Kusukela kumntwana kuya komuntu omncane
Iningi labantu abadala bayazi ukuthi yini 'intombazane'. Kodwa, uma sekuyiminyaka embalwa kusukela uke waba khona, kungenzeka ukuthi ukhohliwe zonke lezo zinto ezihambisana nalawo minyaka eyishumi.
Iminyaka eyishumi iyisikhathi sokushintsha, ukufunda, nokuhlola. Futhi ubuchwepheshe banamuhla kusho ukuthi intsha iveza futhi ikhulume ngezindlela ezahlukene kunezizukulwane ezedlule.
Yini Entsha?
Intsha noma intsha iyigama kabanzi elisetshenziselwa ukuchaza iqembu lobudala phakathi kobuntwana nokudala. Ngokujwayelekile, iminyaka eyamukelekile yentsha noma intsha iyineminyaka engu-13 kuya kwangu-19 ubudala.
Intsha iyisikhathi sokuguquka ekubeni ngumntwana othembekile kumuntu omdala osezimele. Phakathi nalesi sigaba sokuthuthukiswa komzimba ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, intsha ijwayele ukufuna ukuzimela nokuzama ukuziphatha kwabantu abadala.
Umzimba Omkhulu
Intsha ikhula ngokushesha ngokomzimba. Ukushintsha kokubukeka phakathi kweminyaka engu-12 no-19 kuyinguquko engavamile. Phakathi kokukhula okukhula nokukhulelwa, intsha iqala ngokubukeka njengabantu abadala kunabantwana.
Lokhu kungashintsha futhi kungakhathaza intsha. Bazokujabulela ukubukeka bekhulile kodwa bangase bazizwe bengakhululekile ngesikhathi esifanayo. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi kwentsha ekhula kancane kunabangani bayo.
Bangase bazizwe behluleka ngezikhathi ezithile futhi badinga usizo lwabazali babo, kokubili ngokomzwelo nangencazelo yezinguquko zomzimba abazizwayo.
I-Mind Teen kanye nesimo sengqondo
Abazali basencane bavame ukuhleka usulu ngezingqondo zabo ezintsha nezishintshayo. Isikhathi esinkimbinkimbi sabasha ngoba banzima nokucindezela kontanga, izinguquko ze-hormonal kanye nesifiso sokuzimela.
Intsha nabazali bayo bangaphikisana futhi balwe nezihloko ezincane.
Bayoba nomnandi kakhulu njengoba lo mfana eba ngumuntu osemusha futhi ujabulela izingxoxo nokuvuthwa okungaphezulu.
Iminyaka eyishumi nayo iyisikhathi lapho izinkinga eziningi zokuziphatha zibonakala khona. Intsha ekhungathekile ingase ilandele izindlela ezimbi futhi ibeke engozini ngokwabo noma kwabanye. Kubalulekile ukufuna usizo ngezibonakaliso zokuqala zokuziphatha okuyingozi noma izinkinga zempilo yengqondo .
Ukuzibophezela kokufunda
Iminyaka eyishumi iyisikhathi esibucayi sokuba abantu abasha bazenzele izinqumo ngokwabo futhi banikwe umthwalo wemfanelo. Umthwalo obaluleke kakhulu ongawuthatha manje, kancane kancane uzobhekana nobunzima ngesikhathi beshintshela abantu abadala.
Imithwalo yemfanelo efundwa njengabasha ihlanganisa:
- Qedela imisebenzi ngokuphumelelayo nangendlela efanele ekhaya, esikoleni nasemsebenzini.
- Ukunakekela ukuhlanzeka kwabo kanye nezinto zabo.
- Bonisa ububele kwabanye abantu.
- Ukuba nomphakathi obhekene nokuphila kwabo nsuku zonke futhi ku-intanethi.
- Lawula imizwelo yabo futhi uhlanganyele ngokufanele nabantu.
- Qonda ukuthi umsebenzi wezocansi ungaholela emiphumeleni.
- Indlela yokubhekana nokucindezela kontanga izimo ezifana nokuphuza, ukubhema nokusebenzisa izidakamizwa.
- Amalungelo omuntu afana nokushayela imoto noma ne-akhawunti yasebhange.
- Bamba umsebenzi futhi usebenze kahle nabanye eqenjini.
- Ikhono lokuthola nokusebenzisa imali ngokuhlakanipha.
Ukuhlola ikusasa
Iminyaka eyishumi iyisikhathi sokuhlola. Lena ithuba lomdala lomuntu omdala lokuloba ikusasa labo futhi banqume ukuthi yini abafuna ukuyenza ngemva kwesikole.
Kuyathakazelisa ukucabanga ngamathuba futhi ube nethemba namaphupho mayelana nomsebenzi, umndeni, nokuphila kude nomuzi.
Izwe livulekele intsha futhi lingase liphazamise ngezikhathi ezithile. Abazali kufanele baqaphele ukubeka ingcindezi enkulu noma encane kakhulu ekwenzeni lokho abakucabanga ukuthi yizinqumo 'ezilungile' zekusasa labo elisencane.