Unyaka ophakathi kwezinsuku zokubeletha zesibili kanye nesithathu kwengane yakho ugcwele izinyathelo ezimangalisayo. Ngenkathi izinga lomntanakho lokukhula lizohle linciphise kulo nyaka, isonto ngalinye lingase lenze ushintsho kulokho angakwenza nalokho akuqondayo.
Yiqiniso, zonke izingane zikhula ngokwayo, kodwa kukhona amakhono ajwayelekile ongawulindela ukuthi ingane yakho ikwazi ukuqonda kahle ngeminyaka yobudala 3. Lezi zihlanganisa:
- Amakhono emoto amakhulu
- Amakhono emoto amnandi
- Amakhono okuqonda noma okuqonda
- Amakhono okukhuluma
- Amakhono Ezenhlalakahle Nezimoya
Amakhono Emikhiqizo Yezimoto Ongayilindela Izingane Zibambe Ngeminyaka eyi-3
Amakhono emoto axhumene nendlela ingane yakho isebenzisa ngayo umzimba wakhe. Odokotela bezingane bahlula ukuthuthukiswa ezindaweni ezimbili: Injini enkulu kanye namakhono amakhono okuhamba. Amakhono kagesi amakhulu asebenzisa amaqembu amakhulu ama-muscle futhi ahlobene nokudlala okusebenzayo. Izinto ezibalulekile ngalesi sikhathi zingafaka:
- ugijime amabanga amaningana ngaphandle kokuwa
- ukukhuphuka ifenisha ephansi kanye nokuhleleka kwezinhlanzi kalula
- hamba ngezintambo
- hamba umugqa oqondile
- zihamba ngezinyathelo ezihamba ngezinyawo
- ukukhahlela ibhola
- Gxuma phezulu ngezinyawo zombili
- ukuhamba nge-tricycle
- uphonsa ibhola elikhulu
Qinisekisa: Yebo, konke okusebenzayo, ukukhuphuka, ukuxuma nokungahambisani nokuhamba kuyinkimbinkimbi ukuhambisana nayo. Kungase kube isilingo ukutshela umuntu oneminyaka emibili kuya kwengu-3 ubudala, "Hlala uhlale." Kodwa ukumvumela ukuba inkululeko yokuhamba kubalulekile. Njengoba unikezwe isikhathi nesikhala sokusebenzisa amakhono akhe angokwenyama, uzokuthuthukisa ukulinganisela okungcono nokuzethemba. Ngenkathi engenakugwema ukuhlushwa ezinye izifo, lesi sigaba singamsiza ukuba agweme ukuwa okukhulu nokulimala eminyakeni ezayo.
Amakhono Ezimoto Ezinhle Zokufuna Ngokweminyaka 3
Imisebenzi encike emakhono amakhono emoto yilabo abasebenzisa izandla namaqembu amancane ama-muscle. Amakhono amakhono emoto ongakulindela ukuthi ingane yakho ifinyelele eminyakeni engu-3 ihlanganisa:
- zondla ngokwakho (nakuba, usengakulindela imilayezo)
- vula amakhasi encwadini
- ubambe futhi ubhale kahle ngekrayoni
- hlamba izandla ezomile
- sigqoke izicathulo (kodwa hhayi ukubopha izintambo)
- sigqoke ngokwabo usizo
- ukwakha umbhoshongo wokwakha olinganiselayo
- ama-lids avulekile avulekile
Ukuqokomisa: Okunye okufezile okufeziwe kwengane yakho kulo nyaka kuzofunda ukufunda "ukudweba," nakuba izithombe zizobe zibhalwa phansi kanye nemigqa ekhasini. Ukuze ukhuthaze umlobi wakho wokubhaliwe nomculi unikeze amaphepha amaningi namathekisthi afanelekayo wokubhala ubudala (amakhrayoni, amamaki ahlulekayo, amapende amancane ). Mbonise ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani amathuluzi ngokufaka umbala nokudweba naye. Mfundise ukuthi yini enhle ukuyifaka (iphepha) nokuthi yini engekho (umbhede omhlophe), kodwa ungase ufune ukutshala emgqeni onokuzithokozisa uma kwenzeka ufika ezindongeni nasefenitheni ehlanganisa izigameko ezingenakugwemeka.
Amakhono Ehlakaniphile Noma Engqondweni
Ingqondo nomcabango wengane yakho kuzoqhakaza kulo nyaka. Njengoba eqala ukukhumbula futhi eqala ukuqonda okwengeziwe ngezwe elizungezile, uzogcwala imibuzo. Kungaba yinselele ukwazi ukuthi ingane yakho iyayiqonda ngempela nokuthi yini okudingeka ifundwe, kodwa lezi ezinye zezigigaba ongayilindela ukuthi zizuze ekupheleni konyaka:
- thola imibala eyisisekelo
- ubale amahlanu
- tshela izinhlamvu zamagama (kodwa angakwazi ukukhomba incwadi ngayinye ebhaliwe)
- ukudlala ukukholelwa ngamadonki, amathoyizi noma abanye abantu
- hlela izinto ngokuma nombala
- thola izimo eziyisisekelo
- fanisa izinto
- gcwalisa puzzle elula
- baqonde umqondo wezibili
- qaphela imisindo yansuku zonke
- qonda "ngaphambili," "ngemuva," "manje," "maduze" futhi "kamuva"
- khumbula okwenzekile izolo
- wazi ukuthi ukudlala kungobani
- ukuhleka ngemibono engcolile noma amahlaya
- uqonde imithetho ebalulekile yokuphepha (ungathinti isitofu esishisayo; uhlale kude nefasitela)
- landela imiyalo eyodwa noma emibili
- qaphela imizuzu engaba ngu-3
Ukugqamisa: Kule minyaka, kubalulekile ukuqonda nokulinganiselwa kwengqondo yengane yakho. Akafundile ukuhlukanisa iphutha elivela eqinisweni, ngakho-ke angakholelwa lokho akubona kuthelevishini noma ezincwadini kungokoqobo futhi angeke aqonde i-hyperbole efana nezitatimende: "Uma udla ezinye izaqathe uzothatha i-orange." Ukholelwa ukuthi konke kuhlobene nalokho akwenzile. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, uma kukhona "okubi" okwenzekayo angazibeka icala noma abuze ukuthi wenzani okungalungile. Ngisho noma efika isikhathi eside, amakhono akhe okucabanga alula kakhulu. Ukunamathela amaqiniso aqondile kuzokusiza ukuphatha ukuziphatha ("faka amaloli ebhokisini futhi ungadla ukudla kwakho" ngokuhambisana "kuhle futhi sizothola okuthile").
