Thola Okujwayelekile Ngalezi Zisekelo Eziyisisekelo Zokuphepha Kwezingane
Iyini impendulo yakho yokuqala uma uthola ukuthi ingane yakho ilahlekile?
Uma ufana nabazali abaningi, uzizwa usabeka ngokushesha, njengoba ucabanga izinto eziyikhulu nezodwa ezimbi ezingase zenzeke kumntanakho. Kubalulekile ukuhlala uzolile nakuba, njengalokho okwenza kuqala kungasho ukuthi umehluko phakathi kokuthi ungaba nokuphela okujabulisayo noma cha.
Ngaphezu kokucela usizo, into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukuhlola izindawo ezungeze nasezindaweni ezizungeze ikhaya lakho ezibeka ingozi enkulu kunazo zonke ezinganeni yakho. Khumbula ukuthi ingane yakho ingangena emanzini ambalwa nje noma emaminithini echibini noma ngasemgodini, ngakho-ke kufanele kube lapho uhlola khona kuqala, kunokuba ngaphansi kwemibhede noma ekamelweni lokungena kwamakamelo.
Uma ingane yakho encane ifihle indawo ethile ngaphakathi endlini, cishe izobe ilungile, ngisho noma ungamtholi imizuzu engu-15 noma engu-20, nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke ihlale isikhathi eside esihlalweni semoto yakho eshisayo , esibhebheni esishisayo, noma emgwaqweni omatasa.
Uma Ingane Yakho Ingekho Ekhaya
Ngemuva kokucela usizo, kuhlanganise nabanye abadala endlini yakho noma umakhelwane oseduze ongasiza ekusesheni, kufanele ngokushesha kakhulu:
- hlola izindawo eziyingozi, ezingafaka phakathi:
- echibini, isibhubhe esishisayo, echibini, emfudlaneni, echibini, noma eminye imithi yamanzi eseduze
- izimoto eziseduze, kuhlanganise neziqu zemoto
- isiqandisini esidala, ngaphakathi lapho izingane zingabanjwa khona
- umgwaqo onomgwaqo omkhulu
- bheka ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, ngaphansi kwemibhede, nanoma iyiphi enye indawo ingane yakho ethanda ukuyifihla
- hlola omakhelwane ukuthi ingane yakho ivame ukuvakashelwa noma yokudlala nayo
Futhi ngenkathi uqhubeka ubheka izindawo ezinobungozi eziphezulu, ake umuntu ahlole izindawo eziseduze 'ezijabulisayo,' kufaka phakathi izindawo zokudlala.
Uma Ingane Yakho Ilahlekile Endaweni Yomphakathi
Izinto zifana kakhulu uma ingane yakho ilahlekile endaweni yomphakathi, nakuba kungase kube lula ukuthola usizo uma usendaweni enobungane, njenge-esitolo, i-zoo, noma ipaki yokuzijabulisa.
Buza isisebenzi esiseduze usizo, ngubani ongakwazi ukwazisa othile ngokuphepha noma kumphathi futhi akhiphe i-Code Adam.
Kuye lapho ukhona futhi uma kukhona izindawo ezinobungozi ezikude, izinyathelo zakho ezilandelayo kungenzeka ukuthi:
- hlola noma iyiphi yalezo zindawo eziyingozi, kuhlanganise nanoma yiziphi izidumbu zamanzi
- iya endaweni yokuhlangana ekhethiwe uma unayo
- shayela umthetho wendawo ukuze uthole usizo olwengeziwe uma ungakabi khona
Nakuba kusabisa lapho ingane ingekho, khumbula ukuthi izibalo zibonisa ukuthi "amaphesenti angu-99.8 wezingane abalahlekile abuyele ekhaya."
Uma Ingane Yakho Isasekho
Uma usengakwazi ukuthola ingane yakho ngemuva kokusesha okusheshayo, kufanele ushayele i-ejensi yakho yokuphoqelela umthetho wendawo ukuze uthole usizo olwengeziwe nokucela ukuthi:
- khipha i-Alber Alert
- faka ingane yakho eFisini Lwabantu Lwabantu Abangenayo Ulwazi Lwabantu Abangenacala
- faka umbiko wokuba "ubheke"
Kumele futhi ushayele Isikhungo Sikazwelonke Sezingane Ezingekho Nokuxhashazwa ngo-1-800-THE-LOST (1-800-843-5678) ukuze uthole usizo olwengeziwe kanye nezeluleko.
