Uma kuziwa kwentsha kanye nokusetshenziswa kwamathoni , kunemibuzo eminingi nemicabango engalungile. Abazali kanye nentsha banemibuzo efanayo futhi ngokuvamile bazibuza ukuthi amathoni angasetshenziswa yini ngesikhathi sobuncane.
Lokhu akulula ukuphendula njengoba ungase ucabange ngoba kunezici ezimbalwa eziphendulayo. Ngokuvamile, yebo, intombazane ingase isetshenziswe ngaphambi kokulahlekelwa yintombi yakhe.
Futhi, ukusebenzisa i-tampon akusho ukuthi akaseyona 'intombi.'
Uzofuna ukuxoxa ngalokhu nentsha yakho ngakho uyaqonda kahle ukuthi kwenzekani ngomzimba wakhe. Angase azwe izingane esikoleni zixoxisane ngalokhu ngemigomo efana 'pop pop cherry' noma eminye imisho engafanele futhi ingabangela ukukhathazeka nokuhlazeka.
Kungumqondo omuhle ukukhuluma ngokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba intombi kanye nemigomo umndeni wakho inayo uma kuziwa ocansini.
Ingabe Uzobe Uyi-Virgin Lapho Usebenzisa I-Tampon?
Ngelinye igama: YEBO. Kodwa umbuzo ubuza ngempela ngezinkinga ezimbili ezihlukene.
- Umbuzo wokuqala yilokho okwenza intombi ibe yiyiphi intombi.
- Umbuzo wesibili ubuza mayelana ne-hymen nokuthi ihlobene kanjani nentombi.
Iyini Intombi?
Lo ngumbuzo obanzi futhi ungase uthole izimpendulo ezihlukile kuye ngokuthi ubani ocela.
Kwabesifazane, incazelo yezobuchwepheshe 'yezintombi' ngumuntu ongakaze alale ubulili lapho ipeni lomuntu lingena emlonyeni wakhe.
Ngakho-ke uma lokhu kuyincazelo yakho yobuntombi, owesifazane useyintombi emva kokusebenzisa ithikithi.
Iyini i-Hymen?
I-hymen yimbumbulu elincane elithatha ngaphesheya kokuvula kwesifazane. I-hymen emantombazaneni asanda kuzalwa inqwaba futhi lokhu kuvimba ngokwemvelo futhi kuvulwa eminyakeni edlule.
Le membrane ayifuni ukumboza konke ukuvula kwesifazane.
Ngenkathi intombazane ifinyelela ekukhuleni, kunesikhala esanele sokuvumela igazi ukuba lidlule. Uma ama-hymen ayemboze ngokuphelele isisu, ukuya esikhathini ngeke kwenzeke.
Kulaba besifazane abaningi, ngesikhathi esifinyelela ekufikeni kwentsha, izicubu ze-hymen zincane kakhulu ukuze zivumeleke ukuphepha ukusetshenziswa kwamathoni.
Yini I-Hymen Eyayithinta Ngayo Insizwa?
I-hymen ibilokhu ibhekwe njengezimpawu zobuntombi emazweni amaningi. Kwezinye izimo, lapho intombi ene-hymen eqondile ihamba ngokocansi okokuqala, i-hymen izoklebhula futhi ichithe.
Kwacatshangwa ukuthi uma intombazane ingazange iphuze ngemuva kokuqala kokulala ngokobulili, akufanele abe yintombi. Lokhu akulungile ngokuphelele.
Lezi zindaba zenzeke ngokweqile kangangokuthi kwamanye amasiko, amadoda asanda kushada ayodingeka aveze amashidi egazi ngemva kobusuku bawo bomshado. Kwacatshangwa ukuthi ubufakazi bokuthi umkakhe omusha wayeyintombi futhi ukuthi empeleni wayidla umshado.
Kwamanye emiphakathini, abesifazane bangase bahlolwe ngaphambi kokushada ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uhlanzekile. Uma i-hymen yakhe ibonakalisiwe, ukunikezwa komshado kungasuswa futhi kungenzeka ukuthi waphila impilo yakhe ngenhlamba yokungcola. Kweminye yalezi ziko, lokhu kwakuyinkokhelo ephezulu yokukhokha, ngisho noma leyo ntombazane yayiyintombi ngempela.
I-Myth Myth Yabekwa
Njengoba kukhonjisiwe, akuyona into eyenziwa yimuphi owesifazane wesifazane ukuba ahlale eqinile ngokugcwele ukuze ubukhona bawo bodwa bungabi bufakazi bokuphela kwentombi yowesifazane.
- I-hymen ingakwazi ukwelula ukumboza iningi lokuvulwa kwesifazane noma ingaba nezimo eziguquguqukayo futhi iphikisana nokuqothuka, ngisho nangemva kokuya ocansini.
- I-hymen ingalimazwa ngamathoni, izivivinyo zezokwelapha, ngisho nezinhlobo ezithile zomsebenzi wokuzikhandla.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi intombazane isesimweni esingaqondakali (esingenakwenzeka), akusho ukuthi uyintombi noma cha. Ubuqili buhlobene nokusebenza kocansi, hhayi ukuhlangana kwe-hymen!
Umthombo:
Behrman, RE, Kliegman, RM, noJenson, HB. UNelson Bookbook of Pediatrics, 2004.