khuluma nomeluleki ohlala khona.
- Abaholi bezingane zaseKholeji bangaphumelela ekunciphiseni ukungaqiniseki okungashukumisa ukuziphatha okuhlukumezayo ekolishi nase-cyberbullying ekolishi. Bangakwazi ukwenza izinhlelo zokufaka abafundi abaningi, njengama-freshman orientation, nokwenza abafundi bazi imisebenzi nemiklamo ehlukahlukene ekolishi. Lezi zenzo zigcina abafundi bemakolishi bematasa abangaholela ekuvimbeleni ukuxhashazwa ekolishi.
NgoMsombuluko wokuqala wezingane zonke zika-Okthoba, intsha nabantu abadala bangabamba iqhaza kwiSUKU LOMHLABA WESUKU LOMHLABA WESUKU LOKUPHILA UKUVIKELA ngokugqoka i-BLUE SHIRT.
Yisikhathi lapho wonke umuntu angagqoka ihembe elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka futhi ajoyine ubumbano ukuyeka ukuxhaphazwa nokuxhaphaza nge-intanethi ngoMsombuluko wokuqala wango-Okthoba.