Umhlahlandlela Wokusinda Emndenini ovela e-US Dept of Justice ungomunye umthombo omuhle kubazali futhi ungabasiza ukuthi bazi ukuthi benzeni futhi balindeni, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwamahora angu-48 okuqala abathola ukuthi ingane yabo ilahlekile.
Khumbula ukuthi akudingeki ulinde amahora angu-24 nanoma yisiphi ubude besikhathi uma ingane yakho ilahlekile, noma ngabe ingumfana osekhulile olahlekile. Ungalinda isikhathi eside ukubika ingane yakho elahlekile ekusebenzisweni komthetho. Abantu abaningi abafuna ingane yakho, ikakhulukazi ochwepheshe, bangcono.
Ukugcina ithrekhi yezingane zakho
Ngenhlanhla, eziningi 'izingane ezilahlekile' ziphela 'zalahleka' imizuzu embalwa futhi akukho ukuphela okubuhlungu njengathi ngezinye izikhathi sibona ezindabeni. Noma kunjalo, ngoba imiphumela ingaba yingozi kangaka, abazali kufanele bathathe izinyathelo zokuqinisekisa ukuthi izingane zabo ngeke zibalekele futhi zilahleke futhi kulula ukuphinde ziphinde zihlangane uma zenza.
Lokhu kungafaka, kepha akukhawulelwe ku:
- Ukuvimbela ingane yakho ekhaya ukuze izingane zakho ezincane zingakwazi ukuzitholela ngaphandle. Njengoba kubalulekile, qinisekisa ukuthi yikuphi ikhaya ovakashelayo elingenakunyulwa ingane, ngaphandle kwalokho gcina iso elisondelene kakhulu nezingane zakho.
- Yiba 'umlindi' okhethwe ingane ngayinye encane, ikakhulukazi emacimbini, lapho labo bengaba izingane eziningi ezigijima nxazonke futhi abantu abaningi beza bephuma endlini. Umlindi noma u-Buddy angase abe nomqondo omuhle ematasa, ezindaweni zomphakathi.
- Yazi ukuthi iziphi izindawo ezinobungozi ezikude zingaphakathi nasemakhaya wakho ukuze wazi ukuthi ungabheka kuphi uma ingane yakho ilahlekile.
- Yiba nesithombe samuva somntanakho ongasinikeza ukuphoqelelwa komthetho ukusiza ekusesheni uma lokho kuyadingeka.
- Fundisa izingane zakho igama lakho eligcwele, inombolo yocingo, nezinamba ezimbalwa ezihlukile uma kungenzeka, nekheli lakho. Abaningi bangafunda okungenani inombolo yabo yefoni ngenkathi beneminyaka emine noma emihlanu ubudala. Uma kungenjalo, cabangela ukubanikeza ithegi yokuphepha noma isongo ngalelo lwazi uma usendaweni yomphakathi ematasa.
- Khetha indawo yomhlangano ekhethiwe noma nini lapho ukhona emphakathini nezingane zakho uma uhlukaniswa.
Uma unomntwana we-autistic, okungenzeka ukuthi ujwayele ukuzulazula, ukuba necebo lokumgcina elondekile kubaluleke nakakhulu. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi cishe isigamu sezingane ezine-autism zingabonakali ngokungenhloso "engozini engaba khona ngokushiya indawo ephephile, ephephile noma ukunakekelwa komuntu onomthwalo wemfanelo."
Okufanele Ukwenze Uma Ingane Yakho Ilahlekile Noma Ilahlekile
Uma ngabe ingane yakho ilahlekile noma ilahlekile, shayela usizo bese uhlola izindawo ezibeka ingozi enkulu kumntanakho kuqala, ikakhulukazi noma yiziphi izidumbu zamanzi (amachibi, amachibi, namachibi, njll) nokuvula izimoto.
> Imithombo:
> Anderson, uConnie et al. Isimo kanye nomthelela womndeni wokuHlelwa kwabantwana abane-Autism Spectrum Disorders. I-Pediatrics Umqulu 130, Inombolo 5, Novemba 2012