Amathiphu Okukhuluma Nothisha Wakho Wezingane Ezifuywayo

Izingqungquthela zabazali nabafundisi kuyindlela enhle yokwazi uthisha wengane yakho nokumvumela ukuba azi okuthile ngawe nokukhathazeka kwakho. Ngenkathi izingqungquthela zabazali nabafundisi bezikole zingakuvumela ukuba ufunde ngezinqubomgomo zobuntu nobuntu, ngokuvamile zifushane kakhulu ukuvumela noma iyiphi ingxoxo ejulile ngezinkinga noma izidingo zezingane. Indlela engcono yokuxoxa nengane yakho ukusetha inkomfa yangasese. Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso zengxoxo ephumelelayo.

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Yenza Uhlu Lokukhathazeka

Uhlu lokukhathazeka yindlela enhle yokuqala ukulungiselela umhlangano nothisha. Uma ukhathazekile ngomsebenzi wesikole, bhala lokho phansi. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuziphatha, bhala lokho phansi. Akudingekile futhi akufisi ukubhala phansi konke okukhathazayo ongase ube nakho. Esikhundleni salokho, gxila kwiyodwa noma ezimbili zezindaba ezibaluleke kakhulu. Ukuzama ukumboza yonke inkinga eyodwa emhlanganweni owodwa kungabangela ukulimaza.

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Xoxa nengane yakho Yenza ingane yakho yazi ukuthi uhlela ukukhuluma nothisha. Kungenzeka ukuthi usuvele wazi imizwa yengane yakho ezindabeni ofuna ukuxoxa ngazo, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi abe nento engayengeza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuhle ukulalela kokubili iphuzu lokubuka kwengane yakho nothisha. Ngezinye izikhathi ingane ingaphanga kabi isimo, futhi ngezinye izikhathi uthisha akaqapheli imizwa yengane. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi ukuthi uzozama ukuxazulula izinkinga; awukhona nje ukuzokhononda.

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Beka Iphothifoliyo Yomsebenzi Wengane Yakho

Uma ubulokhu ugcina iphothifoliyo yomsebenzi wengane yakho, bheka kulo ukuze uthole izibonelo zomsebenzi ezingase zisekele ukuthi yini oyifunayo uthisha mayelana nendodana noma indodakazi yakho. Isibonelo, ukhathazekile ngokuthi umsebenzi wesikole ulula kakhulu, thola amasampula omsebenzi ezingeni elifanayo ingane yakho eyenze ngonyaka odlule (noma amabili) noma umsebenzi wamanje othuthuke kakhulu. Izingane eziningi, ikakhulukazi abathandekayo othisha, azivezi njalo amakhono abo eqiniso, ngakho-ke uthisha angeke aziqaphele.

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Setha Ukuqokwa

Ukukhathazeka kwakho ngomntanakho kubalulekile, ngakho-ke ufuna ukuxoxa nabo ngokushesha. Noma kunjalo, unethuba elingcono lokuxazulula ngempumelelo noma yiziphi izinkinga uma wenza i-aphoyintimenti nomfundisi. Ukwenza i-aphoyintimenti kunezinzuzo eziningana:

• Bobabili wena nothisha unesikhathi sokulungiselela
• Awuthandi kakhulu ukumbamba uthisha ngesikhathi esifanele
• Ibonisa inhlonipho futhi iqala ukuqala onyaweni olufanele

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Gcina isimo sengqondo esifanele Isimo sengqondo esihle sibalulekile ngaphambi, ngesikhathi, nangemva kwenkomfa nomfundisi. Izingane zingathatha isimo sengqondo esibi futhi uma umntwana ecabanga ukuthi umzali akavumelani noma akahloniphi uthisha, ingane izocabanga ukuthi isimo sengqondo siyamukeleka, okuzokwenza nje ukuthi izinkinga ezikhona zibi nakakhulu futhi zilukhuni ukuxazulula. Shiya intukuthelo yakho ekhaya ngoba kungakwenza ubonakale ungenangqondo futhi ubangele uthisha ukuba avikele, futhi akekho oyosiza ingane yakho.

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Gwema Amazwi athi "Okukhathazekile" futhi "Okuphethwe"

Zimbalwa izinto ezingamcasula uthisha ngaphezu kokumtshela ukuthi ingane yakho inesithukuthezi ekilasini lakhe. Iningi labothisha abahlosile ukudala izifundo ezimbi; bavame ukusebenza kanzima ukudala izifundo ezizojabulisa futhi ezithakazelisayo. Igama elithi "elinikeziwe" lenza abanye othisha bazizwe bekhuluma nomzali oyedwa ongumculi. Kunalokho, khuluma ngezindlela zokufunda. Ungabonisa, isibonelo, ukuthi ingane yakho ifundela kangcono uma inikezwa umsebenzi onzima.

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Gcina Ukugxila Enganeni Yakho

Othisha banengane engaphezu kweyodwa ukuba bakhathazeke ngakho futhi bangaphendula ngokukhathazeka kwakho ngokukhomba ukuthi ezinye izingane zidinga yini. Ungasho ukuthi ngenkathi uyazisa ukukhathazeka kwabo kubo bonke abantwana, ukhona lapho ukuxoxa nengane yakho. Isibonelo, uthisha angasho ukuthi ngeke kube kuhle kwabanye abantwana ukunikeza ingane yakho umsebenzi okhethekile. Mtshele ukuthi uyakwazisa ukuthi uyakhathazeka ngabanye abantwana, kodwa ukukhathazeka kwakho kuyinto efanele kumntanakho.

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Cela ukucaciswa

Abaningi othisha baqeqeshwe ukugxila ekulahlekeni kwezemfundo - ezemfundo, ezomzwelo, nezenhlalakahle. Ngenxa yalokho, uthisha angasho ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho idinga ukuthuthukiswa. Isibonelo, angase akutshele ukuthi ingane yakho ayifuni ukubhekana nomsebenzi onzima kakhulu. Buza ukuthi yini eyenza ukuthi ucabange ukuthi ingane yakho ikhulile futhi ucele izibonelo zokuziphatha okungakafiki . Buza nokuthi ezinye izingane ziziphatha ngezindlela ezifanayo. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukuziphatha kuhle kakhulu kulelo qembu lobudala.

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Thuthukisa Uhlelo Lokusebenza Sebenza nothisha ukuthuthukisa izinyathelo ezithile ozozithatha kokubili ukusiza ukuxazulula inkinga. Zimbalwa izingqinamba zesikole ezingasetshenziswa esikoleni yedwa. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho ingaphenduki emsebenzini wakhe wesikole futhi ucela ukuthi anikwe umsebenzi onzima kakhulu, ungavuma ukubeka isikhathi esithile somsebenzi wesikole futhi uvumele ukuyihlola ngenkathi uthisha angavuma ukuzama ukumnika ngaphezulu sebenzisa.

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Thumela Ukubonga Qaphela Ngosuku olulodwa noma amabili emva komhlangano, thumela uthisha incwadi ukubonga ngokuhlangana nawe. Bhala izinyathelo wena nothisha ovumelene ukuthatha ukubhekana nokukhathazeka kwakho. Leli nothi aligcini nje ngokuthi ukubonga, kodwa futhi njengendlela yokuchaza ukuqonda kwakho ngezinyathelo ozothatha kokubili noma kwanoma yimuphi omunye umphumela womhlangano. Uma kukhona ukungaqondi kahle, kungalungiswa ngaphambi kokuba kubangele izinkinga.