6 Amathiphu Okuphepha Okubalulekile Ingane Yakho Kufanele Yazi
Ingabe ingane yakho ingazi ukuthi yini okumelwe ikwenze uma ihlukanisiwe nawe endaweni egcwele abantu abaningi njengepaki noma imall? Ngenye yezinto ezibuhlungu kakhulu ezithinta inhliziyo kubazali kodwa okuyiwona wonke umzali okufanele alungiselele ingane yakhe. Ake sihlole izifundo eziyisithupha ongazifundisa izingane zakho ezingabagcina ziphephile uma zilahleka.
Yazi Ulwazi Lwakho
Qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho ikhumbula ngegama lakho eligcwele, inombolo yakho yefoni, nekheli lakho. Ezinye izingane ezincane ezinama-3 zingakwazi ukukhumbula inombolo yomakhalekhukhwini kamama noma kayise.
Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi amagama akho okuqala nokugcina. Khumbula, Nokho, ukuthi ezinye izingane ezincane zingakhohlwa amagama akho okuqala ngoba aziwasebenzisi ukubhekisela kubazali bazo.
Uma ingane yakho isencane kakhulu ukuyikhumbula ngekhanda imininingwane yakho, yilobe phansi ephepheni bese uyikhipha endaweni ephephile njengesihlangu noma ipokhethi. Khumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi iphi iphepha ngaphambi kokuya endaweni oya kuyo ukuze ikwazi ukutshela umuntu omdala ophephile ukuthi ukhona uma ngabe uhlukanisiwe.
Ukuzikhandla Ukukubiza
Yenza ingane yakho isebenze ukubiza ifoni yakho. Lokhu kuyasiza kakhulu ezinganeni ezindala uma zifunda ukusebenzisa ifoni futhi ungababiza ngokuthi ifoni yakho kusuka endaweni ehamba phambili noma kwenye ifoni.
Cela Usizo Ngokuphepha
Fundisa ingane yakho indlela yokucela usizo ngokuphepha. Kunokuba ufundise ingane yakho ukuba ingalokothi ikhulume nabantu abangabazi, yinike amandla ingane yakho futhi umtshele ukuthi acele owesifazane onomntwana usizo. Uma engakwazi ukubona enye, mtshele ukuthi afune owesifazane, umthengisi wesitolo ophethe i-nametag, noma unogada.
Mfundise ukuthi utshele lowo muntu omdala ukuthi ulahlekile futhi ubapha igama lakhe eligcwele, inombolo yakho yefoni, igama lakho, nolunye ulwazi oluyisisekelo.
Hlala Lapho Ukhona
Tshela ingane yakho ukuba ingalokothi ihambe ikufune uma ilahleka. Into engcono kakhulu okufanele bayenze ukuhlala lapho bekhona khona ukuze ukwazi ukuza nokuwathola.
Yenza Ukuzijabulisa Kujabulise
Yenza ukufunda lezi zeluleko kumnandi. Indlela enhle yokwenza lokho ukubuka ividiyo yokuphepha efana ne-"Safe Side-Stranger Safety: Amathiphu ashisayo wokugcina izingane ezipholile ziphephile nabantu abangazi futhi ziyazi," ezakhiwe yiNational Center yezingane ezingekho futhi ezixhashaziwe (NCMEC).
Ihambisa ulwazi olubalulekile lokuphepha, njengokuthi yini okufanele uyenze uma uhlukaniswa nomzali wakho, ngendlela ejabulisayo nelula yokuqonda ephelele ezinganeni. I-DVD kufanelekile ukuba neyakho ngoba ungayibheka njengomndeni njalo ngesinye isikhathi ukuvuselela inkumbulo yabo. Izingane ziyakuthanda nalokhu, futhi.
I-NCMEC iphinde isebenze iwebhusayithi ethi Kid Smartz. Igcwele ulwazi olubalulekile kubazali, amavidiyo amaningi wezingane, nemisebenzi engaqhubeka nezifundo zakho zokuphepha.
Zama ukukwenza
Hlanganisa "ukuthi ngabe uma" nengane yakho. Hamba ngalezi zikhathi ngezikhathi ezithile, ikakhulukazi ngaphambi kokuba uphume endaweni enabantu abaningi njengepaki, indawo yokudlala, noma enye indawo yomphakathi. Khumbula ukuthi akufanele neze ubeke ingane yakho engozini uma uqhuba, imibuzo elula nezimpendulo zizokwenza.
I-NCMEC itusa ukuhamba ngezinhlobo ezahlukene zezimo ezifana nalezi:
- "Ungenzenjani uma ungangiboni?"
- "Ungenzenjani uma ungaboni umama wengane ngokushesha uma uqaphela ukuthi sasihlukanisiwe?"
- "Ungenzenjani uma othile ethi kufanele uhambe nabo ukuthola nami ?"
Uma uphumelele futhi cishe, sebenzisa lezi zeluleko nengane yakho ngokubuza ukuthi yikuphi kwabantu abadala abakuzungezile ukuthi uzosondela uma elahlekile.
Izwi elivela ku-Verywell
Izifundo ezilula nezikhumbuzo ngezikhathi ezithile zingagcina izingane zakho ziphephile lapho zisemphakathini . Buyekeza lezi zeluleko zokuphepha njalo lapho ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho idinga ukuqinisekisa ukuthi bayakwazi ukuthi benzeni uma uhlukaniswa. Khumbula ukugcina izinto ezimnandi, noma kunjalo. Kuyinto engathà sina, kepha izingane zivame ukugcina ulwazi uma zijabulela ukufunda.
> Umthombo:
> Isikhungo Sikazwelonke Sezingane Ezilahlekile Nezixhashaziwe. Amathiphu kubazali: Izimo zokuphepha. 2014. http://www.kidsmartz.org/~/media/KidSmartz/ResourceDocuments/KidSmartz_Safety_Scenarios.pdf