Amakhono okukhuluma ngamazwi ajwayelekile anezinsuku ezintathu
Ngezindlela eziningi, ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo kubonisa ushintsho olukhulu lomndeni wakho wonke. Njengoba ingane yakho encane ikwazi ukuveza izidingo zayo kanye nokufunayo, ungakwazi ukugwema lezo zinkinga zokuziphatha ezivame ukuvela ngenxa yokuthi ayikwazi ukukutshela ukuthi ufuna. Enye yentuthuko ngolimi ongayibona kulo nyaka ihlanganisa:
- landela imiyalo eyodwa noma emibili
- sebenzisa amagama omndeni nabangane
- igama izinto ezivamile
- qondisisa okuningi okushoyo (ingxoxo yansuku zonke)
- khuluma imisho emihlanu yegama
- isebenzisa izimemezelo (Mina, wena, mina, thina, bona) nezinye eziningi
- ukhuluma ngokucacile ukuze abantu abangabazi baqonde amagama amaningi
- qala ukujabulela imilolotelo kanye nemidlalweni engcolile kolwimi (ukubeka amagama angalungile kumaculo ozithandayo
- baqonde "amami"
- sebenzisa "mina" futhi "wena" ngokufanele
- tshela izindaba
- qhubeka nengxoxo yemisho emibili kuya emithathu
- ujabulele izincwadi nezindaba
- buza imibuzo elula
Ukugqamisa: Ngokusho kwe-American Academy of Pediatrics, kunokuhlukahluka okukhulu ekuthuthukiseni ulimi phakathi kwabaneminyaka yalesi sikhathi kunanoma iyiphi enye indawo yentuthuko. Kunezinhlobo ezahlukene "ezijwayelekile" nokunye okuhlukile. Ngokwesibonelo, amakhono amantombazane omlimi ngokuvamile ahlakulela ngaphambi kwabafana. Ezinye izingane ezincane nazo ziyingxoxo ngokwemvelo kanti ezinye zithulile. Ingane ingase ibe namakhono olimi athuthukile kakhulu, kodwa ingase ingakhethi ukukhuluma okuningi. Ngenkathi uqaphela ukulibaziseka kwelimi ukulinda, zama ukuqhathanisa amakhono omlomo wengane yakho kwabanye.
Amakhono Ezenhlalakahle Okuthi Abantwana Bathuthukise Ngokweminyaka 3
Ebusuku lokuzalwa kwesithathu kwengane yakho ungabona inguquko endleleni asebenzisana ngayo nezinye izingane. Leli phuzu lapho izingane eziningi ziqala ukuhamba khona ngokudlala (lapho izingane zidlala eduze komunye nomunye) ukuya eqenjini noma ukudlala okuhlangene (lapho eqinisana futhi edlala nabanye). Lokhu kusho ukuthi uzoqala ukudingeka ukuthi afunde indlela yokuhamba ngalezo zinsuku. Yisikhathi lapho ezokwenza khona amakhono abalulekile afana nalokhu:
- phenduka emidlalweni
- zimele ngokwengeziwe
- bonisa isithakazelo ekuzameni izinto ezintsha
- qamba imidlalo emnandi
- basebenzisane nezinye izingane
- khombisa imizwa eminingi
- ukopishe ukuziphatha kwabanye abantu (abadala nabangane)
- bonisa uthando ngabanye uqobo (ngaphandle kokusho ukuthi unika umngane umkhuleko)
- wazi igama lokuqala nokugcina
- qaphela lapho ezinye izenzo zingalungile futhi uzizwe uzwela
- zama ukwenza abanye bahleke
- ukudlala neqembu lezingane
- bonisa isithakazelo ekuqeqeshweni kwamanzi
Ukugqamisa: Ngesikhathi esifanayo ingane yakho ifuna ukuzimela kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho okusha, ungathola ukuthi uyathukuthela uma ehlukanisiwe nawe. Nakuba kunzima kubazali ukubona ingane ikhungathekile, ihlinzeka amathuba omntanakho ukuba ahlanganyele ngaphandle kwakho kubalulekile ekuthuthukiseni kwakhe. Lokhu kusho nokuthi kufanele uzame ukungagodli lapho ingane yakho idlala nabanye futhi ungaphazamisi empikiswaneni ngaphandle uma udinga ngempela. Ukhona othukuthele ngoba ithoyizi libanjwe noma enye ingane ayitholanga ithuba? Okulula "ake sihlanganyele futhi sidlale ndawonye" kulandelwa i-nudge ekhuthazayo yokubuyela komunye nomunye ingaba ngempumelelo kakhulu kunokungenelela ukuxazulula isimo. Khumbula, ingane yakho nabangane bakhe kudingeka bafunde ukudlala omunye nomunye, hhayi nabazali bomunye nomunye.
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