Amathiphu ekukhuliseni izingane ezinomusa, ezinomzwelo nezokuhlukumezeka
Akukho okubi kunokuba uthole ucingo oluvela kumfundisi noma umqondisi obonisa ukuthi ingane yakho ixhaphaza ezinye izingane esikoleni . Naphezu kwakho konke okusemandleni akho okubeletha, ingane yakho inqume ukuthi ukulawula, ukusabisa nokuhlukumeza abanye kumsiza ukuba athole lokho akufunayo. Kungase kubonakale kushaqisayo futhi kungenakulinganiswa ukuthi ingane oyithandayo futhi uyayithanda iyisebenzise ukuxhaphaza abanye.
Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi izihlukumezi zifika kuzo zonke izinhlobo nobukhulu.
Kukhona ukungazi ukuthi izihlukumezi zinkulu kangakanani, izingane ezihlukumezayo ezivela eceleni okungahambi kahle kwamathrekhi. Noma yimuphi umntwana uyakwazi ukuxhaphaza abanye, ngisho nalabo bantwana abangenazo izinkinga . Kodwa, kunezinye izinto ongayenza ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ingane yakho ithatha abanye ngenhlonipho nangomusa. Nazi izindlela eziyisishiyagalombili ongavimbela ingane yakho ukuba ingabe iyisihlukumezi.
Thatha isithakazelo ezinganeni zakho .
Lokhu kubonakala kulula, kodwa abazali abaningi abahlanganyeli empilweni yengane yabo. Esikhundleni salokho, basebenzisa isikhathi esiningi sokuqondisa nokulungisa kunalokho abakwenzayo nokulalela izingane zabo. Eqinisweni, ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi kunezici eziningi ezivikelayo phakathi kwabazali ababelana ngemibono nezingane zabo kunabantwana abazizwa behlukunyezwa yizingane zabo njalo. Ngakho-ke thatha isikhathi sokuthola ukuthi ubani ohlukile kubantwana bakho.
Fundisa ingane yakho ukuhlonipha abanye .
Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi bonke abantu bahlukile nokuthi wonke umuntu kufanele aphathwe ngomusa.
Futhi, faka okulindelekile okucacile mayelana nendlela yokuphatha abantu, ikakhulukazi labo abahluke ngendlela ethile. Qinisekisa ukuthi izingane zakho ziyazi ukuthi ngisho noma zingathandi umuntu, lokhu akubaniki ilungelo lokuba nesisindo. Wonke umuntu ufanelwe ukuphathwa kahle.
Unganaki ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane zakubo .
Nakuba kuvamile ukuba izingane zakini ziphikisana futhi zihlalisane, ukuziphatha okungapheli okushoyo, kokubili amazwi nezomzimba, akufanele neze kunganakwa.
Izikhathi eziningi, izingane ezibandakanya ukuxhashazwa kwezingane zakini zizoxhaphaza abanye esikoleni. Ngezinye izikhathi, umntakwethu ongeyena ohlukumezayo udlulisela lokho ukuziphatha kwezinye izingane esikoleni. Ngisho noma ukuhlukumezeka kukhawulelwe ekhaya, ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana kufanele kuhanjiswe ngoba kunemiphumela ebalulekile.
Yazi abangane bakho .
Mema abangane bengane yakho endlini yakho noma bameme ukuba bahlanganyele imicimbi nomndeni wakho. Ngisho nokunikela nge-carpool ngezikhathi ezithile. Uyomangala ukuthi uzofunda ngani ngezingane zakho, abangane babo nesikole esivela esihlalweni sangaphambili semoto yakho. Futhi uma ingane yakho iqala ubungane nomuntu ohlukumezayo noma intombazane enentombazane , qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nengane yakho ngalokho okuhloniphekayo nomusa futhi okungekho. Kodwa qaphela ngokufaka ukulawula okukhulu kakhulu ekukhethweni kwengane yakho ngoba kungabuyisa. Zama ukuqondisa ingane yakho esikhundleni sokwenza izidingo. Okwamanje, hlala amehlo ekuziphatheni okushiwo. Khumbula, abangane bezingane zakho bavame ukuthonya elikhulu ekuziphatheni kwabo nokucindezela kontanga kuyinamandla kakhulu uma kuziwa ekuhlukunyezweni.
Khuluma nezingane zakho mayelana nokuxhashazwa .
Ukuxhumana okuhambisanayo kuyisihluthulelo sokubeletha okuhle futhi kubaluleke kakhulu uma kuziwa ekuvimbeleni ukuxhaphazwa .
Khumbula, wena isikebhe usivikela izingane zakho kuzo zonke izinyathelo ezinonya, kodwa ungazilungiselela izimo ezinzima ngokukhuluma nabo ngokuxhashazwa. Qiniseka ukuthi izingane zakho ziyazi ukuthi ukuphila kugcwele ukungavumelani. Kodwa qinisekisa ukuthi bayakwazi ukusingatha lezi zimo ngokukhiqiza. Ukushaya, ukubiza amagama nokubeka icala akukaze kube izimpendulo.
Uzwela .
Abaningi abahlukunyezwayo abanandaba. Sebenza nezingane zakho ukubona ukuthi ukuziphatha kwabo kuthinta kanjani abanye. Qiniseka ukuthi ubuza ingane yakho ukuthi uzozizwa kanjani esimweni esifanayo. Futhi, phawula uma ubona abanye abantu belimaza futhi bekhuthaza ingane yakho ukuba inikeze usizo noma usizo ngandlela-thile.
Enye indlela yokuthuthukisa uzwela ukusiza inqubo yengane yakho. Izikhathi eziningi, ukuqonda indlela abanye abazizwa ngayo kuqala ngokukwazi ukuthi uzizwa kanjani kuqala. Uma ingane yakho ingakwazi ukubona imizwa yakhe, iyohlomele kangcono ukuqonda imizwa yabanye.
Yazi izimpawu zokuxhashazwa .
Akukhona kuphela ukubaluleka ukwazi izimpawu zokuxhashazwa ukuvimbela ingane yakho ekuhlukumezeni abanye kodwa, kubalulekile futhi empilweni yakho kanye nokuphepha kwengane yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zixhaphaza abanye ngoba nazo zihlukunyezwa. Qiniseka ukuthi uyazi ukuthi ungamisa kanjani umjikelezo wesisulu uma uthola ingane yakho kulesi simo.
Qedela ukuziphatha kokuxhashaza ngokushesha .
Uma uthola ingane yakho ingumhlukumezi noma ingane yakho i-cyberbully , thatha izinyathelo zokuqeda ukuziphatha ngesikhathi esisodwa. Qiniseka ukuthi uthatha isinyathelo esisheshayo nemiphumela efanele. Futhi uma ukuxhashazwa kubikwa esikoleni, sebenze nabaphathi ukuphoqelela isinyathelo sokuqondiswa kwezigwegwe ingane yakho eyamukelayo. Njengoba kunzima, kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zakho zithole imiphumela yokuziphatha kabi. Ungazami ukuwafihla noma ngeke afunde kusuka kulolu phiko.