Ayikho intukuthelo yabachwepheshe bokuthuthukiswa kwengane, kodwa akukho nje ukuvumelanisa ngalokho okushiwo ingane encane . Ngokungafani nemigomo enjengokuthi "usana," noma " osemusha ," leli gama alikho incazelo ephelele, evumelanisiwe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi, cishe zonke izincwadi, iwebhusayithi, kanye nesethulo mayelana nokuthuthukiswa kwentsha kwasekuqaleni kufaka igama elithi "encane" futhi lithatha ukuqonda kwamasiko ukuthi lisho ukuthini igama.
Imvelaphi Yegama 'Umfana'
Izingane ezincane zivela endleleni izingane ezihamba ngayo kuqala, okuqala ukungahlali kahle futhi kufana ne "toddle" kunokuhamba kwangempela. Njengoba kunikezwe lokhu, abanye abantu bachaza ingane encane njengosana olwazi ukuhamba. Yiqiniso, ngokuvamile izingane zikhula ngezinyanga ezehlukene, ezinye zingakapheli unyaka ongu-1 ubudala kanti ezinye zihlala isikhathi eside ngemva kweminyaka yobudala 2. Abantwana abaningi basheshe bakwazi ukuthola ikhono lokuhamba nokusebenza kahle, kanti abanye bathatha isikhathi eside ukuze bathole amakhono amakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ochwepheshe banezikhathi ezahlukene, futhi ngezinye izikhathi eziphikisanayo, mayelana nokuthi izingane ezincane ziqala nini futhi ziphela nini.
Ukuchaza i-Term 'Todling'
Incwadi yase-American Academy of Pediatrics, "Ukunakekela Ingane Yakho Neyengane," ikhombisa ukuthi ukukhula komntwana kuqala ngomnyaka wesibili wokuphila, emva kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala.
"Ingane yakho ingena ngonyaka wakhe wesibili bese iba ingane encane, iqhuma ngamandla, iqala ukuhamba, ngisho ikhuluma kancane," kusho le ncwadi.
"Ukunakekela Ingane Yakho" kubhala ukuthi izingane ezincane zihlanganisa izingane ezineminyaka engama-2 no-3 ubudala.
"Nakuba izinga lokukhula komntanakho lizophuza phakathi kokuzalwa kwakhe kwesibili nelesithathu, nokho uzoqhubeka nokuguqulwa kwakhe ngokomzimba kusuka kwengane kuya kwengane," kusho i-American Academy of Pediatrics.
Lapho uneminyaka engu-3 ubudala, le ncwadi ithi, ingane encane "ayiseyona encane." Esikhundleni salokho, ingane yalesi sizukulwane ibhekwa njengengane yasenkulisa, nakuba izingane ezingaphansi kwezingu-3 zivame ukuya esikoleni samabanga asencane (futhi izingane eziningi azikaze zifike ezikoleni zasenkulisa nhlobo.
Lo mbono ngokusemncane ususelwa yizikhungo zokulawulwa nokuvimbela izifo (CDC), okusho ukuthi abancane "abaneminyaka engu-1 kuya kwemibili ubudala." Othandekayo, "Okumele Ukulindele Phakathi Neminyaka Engaphansi Kwamancane," futhi uthi ukukhula komntwana kuhlanganisa iminyaka yesibili nesithathu yokuphila kwengane.
Yini Ongayilindela Kusane Wakho Ohamba Nakho
Izingane zikhula futhi zishintsha ngokushesha. Uma behlangabezana neziqondiso zokuthuthukiswa ngokufanele, bazozuza amakhono amaningi amasha. Ngokusho kweCDC:
Phakathi nonyaka wesibili, izingane ezincane zihamba ngokuzungezile futhi ziyazi ngokwabo kanye nezizungezile. Isifiso sabo sokuhlola izinto ezintsha nabantu siyakhula. Phakathi nalesi sigaba, izingane ezisencane zizobonisa ukuzimela okukhulu, ziqale ukubonisa ukuziphatha okungcolile, zizibonele ezithombeni noma esibukweni, futhi zilingise ukuziphatha kwabanye, ikakhulukazi abadala nabantu abadala. Izingane nazo kufanele zikwazi ukubona amagama abantu abajwayele kanye nezinto, zenze imisho nemisho elula, futhi ulandele imiyalelo elula nesiqondiso s.
Kukhona ububanzi obukhulu kakhulu phakathi nesikhathi izingane ezisencane zihlangabezana nezici ezithile. Uma ingane yakho ibonakala ihamba kancane kunezingane ezincane kakhulu ukuze zithole izinhlobo zamakhono ezichazwe ngenhla, zingase zivele zithuthuke ngokwabo. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi banenkinga yokuthuthukisa okufanele iqondiswe ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma unenkinga ngokuthuthukiswa komntanakho, khuluma nodokotela wezingane zakho.
> Imithombo:
> Amasevisi Okulawula Nokuvimbela Izifo. Abancane: 1-2 Iminyaka. Iwebhu. 2017.
> Murkoff, Heidi, Murkoff no-Eisenberg Hathaway.Sandee. "Okumele Ukulindele: Iminyaka Engaphansi Kwamancane." I-USA: Yini Ongayilindela LLC, 2009.
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