Uma kuziwa ekuphepheni kwe-inthanethi kubantwana , isici esisodwa esibalulekile okufanele sibhekiswe kuzo amasayithi omphakathi wezokuxhumana.
Izingosi zezokuxhumana ezifana ne-Facebook kungaba yindlela enhle yokuba izingane zihlanganyele. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuthi abazali baqaphele imiphumela emibi kanye nezingozi zokuba kumasayithi anjalo. Nazi ezinye izeluleko okufanele uzikhumbule mayelana nendlela yokugcina izingane ziphephile kumasayithi omphakathi wezokuxhumana.
Cabanga nge-intanethi njenge-Big, Space Open.
Ngeke uphonsa ingane yakho endaweni enkulu yomphakathi njengemallini ngosuku futhi ulindele ukuthi wonke umuntu ahlangane naye ukuze amphathe ngomusa futhi avikele okuthandayo, akunjalo? Lokho ukufanekisa okuhle okwenzekayo lapho ingane ingena ku-intanethi ingaqinisekisiwe. Qinisekisa ukuthi uhlale uqaphele kahle ukuthi ngubani okhuluma naye futhi nini.
Yazi ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuxhashazwa.
Nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi izingane eziningi eziku-intanethi zizosebenzisana kahle nabangane nabangane, ikakhulukazi, iqiniso lokuthi ukuxhashazwa -kuthi kuyi-intanethi futhi kuyikho-kuyiqiniso phakathi kwezingane. Okubalulekile: Uma unethuba elingcono lokuxhumana nabantu, unethuba elingaphezulu lokulahlwa noma ukuxhashazwa yiontanga. Qaphela ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba yisisulu sokuxhashazwa, futhi uzifundise ngokuxhashazwa esikoleni .
Yazi Ngokuthile Okuthiwa Ukucindezeleka Kwe-Facebook.
Abacwaningi bathi ukubuka ezithombeni ze-Instagram noma ze-Facebook zezenzakalo ezijabulisayo ekuphileni kwabanye kungenza izingane ezithile zibe nokuzethemba okubi nakakhulu.
Lokhu kwenza umqondo othile uma ucabanga ukuthi abantu bavame ukuthumela izindaba ezijabulisayo nezithombe zabo ngokwabo emacimbini kuma-social media sites.
Qinisekisa ukuthi uchazela ingane yakho ukuthi lokho akubonayo kumasayithi omphakathi wezokuxhumana akusho neze ukuthi yini ngempela impilo yangempela yansuku zonke yomuntu.
Abantu abakwazi ukuthumela izindaba mayelana nokuhluleka noma amaphutha noma izikhathi lapho bengaboni kahle ngabo. Izithombe zabantu abakhanyayo, abajabulayo kumasayithi anjalo batshela ingxenye encane yendaba enkulu kakhulu.
Ungaphumeleli Ukucindezela Kontanga Kwabanye Abazali.
Ngesikhathi izingosi zokuxhumana nabantu ezifana ne- Facebook zivame ukuba nezidingo zeminyaka yobudala kubasebenzisi (i-Facebook idinga ukuthi abasebenzisi babe okungenani iminyaka engu-13), iqiniso liwukuthi izingane eziningi zincane kunalokho ezikulezi zingosi. Olunye ucwaningo olwenziwa yi-Consumer Reports lathola ukuthi izingane eziningi ezingaba yizigidi ezingu-7.5 ku-Facebook zingaphansi kuka-13, kanti izigidi ezingu-5 zincane ezineminyaka engu-10 noma ngaphansi. Ukuze kuhlanganiswe le nkinga, amaphesenti angu-18 kuphela abazali ayekade ethanda izingane zabo, okuyindlela ephumelelayo yokuqapha umsebenzi wezokuxhumana womphakathi wezingane.
Umfundi wakho wesikole angafika ekhaya bese ecela ukuthi abe ku-Facebook, Instagram, noma ku-Snapchat ngoba bonke abangane bakhe bayakuyo. Ekugcineni, isinqumo senziwa kubazali. Kodwa uma bekhetha ukuvumela ingane yabo yokufunda esikoleni samabanga aphansi ukuba ahambe kwi-social media site njenge-Facebook, kunezinye izinto okufanele zizikhumbule.
Okokuqala, ukuvumela izingane ukuba ziqambe amanga mayelana nobudala bazo ukuze zijoyine isayithi yezokuxhumana zenhlalo kusho ukuthi uqamba amanga, futhi ubonise ingane yakho ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ilungile ukukhuluma amanga.
Okwesibili, uma unquma ukuvumela ingane yakho ibe nephrofayela kusayithi elinjalo, kufanele uqaphele imisebenzi yakhe eduze futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ungumngane wayo futhi unayo i-akhawunti yakhe ye-imeyili.
Setha isisekelo esiqinile seTrust kanye no-Communication.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi ingaya kuwe ngenkinga nokuthi uzolalela kunoma yiziphi izinkinga ezingase zibe nayo ngaphandle kokwesaba ukulahlekelwa uthando noma uthando lwakho. Uma uba ingane yakho inomuzwa wokuthi angayethemba futhi ayixolele, cishe uzokhuluma nawe nganoma yiziphi izinkinga.