Siza Gcina Izingane Zingeke Zibe Ngama-Cyberbullies
Iningi lezingane lichitha isikhathi esiningi ku-intanethi. Ngenxa yalokho, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali badinga ukufundisa izingane zabo ukuthi baziphathe kanjani futhi baphathe abanye ngenkathi bexhumekile ku-intanethi. Ukwehluleka ukwenza kanjalo, kungabangela izingane ukuba zisebenzise kabi ubuchwepheshe, zihlukumeze abanye noma zibeke engozini yokuxhunywa kwe-cyberbullying.
Akekho umzali ofuna ukuthola ukuthi ingane yakhe i- cyberbullying abanye futhi abafuni ukufunda ukuthi ingane yabo ihlukunyezwa.
Kodwa ukuvimbela i-cyberbullying kudinga okungaphezu nje kokufundisa izingane ukuba zibe mnandi kwi-intanethi.
Esikhundleni salokho, abazali kudingeka babe nezingxoxo ezivamile nezingane zabo ngokuphepha kwe-intanethi , i- cyberbullying ne-digital. Eqinisweni, ukuhlomisa izingane ezinamakhono e-digital etiquette kungenza indlela ende ekuvimbeleni ukuba babe yi-cyberbullies. Kungabasiza nokuba balondoloze idumela elihle le-intanethi. Khumbula, izingane zingase zikwazi ukuziphatha ngendlela efanele ku-intanethi uma zikwazi okulindeleke kuzo.
Nazi izinto eziyisihlanu eziphezulu zokufundisa izingane zakho mayelana ne-digital etiquette.
Phatha Abanye Indlela Ofuna Ukuphathwa Ngayo
Cishe wonke umuntu uyazi "i-golden rule". Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izingane zidinga ukukhunjuzwa ukubaluleka kwemikhuba emihle, ngisho naku-intanethi. Khumbuza ukuthi kungcono ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuxoxa ngezimpikiswano ezibucayi noma ezingase zenzeke kalula kumuntu ngokuqondile kunokuthumela okuthile ku-inthanethi noma ukuthumela i-imeyili elimazayo.
Futhi, xoxani ukuthi ubungani obuhle bubukeka kanjani futhi qiniseka ukuthi bayazi ukuthi lokhu kusebenza ekukhulumisaneni kwe-intanethi kanye.
Gcina Imibiko Yakho Nezikhalazo Zikahle Futhi Ziyiqiniso
Khuthaza izingane ukuba zibheke imilayezo yazo kanye nokuthunyelwe ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi abangekho amahloni, ababi noma abahlukumezayo. Kufanele futhi bagweme ukuthumela noma yini engelona iqiniso njengamahemuhemu noma inhlebo .
Izingane kufanele zikwazi ukuthi yikuphi ukuqhutshwa kwe-cyberbullying nokuthi akufanele nanini zihlanganyele kulolo hlobo lokuziphatha. Okwamanje, uma behlukunyezwa, qiniseka ukuthi bayakwazi ukusabela ekuqhubeni i-cyberbullying .
Hlola kabili imiyalezo yakho ngaphambi kokuthi uthumele ukuthumela
Ukufundisa izingane ukuba zinciphise futhi zicabange ngokuthunyelwe kwazo, imibono, imibhalo, kanye ne-imeyili kubalulekile. Kudingeka baqaphele ukuthi uma sebecindezela ukuthumela, ayikho indlela yokubuyisela amagama abo. Futhi noma ngabe bayisusa kamuva, kusengakwazi ukuhlala khona ukuze abanye babone ikakhulukazi uma othile ethatha isithombe-skrini sokuthunyelwe kwabo. Bakhuthaze ukuba bafunde imilayezo yabo, imibono, kanye nokuthunyelwe futhi ukuze babone ukuthi bangachazwa ngendlela engafanele noma uma bevela emangcwabeni.
Izingane nazo kudingeka ziqaphele ukuthi ukuzijabulisa online kuyinto enzima kakhulu ukuyenza. Umuntu ngomunye umkhawulo angeke abone ubuso babo obusweni noma azwe izwi labo lezwi. Ngezinye izikhathi umlayezo ohloselwe ukuhlekisa awuveli ngaleyo ndlela nhlobo. Njengomthetho jikelele, kufanele bagweme ukwenza amahlaya ku-intanethi.
Gcina izimfihlo zabangane bakho
Izwe lanamuhla ligcwele izithombe, imibhalo namavidiyo angathunyelwa, akopishwe, athunyelwe, alandwe futhi ashintshwe endabeni yemizuzu. Khuthaza izingane zakho ukuthi zizibuze ukuthi zizozizwa kanjani uma esinye sezikhathi zabo ezihlazo kakhulu siboniswa ukuze umhlaba ubone.
Khumbuza izingane zakho ukuthi zicabange ngalokho okuzozithumela. Kufanele bazibuze imibuzo elandelayo: Ingabe abangane bami bangitshele lokhu ngokuqiniseka? Ingabe izobahlazisa? Ingabe ukwabelana ngalolu lwazi kuyonqanda ubumfihlo babo noma kuvulele umdlalo? Uma bephendula yebo kunoma yimuphi wale mibuzo, kufanele bahlale bekwaziswa ngokwabo. Ngempela, yilokho umngane omuhle ongakwenza. Omunye umthetho omuhle wesithupha ukuhlala ucela imvume ngaphambi kokuthumela isithombe somuntu.
Gwema i-Digital Drama
Imibiko esheshayo, ukuthumela imiyalezo, nokuthumela amazwana ku-intanethi yiwo wonke ukuxhumana "okwamanje". Lokhu kuyingxenye yokukhanga izingane ngoba kubenza baxhumane nabangane uma bengenakho muntu.
Kodwa ukufunda ukuphuma ingxoxo lapho izinto zithola ukuhlukumezeka noma okushoyo kubalulekile.
Ukwenza lokho, izingane zingase zisayine imiyalezo esheshayo, ingaphenduli ematheksthini angenangqondo, noma yeka ukuthumela amazwana ku-Facebook noma ku-Instagram. Izingane zidinga ukuqaphela ukuthi akukho okuhle okuzovela ngokuthumela impendulo embi noma ukwenza amazwana angalungile. Kungcono ukuphuma engxoxweni futhi uma kunesidingo, xoxani ngesimo ngokwayo.
Khumbula, ukufundisa izingane indlela yokuxhumana inthanethi kuyinkqubo eqhubekayo hhayi nje ingxoxo yesikhathi esisodwa. Kuhilela okungaphezulu nje kokufaka uhlu lwemithetho. Ukufundisa i-digital etiquette kudinga abazali ukuba bahlanganyele nezingane zabo njalo futhi basebenzise izimo zangempela zokuphila njengokuhlangenwe nakho kokufunda.